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Wu Jinyan became popular with the hit of "Ink Rain and Clouds", and the past interviews were "picked up" again, and some old history has also become hot knowledge, such as before she went to Nortel to perform, she was a ballet student of the High School Affiliated to Beijing Dance, and she once joined the National Ballet of China, but decided to re-enter the school due to injury. On June 18th, on the homecoming day of the alumni of Beiwu High School, Wu Jinyan was really dressed in fine clothes and "school", which attracted students to take a group photo.
Wu Jinyan is a beauty from Dujiangyan, Chengdu, but she has lived in her hometown for a short time, and she was admitted to the Beiwu High School at the age of 10.
Listening to her tell the story of going to school in Beijing alone is quite emotional, leaving her parents to live in a group dormitory at such a young age, not only to receive high-intensity professional dance training, but also to understand what scientific dieting is early.
Sister Wu said that since she was 10 years old, she had to mentally count calories at every meal, and how much she ate had to be consumed through exercise.
Even on weekends when school is closed, I don't dare to go out of school to treat myself to a good meal, because on Monday morning, when the scale is weighed, the pointer is a little more to the right, and you have to be punished.
This kind of life of being away from home, training hard, and being extremely self-disciplined will definitely not be a happy childhood for them at a young age.
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Speaking of which, most of the female stars of domestic entertainment who can walk in front of the audience are considered winners in life, and fame and fortune and economic freedom are not small goals that are difficult for them to achieve.
But with beauty and wealth, when they talk about their childhood life after becoming famous, many people have similar childhood memories - leaving home and parents at a young age, living in a group, practicing dance or opera and other skills, and often getting used to independence early than their peers.
The deepest impression is that once I watched "Make Life Look Good 2", Cecilia Cheung, Chen Xiaojun, Shen Mengchen, Wu Xuanyi Four female stars sat together to eat and chat, Cecilia Cheung said that her son was in the rebellious period of youth and made her very distressed, and she also mentioned that her youth rebellious period was spent abroad alone.
It sounds "miserable".
Cecilia Cheung said that she flew to Europe to study alone at the age of 14, and she didn't even have a person to drop off the plane, and she didn't have a mobile phone at that time, so she flew away recklessly. She has also told this story in other programs before, and there are some details such as her father did not give her tuition, and after arriving in Europe, she worked several jobs every day in order to make up for tuition fees and had no time to attend classes, and one day she received a call from the school and was told to drop out...... However, Cecilia Cheung's sister's words, the details are more exaggerated, let's listen to it. #根据她宣之于媒体的人生经历,Europe here may also be Australia.,Because of pronunciation problems,The subtitle group has been playing Europe.
However, several other female stars at the banquet echoed and said that their adolescent rebellious period was also spent alone.
Like Chen Xiaojun, like Wu Jinyan, he began to "drift north" at the age of 10.
She is a 99-level ballet major in the High School Affiliated to Beijing Dance, three years higher than Wu Jinyan, and is considered a senior sister in the same school.
Chen Xiaojun also danced ballet for 7 years, and after graduation, he got two offers from the National Ballet of China and the Beijing Dance Academy at the same time, but because of overwork in dancing, he had a severe asthma attack, so he had to change halfway to apply for Chinese opera.
Shen Mengchen and Wu Xuanyi also left their parents early because they learned to dance.
Shen Mengchen's story sounds the most wronged, she said that she reads well, one day a friend of her mother saw her, and enthusiastically proposed to her mother, your daughter's body proportion is so good, it's a pity not to learn to dance, her mother heard it, and packed her 13-year-old "old" to Changsha to learn to dance.
Shen Mengchen said that he had hard bones, but he was not suitable for learning dance, and suffered a round of various crimes, and the most serious was a comminuted fracture of the lumbar vertebrae, but he still persevered until graduation. I didn't like dancing much, so I held my breath in my heart to win glory for my parents, and later accompanied my first boyfriend to meet my parents, and was disgusted by my boyfriend's mother's face for being too low, Sister Shen was greatly stimulated, gritted her teeth and applied for the performance major of Hunan University and got a bachelor's degree.
Wu Xuanyi's story is even more well-known, at the age of 12, she learned to dance in the "North Drift", was discovered by talent scouts at the age of 15, and went to South Korea as a trainee at the age of 18...... She learned to live alone early, she admitted that she was not close to her parents, her parents were busy with their livelihood in the early years, she lived with her grandmother, and the first thing she did when she earned money was to build a house for her grandparents.
