Zhang's mother left the father and son and ran away from home when he was very young!
Zhang has never seen his mother in 20 years, and perhaps he has long forgotten what his mother looks like.
When Zhang was in his twenties, his father had a serious illness, and after the illness recovered, he fell into sequelae, behind his ears!
When Zhang was 30 years old, his father was paralyzed in bed. Zhang has suffered a lot since he was a child, which also caused Zhang to develop a problem with alcoholism, and now in Zhang's words, "I am waiting for death"!
Many philosophers say that encountering suffering is God's order to achieve a person, but suffering will also make a person completely collapse, and even psychologically distorted, so that this person will be unrestrained and reckless from now on, Zhang belongs to the latter, but Zhang still maintains the nature of a "good person", he is more like a combination of contradictions!
Zhang was born in the countryside in 1990, and those who have experienced rural life know that in 1990, rural people were still in the time when they had just solved the problem of food and clothing, but they ate more cornmeal and sweet potato noodles, and it was impossible to eat white flour steamed buns every meal.
Zhang's family belongs to a medium-sized family in the village, with two tiled houses and a few acres of farmland, although it is not very rich, but it is also a solid family in the environment at that time, but Zhang's mother is educated and looks down on Zhang's father very much.
When she married Zhang's father, she was only forced by her parents to die, she always wanted to marry herself to the city, and never had to suffer in the farmland again, but in that era, when she went out to work, she would be pointed out by the villagers, and she was forced by her parents to marry Zhang's father.
Zhang's father is an honest and responsible rural man, and he treats his daughter-in-law very well after marriage. The delicious food was given to the daughter-in-law, but when Zhang was almost two years old, his mother still ruthlessly left the father and son, and disappeared with all the family's savings.
Since then, the father and son have depended on each other, Zhang was very sensible when he was very young, he would help his father with housework when he was very young, and sometimes his father would work in the farmland, and he would wait for his father on the edge of the farmland.
He knew that his family was not rich, he dropped out of school and went home before finishing elementary school, and when he was a teenager, he took care of the farmland with his father.
Zhang's second uncle and third uncle's family looked down on their family very much. But Zhang's father, as the eldest brother, has nothing to blame for what the two younger brothers did, who let his daughter-in-law run away a long time ago?
However, Zhang's second and third uncles often went to Zhang's house to borrow money, sometimes in partnership to buy farm tools, tractors, seeders, etc. Zhang has been persuading his father in his teens and twenties for several years, hoping that his father can keep his eyes open and stop being deceived by his two uncles.
The times are developing at a high speed, and in 2010, there was a railway next to Zhang's village, and Zhang's land was expropriated, and Zhang's family also got some land requisition money, that is, Zhang's father suddenly fainted that year.
Zhang's father was rushed to the hospital for treatment, the condition is not optimistic, Zhang placed his father in the hospital, then returned to the village to collect money, the first is to go to the two uncles' house to ask for accounts, because in recent years, the two uncles have asked their father to borrow money, but the two uncles played a scoundrel, claiming that they have no money.
In the end, Zhang's distant cousin and Zhang came to the hospital together and handed over Zhang's father's hospitalization expenses.
After Zhang's father was discharged from the hospital, he was left with sequelae, that is, his ears were not good and he could not hear others clearly, and the doctor said that his father could install a "hearing aid" to hear the outside world.
Zhang and his father returned home and continued their lives, Zhang also began to look for a job, on the construction site, stevedores, logistics centers, Zhang went to work, although the life was hard, but the father and son lived comfortably, only Zhang's lifelong events made his father worried.
Although the family's house has been renovated, it is only three bungalows and a kitchen, and there is basically no deposit, this configuration is also the poorest family in the countryside, who will marry the girl to Zhang?
What made Zhang's father even more uneasy was that Zhang refused to go on a blind date! In Zhang's own words, "As far as the situation of my own family is concerned, I won't go to harm other girls, and I don't have to suffer for a lifetime with myself." ”
In fact, everyone knows what is going on, it is not that Zhang's mother ran away from home since she was a child, which left an indelible pain in Zhang's heart, so that he has kept a distance from girls since he was a child.
Zhang thought that this life would be like this, and when his father was poor and destitute a hundred years later, he would not live!
Who would have thought that when Zhang was 28 years old, Zhang's life ushered in a turnaround, and their village and farmland were all occupied by a large logistics center, and several nearby villages were bought by the logistics center, and the logistics center also built resettlement houses.
In the second year, Zhang's village began a vigorous demolition work, and the resettlement house is expected to be put into use in three years, with 30,000 yuan per year in the early stage, and the villagers can rent a house on their own, and each household will be given half of the demolition money.
Zhang took his father out to rent a house, and Zhang also bought a set of hearing aids worth 20,000 yuan for his father, maybe Zhang should live a happy life at this time, but things are just the opposite.
As soon as the demolition compensation arrived, Zhang began to invite people who had helped him to eat and drink, and every once in a while they were eating, drinking, playing cards, sometimes going to KTV in the middle of the night, often entering nightclubs, sometimes spending thousands of yuan a night, Zhang began to live a drunken and bright nightlife.
Two years of bright life, Zhang completely became like a different person, his father and Zhang had a quarrel, his father was in a very bad condition at this time, that quarrel father inadvertently threw the hearing aid to Zhang, Zhang did not catch it and broke it, Zhang was furious, and called a friend to go out to drink, and when he woke up the next day, Zhang found that his father was paralyzed and could not walk.
During this time, Zhang restrained a lot, and took care of his old father who was paralyzed in bed at home with peace of mind, until the resettlement house was put into use, and all the demolition funds were distributed, and Zhang's family divided a 120-square-meter house and a 40-square-meter house.
Zhang has been accustomed to spending money on drinking and going out to nightclubs in the past few years, and once went to the foot washing city to spend more than 5,000 in one night, and now he has to take care of his father during the day, but at night Zhang still goes his own way.
The only cousin who was good to him and a few friends who had a good relationship with him once persuaded Zhang to find a daughter-in-law to live in peace, but Zhang was still unwilling to get married, but he also knew that he would spend so much sooner or later that he would sit on a mountain and eat nothing, so Zhang asked his cousin to help him keep 100,000 yuan, no matter what he did, he couldn't give it to himself.
But Zhang was often drunk, and after getting drunk, he went to his cousin's house to make trouble, and there were too many troubles, and his cousin gave him Zhang's money in desperation!
The compensation for the demolition is more than one million, plus the house of more than 40 square meters, a total of nearly 1.5 million, and Zhang squandered it in nearly six years.
After Zhang got drunk, he often said in front of our friends, "After my demolition money is spent, I will sell the small house and continue to squander, and after I spend it, I will replace the big house with 80 square meters, and when I finish spent, I will sell the house and rent it to live, and I will not live after I am penniless again!" ”
A few days ago, Zhang called me, and his words were blocked left and right, and then I said that I would go back to my hometown to see him in a few days! In fact, I know his current situation, the demolition money has long been gone, and his friends see him pitiful and sometimes give him 1,800, and he spent all the 1,800 on the same day.
As soon as the last few friends who had a good relationship were combined, everyone didn't lend him money, but only brought him something to eat and can make peace, so that he could live!
Last night I went back to my hometown, brought him two cigarettes, a case of beer, we chatted for more than half an hour, he is still the same as before, thinking that this world has harmed him, I didn't say anything, because it is useless to say more truth, he is indeed a good little brother when he doesn't drink, after drinking is the boss of the day, he is the second, no one can control it!
Although I sympathize with him very much, I feel that he really does not deserve pity from beginning to end, and all the consequences are his own fault!