A friend went to a parent-teacher conference for her third-grade daughter, and she found something interesting.
Parents surrounded the head teacher, and the most common thing the head teacher said was: children are very smart, but they still need to be careful in learning.
My friend was a little puzzled, could it be that after being a teacher for a long time, he could really see which child was smart at a glance? Which kid is stupid? Is it so magical?
I know a senior primary school teacher with 30 years of experience, and she once said: "My eyes are a ruler!" I can see at a moment what children are smart and what children have the stamina to learn.
At a glance, you can see which child is smart
Why would this old teacher say such affirmative things?
From the teacher's point of view, a smart child is eye-catching, a little bit clear, a flexible brain, and a light in his eyes. It's hard for such a child to get bad grades.
The old teacher gave a very simple example: take the eyes as an example, a smart child is more attentive than the average baby, you can feel that he is listening, and the eyes can communicate with you.
On the contrary, some children's eyes are wandering, and they will turn a deaf ear to the advice and advice you give him, as if they could not hear you.
I have a friend Xiaoxiao, when her baby was young, Xiaoxiao knew that her son had average intelligence. But grandparents, grandparents, relatives and friends all say that he is smart, but in fact, Xiaoxiao thinks that his son is lively and cheerful, the kind of social cow.
Perhaps in the eyes of many parents, smart children are: lively, imitating adults to speak, being bold in character, etc., these are indeed the shining points of children's personalities.
However, when it comes to learning smartness, these are not enough.
What is the standard of a so-called smart child? In particular, these characteristics can't be hidden!
Smart baby, these characteristics can't be hidden
After being a teacher for a long time, I have more students, and I have to admit that the IQ gap between people is really big.
The 30-year-old teacher has brought a very, very smart child, but he has poor study habits and misses homework. The final result was that he did not learn as well as his classmates with lower IQs.
This kind of intelligence allowed him to "get by" in elementary school. However, in junior high school, this IQ advantage will be quickly consumed by bad habits, and grades will naturally plummet.
Smart baby, these characteristics can't be hidden.
Generally speaking, most of the children in the class have similar intelligence. And those smart babies are nothing more than a little better in their study habits and a little more focused.
When I was in high school, there was a classmate in my class, and I didn't think she was particularly smart, but she had a great gift for her studies, and that was her ability to focus on her studies. Maybe someone else will get distracted after studying for 10 minutes, but she can study for a day, and it is very efficient.
I think study methods and study habits are very important. If the learning method is used correctly, the child's learning results will be more obvious, and only then can they produce more positive internal motivation in learning.
This set of "Learning Without Trouble" is summarized by many front-line teachers to help children find a set of scientific and efficient learning methods.
Children don't like boring preaching, and this set of books is more interesting, through the fun form of comics and original stories, the learning methods of various disciplines are integrated into comics.
There are 10 volumes in this set, each with a theme, 100 funny comics. Children just want to play, don't want to do homework, overtake in corners during the holidays, can't remember, anxious...... The answers to the problems that children encounter in learning can be found in this set of books.
Only by finding the right way can your child's grades be topped.
Use the form of comics that children like to show real learning scenes, so that children can read with a special sense of substitution.
What's more, these learning methods in the book are integrated into the plot of the comics. Let children be relaxed and happy, and master simple and practical learning methods.
This is more effective than the nagging of parents, and the child can listen to it.
Cultivate children's good study habits and reduce children's fear of learning difficulties, so that children can have better action when writing homework.
Children don't learn well, it's not that they don't want to learn, but they just haven't found a good way to learn.
Solve common problems such as children's deviations, procrastination, distraction, and poor memory. Let children develop learning habits such as listening to lectures, taking notes, previewing, and reviewing.
It is not costly, the content is interesting and easy to read, so that children can easily master good learning habits by themselves. I have put the link to this set of "No Worries in Learning" below. Let Puwa also counterattack and learn to the next level.
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Explain the underlying logic of learning, present learning skills in scenes, and meet the needs of children to improve their learning and higher education.
Although the pace of growth is different for each child, the earlier the study habits are cultivated, the more suitable the child is for exam-oriented education.
A child's future is limitless.