There are a lot of dance students in internal entertainment, but the first time there was such a concrete impact was from this variety show, 4 girls, all of whom left home at a young age, and 3 of them were dance students.
Because children who learn dance practice children's skills, they have been screened early in appearance and figure, and those who look good and have good proportions are often shown in primary school and are selected by professional art schools for training.
A school of this level like the North Dance Affiliated School is selected from tens of thousands of people every year in the country. This year, the North Dance High School released the list, and several popular Internet celebrity dance bloggers such as "Little Bean Miao" fell off the list, and everyone sighed with emotion, the recruitment conditions of the North Dance are so harsh, and the proportions of the body alone need to be wrist line over the crotch, and the leg length is 12 cm longer than the upper body...... And the probability of these "beauty embryos" changing performances halfway is also very high, and compared with ordinary people, they naturally have an advantage in "appearance".
Like Wu Jinyan, who went to the art examination at the age of 18, the media camera at the school gate took a casual shot, and a group of people was naturally the focus.
Because of this appearance advantage, when many big directors choose actors for their films, they like to go to the North Dance to pick seedlings, which is better than the past acting academy.
The rivers and lakes laughed, first-class beauties danced in the north, and second-rate beauties went to the Chinese opera Nortel.
Therefore, there are especially many children from the North Dance Department in internal entertainment. In addition to the above-mentioned ones, the more famous ones are Zhang Ziyi, Liu Shishi, Jing Tian, Li Xiaoran, Yao Chen, Chen Shu, Li Yitong, Li Chun, Liu Haocun, Ren Min, Wang Yan, Liu Zi, Sun Feifei, Jiang Mengjie, Song Qian, Miao Miao, Sun Li, Zhang Huiwen, Liu Lingzi, Su Xiaotong, Liu Haoran, Zhang Xincheng, Chen Xingxu...... There are also people like Jin Chen, who were admitted to the Shanghai Opera High School at the age of 10 as "Shanghai Piao", and then took the North Dance Examination in college, and the "North Dance Department" is one of the base camps for domestic entertainment talents.
And most of these people have experienced adolescence when they left home and drifted north alone.
According to the incomplete statistics of netizens, I will not comment on anything else, the Northern Dance Department is indeed aesthetically first-class in the beauty pageant embryo. And don't wonder why "King Jiji" Liu Guanlin appears in this collection, he mainly focuses on musicals
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Many female stars recall their days in the High School Attached to Beijing Dance, and they are quite indescribable.
"Hardship" is the first keyword.
Wu Jinyan said that there is no entertainment in the days of the Northern Dance, practicing from morning to night, and knowing how to take care of his body at the age of 10. In addition to textbooks, I also have to put all kinds of painkillers and plasters in my schoolbag, and the first thing I do when I go back to the dormitory every day is to spray myself, and I must always have infrared therapy equipment, and I can relieve pain, bandage, and physiotherapy for myself.
At her age, it was originally when she loved to eat snacks, and she would buy some carbonated drinks to drink when she couldn't help it, but at this time, she was most afraid of meeting a teacher, and when she saw it from afar, she would immediately find a trash can to "destroy the corpse".
She is already able to endure hardships and adapt.
Like Jing Tian, her temperament is more arrogant than Wu Jinyan, and she can't control it when she eats this piece, and she gained 20 pounds in the first year of studying at Beiwu High School.
During the winter vacation, the teacher called her parents and said that if she couldn't lose 10 pounds during this vacation, she would have to drop out of school. So on the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner of the Spring Festival, Jing Tian enjoyed the treatment of "a plate of mixed cucumbers".
Many years later, Jing Tian, who is known as the "rich flower" of your circle, still has a handful of bitter tears when she talks about these, saying that those years are like a nightmare.
You can't escape if you want to.
After graduating from the High School, she was admitted to the musical theater major of the Beijing Dance Academy, not only to dance, but also to practice singing, and she was even more desperate. felt that this was "not a place for me to play, not suitable", I was repulsed, and I didn't go to class, at this time, she had signed a contract with a brokerage company, and her wings were hard, so she simply dropped out of school and transferred to Nortel.
She said that in the days of Beiwu, she was quite lost, knowing that she was not so talented and not liked by the teacher, and she felt much more comfortable and happy when she went to Nortel.
