After retirement, I can finally say goodbye to my busy work life and welcome the days of freedom. The pension is received every month, and the golden old age is just around the corner. However, let's not forget that even if we have a good relationship with our in-laws, we should not worry about the following three things to make our retirement life easier and more enjoyable.
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Everyone's reasons for retiring are different, some are to relax and enjoy a leisurely life; Some are to spend more time with their families and make up for the lack of time during work; Others are chasing dreams in their hearts to realize those unattainable plans. No matter what your motivation for retirement is, family relationships are an important factor. After all, we usually spend more time with our in-laws and should maintain a harmonious and harmonious relationship. However, there are three things that it is best not to interfere too much with after retirement, so as not to affect the harmony between you.
Leave your child's education alone
After retirement, we tend to pay more attention to the growth and education of the next generation in the family. However, your in-laws don't necessarily have the same view of your child's education as you do. Each family has its own parenting style and values, and we should respect their choices. Even if you think you have experience, don't interfere too much, otherwise it may lead to conflicts and disputes between in-laws. When it comes to parenting, moderate support and patient listening are better options.
Don't take care of household chores
After retirement, when there is plenty of time, household chores seem to be something that needs to be helped out as a matter of course. However, doing housework in your in-laws' home can bring some unexpected troubles. For example, your approach may not be in line with their habits, and your help may be misconstrued as meddling and meddling. In order to avoid unnecessary conflicts, we should respect the space and lifestyle of our in-laws. Unless they reach out for help or ask for your opinion, it's best to keep a moderate distance and enjoy your own leisure time.
Don't worry about family and friend disputes
Strife and conflict in the family are inevitable, especially in relation to relatives. After retirement, we may become "resolvers" of family disputes and be drawn into various disputes. However, we are not judges or arbitrators, nor are we obligated to intervene and arbitrate issues between friends and family. Even if you feel you have impartial and objective judgment, getting too involved in a dispute will often only complicate matters. We should maintain a neutral stance and convey positive energy and understanding to our relatives and friends, rather than exacerbating conflicts.
When I retire, I want to pursue freedom and enjoy life. While it is important to maintain a good relationship with your in-laws, there are certain things that we need to give each other enough space and respect. Do not forcibly interfere with your child's education style, do not take the initiative to meddle in household chores, and do not interfere excessively in disputes between relatives and friends. Only by maintaining a moderate distance and respecting each other can our retirement life be more relaxed and full of sunshine.
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