Look at our side, there are many men who even spend all their savings, and even some people want to marry wives even if they borrow money. After paying such a big price, what are the benefits of marrying a wife?
Today we are going to talk about the benefits of marrying a wife!
Have a small family of your own.
For many men, it is important to have a small family of their own. Because before getting married, some men may be rotten, and some may live one day at a time.
In contrast, many men have become more mature and stable after having their own small families. Perhaps because of the greater responsibility, I have also worked harder to make money.
I found that there are many people around me who have empty pockets before they get married, but after they get married, they can save a lot of money. Because before getting married, many people are prone to spending money lavishly, and after getting married, because of family pressure, they become a little thrifty.
What's more important is that before marriage, you earn money by yourself, and you don't seem to save much except for expenses, but after marriage, it's not the same when the two go out to earn money, generally speaking, spending one person's salary can also save another person's income. Before you have children, saving 100,000 yuan a year is not too much of a problem. Therefore, after saving for a few years, you can afford to take out a loan to buy a small house in a small county.
There may be noise in life, but there will also be joy. Whether it's noisy or happy, at least this kind of life won't be so lonely and boring.
A person is relatively lonely, such as many young men, when they are alone, they may like to play games, or go out to drink and go clubbing, etc. But after doing these things for so many years, I will get tired of it, and I will slowly not like it very much.
In this way, if you have any happy things by yourself, you don't know who to share them with, and you don't know who to talk to if you have any unpleasant things, after all, many friends are just friends, and you can't tell each other a lot of things.
So after marrying a wife, it's different, there are happy things to share together, and unhappy things to talk to each other. There may be noise and noise in the process, but there is also joy and happiness. Life is like this, sometimes it's noisy, sometimes it's happy, anyway, this kind of life won't be so lonely and boring.
Inheritance, some people still attach more importance to this concept.
In the previous era, the vast majority of people attached more importance to the concept of inheritance, but now, many people have slowly faded this concept, but it does not mean that everyone does not have this concept, and there are still some people who still value this concept.
But a man can't have a child by himself, and if he wants to give birth to an offspring, he has to have a woman, so he has to marry a wife. This is also one of the reasons why many men are reluctant to marry older and infertile women, after all, there are really some people who attach great importance to the concept of inheritance.
Of course, this kind of concept is sometimes not only valued by us young people, but also by many people, as parents of young people. In other words, if the son is very old and can't find a partner to marry, many parents will be more anxious. If we marry a daughter-in-law, it can be regarded as a matter of concern for our parents.
You can get through difficulties together, and you can help each other when you encounter difficulties.
No one's life is smooth sailing, people have a life of decades, and there will always be some times when things don't go well in these decades, even if they don't encounter any big problems, but there will still be small problems. For example, a small cold, which is also something that many people encounter, generally speaking, they will catch a cold once a year or so.
If we are alone, then we may have to bear these difficulties by ourselves. But if we have an object, it will be different, whether it is a big difficulty or a small difficulty, at least both parties face it together, it will be much easier to solve these difficulties, and both sides help each other and take care of each other, so that life will be easier.
However, there are a lot of divorced people now, and not everyone is willing to share hardships together, so you have to keep your eyes open when looking for a partner to marry. No matter what the conditions are, at least find someone who is not easy to divorce.
In the future, when the parents are older, it will be easier to take care of them.
Some people are too old to manage their lives, and they need to be taken care of by their children. Of course, if you have money, you can hire a babysitter, but not everyone is that rich.
But if we are men and have to take care of our mother, I think it is more convenient for the daughter-in-law, after all, the daughter-in-law and the mother are both women. When it comes to taking care of our father, we come by ourselves, after all, my father and we are both men.