What I remember more than her story is Chen Xiaojun. She is so miserable, she is allergic to acute aerobic exercise, and she doesn't know it, she often has allergies and rashes on her thighs when she runs in the morning, and she squats down and scratches when she can't bear it, and the teacher blames her for being lazy. In order to prove that she was not lazy, she continued to run again......
She is a really ruthless person, even if she can insist on dancing for six or seven years, and later because of frequent asthma, she completely decided to transform into a Chinese opera. I didn't expect to enter the entertainment industry as an actor, and after seven or eight years, I still went around and around and became beautiful through various sports competition variety shows.
Don't look at her swimming skills, gymnastics cow, the reporter asked her if she likes sports, my sister said with a bitter face, where do I like sports, I have a rash as soon as I exercise, I don't like sports at all. But the perseverance she has cultivated over the years has allowed her to overcome her itching and bring out her full potential in every sport.
It's like she went to have her bones straightened, and she had to endure it again and again. In order to practice dancing to maintain your figure, lose weight and lose stomach problems. is so ruthless, when I think that she was born to learn to dance, I suddenly feel it.
Children who learn to dance are accustomed to persistence, pain and loneliness since childhood, and their perseverance and endurance are much stronger than their peers, and they also learn to be independent early.
Because of leaving home too early to enter the collective life, in a group of peers with superior strength, quickly find their place, to snatch the teacher's attention, knowing that there is nothing to rely on around, everything has to rely on their own to fight, this wolf survival mode of children who grow up, I don't know whether it is fortunate or unfortunate.
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According to the evaluation criteria of mainstream success, they are naturally the lucky ones who have achieved fame, they paid a lot back then, and now they have become big stars, everyone lives in the spotlight, beautiful and strong, where is a little bit of a miserable word.
But according to the current popular parent-child education theory, do these children who are weaned early really have no regrets about the wandering life of teenagers leaving home? When they become adults, how much effort and energy do they have to feed back the lack of love in their youth?
Experts in parenting psychology always say that success in any social sense cannot meet children's "expectations of love", and the more the need for intimacy is lacking, the more like a black hole, which needs to be filled with money, power and even countless times of love in adulthood.
Like Miao Miao, a female star who also graduated from the High School Affiliated to Beiwu, we wrote before that she entered the collective life too early, and she still has a deep fear of crowds and social interaction when she grows up. Even followed her husband to record variety shows, what she was most worried about was not being able to fit in, and I don't know what bad things she had encountered in the past years.
She left home at the age of 10, her parents gave birth to a younger sister, and the feeling of abandonment has always been with her.
Later, even if she became a "Feng girl" and a big star, and the Cotai Avenue of her career was spread out in front of her eyes, she still gave priority to marrying and having a baby, starting a family, and living with her parents.
Of course, more people will be like Wu Xuanyi, because they left home too early and separated from their parents, they are used to making their own decisions about everything, but it is difficult to be close to their families anymore.
She said in the show that when she was out alone, she was basically disconnected from her family, "because I don't like to talk about negative energy things too much, and my parents will worry a lot when I say it, and I may even call me often, which makes me feel very troublesome." ”
Chen Xiaojun also talked about how he once complained to his parents, why he threw her 10-year-old in Beijing and let her grow up alone and savagely, but when she grew up, she gradually became relieved, because her parents wanted her to live a different life from them.
She said that the longest period of time she lived under the same roof with her parents when she grew up was during the epidemic, when the family lived together for two or three months. Later, she was slowly able to get along peacefully, but this time of fighting was also the happiest time in the years she remembered later.
Her biggest wish is to buy a big house and live with her parents, but intellectually she will feel that this plan is not very feasible, "because my parents may not want to live with me, people like two people, and they will quarrel with me." ”
She always felt unwanted in that family relationship.
Li Chun showed a letter written to him by his parents when he was studying at Beiwu High School in the show.
She said that at that time, in order to come to see her, her parents had to sit for more than ten hours on the train every time, and her legs were swollen. Later, when my father was laid off and went to work in other places, my mother wrote to her, telling her that she would have to run at both ends in the future, and that there would be less time to visit her.
- Perhaps, every parent who sends their children out to suffer at a young age may have their own "far-reaching" love and considerations, as well as a lot of last resort, and these female stars who can eventually achieve their careers are already the most rewarding group of people.
So, do you think their lives are beautiful, strong, and miserable?