Text/Flying Fish
Introduction: In just five sentences, countless people have been crossed!
1. People live without having to prove anything to others, their lives are their own and have nothing to do with others.
In this life, no matter how well you live, no matter how much you have, your life is your own after all, whether life is bitter or not, tired or not, happy or unhappy, it only has to do with yourself, and only you know.
People live, don't care about what others think of you, but have confidence in yourself, your own feelings are the most real, other people's opinions do not represent yourself, we just need to be ourselves.
No matter what you have experienced in this life and what choices you have made, as long as you have no regrets about your life, you don't have to prove anything to others, even if the results you get are not satisfactory, it is just your own self, and you don't have to trap your heart because of other people's evaluations.
In this life, even if you live your own life, don't envy, don't care, don't complain, you win.
2. When you learn to get along with yourself, you can get real happiness.
Yishu said that one of the reasons why we are unhappy is that we don't know how to stay quietly in our room and get along with ourselves calmly.
In this materialistic world, many people lose themselves because of material desires, constantly pursue some unrealistic things, and constantly pursue some heights that they can never reach, looking at what others have, they want to have, watching others succeed, they also want to succeed, but ignoring their own strength and overestimating themselves.
People should look at themselves calmly, know their own level, know their abilities, so that they will not let themselves fall into the quagmire of desire and cannot extricate themselves.
It's useless for you to pay attention to others for a long time, you have to understand what your real needs are, what you want in life, when you understand this, you can get along with yourself and make yourself stronger.
3. In this life, apart from oneself, others cannot help them.
In this world, there is no such thing as empathy, no matter what you have experienced, no matter what you have, no one else will feel the same way as you, everything is experienced by yourself.
Of course, you can't empathize with what others have experienced.
People can understand each other, but they can't really feel the same way as each other, because the experience is different, and the changes in life are different, only you know.
Sometimes, others feel sorry for you, sympathize with you, and help you, but they just want you to be better, and they want you to get better.
But others can't help you for a lifetime, you still have to rely on yourself after all, and the only person who can really help you is yourself.
In this life, in addition to self-help, the real way out is to do so.
Fourth, loving yourself is the beginning of lifelong beauty.
"The Story of the Rose" said that no matter what, it is always unforgivable for a person to fall for some reason, and the more no one loves, the more you must love yourself.
Yes.
In this life, the most important thing is yourself, no matter who you are with or get along with, you must first love yourself, love yourself, is the most important thing.
If you always expect others to love you, you always give humbly to others, it is enough to think that others are good to you, but others are others after all, and whether you love you or not is decided by others, not by you.
If you want to be loved, you must first love yourself, even if no one loves you, you must love yourself, be good to yourself, let yourself live well, strive to pursue the life you want, and make yourself live a better life by your own efforts, which is really powerful.
It's better to rely on yourself than on others, only if you become excellent yourself, then you are shining.
As the saying goes, if you bloom, butterflies will come.
Fifth, what you gain and lose are doomed, and what you can lose means that it has never belonged to you, so there is no need to regret it.
In this life, there are always gains and losses, and if you lose the east corner and harvest the mulberry elm, you don't have to care too much about the gains and losses.
Gains and losses are the norm in life, and what choice you make is actually unsatisfactory, because if you choose this, you are destined to lose another, which is gain and loss.
In fact, God is also very fair, it will never focus all happiness on the same person, get health, you may not have money, get money, you may not have love, get love, you may not get everything you want.
Therefore, we live without having to worry about gains and losses, but live in the moment, go with the flow, follow the circumstances, and live a life of peace with the situation with a willing attitude, so it is good.
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