Demystifying Women's Secrets: What Men Need to Know About Women's Psychology"
"You know what? Women's psychology is much more complex than we think. Friend Xiao Li said suddenly at the party.
I looked up and looked at him suspiciously, "What do you mean?" ”
Xiao Li smiled: "I had a fight with my girlfriend yesterday, and I couldn't figure out what she was angry about, so my sister-in-law taught me a lesson." ”
"Tell me about it." I'm interested.
Xiao Li sighed: "Did you know that when women express their emotions, they often don't directly say what they really think. For example, when she is angry, she may just want you to take the initiative to care about her, instead of guessing the reason yourself. ”
It reminds me of an argument with my girlfriend Xiaomei. At that time, she was inexplicably angry, and when I asked her why, she just said coldly, "It's okay." "I thought she was really fine, so I didn't ask any more, but she got even more angry. It turned out that she just wished I could care more about her and how she felt.
Xiao Li continued: "Another point, women pay special attention to details. They will notice your small movements, small expressions, and even the tone of your voice. ”
This is really to the point. Once, when I was shopping with Mei, she suddenly asked me, "Do you remember the details of our first date?" I was stunned for a moment, and then I rambled on some general information. As a result, Xiaomei got angry: "Why don't you even remember this!" ”
Actually, I remember what she was wearing, where she was, and the dinner we had, but she asked for details, like something she said at the time, and I couldn't remember it for a while. It made me understand that women care about whether you care about remembering the moments that are important to them.
"Also," Li continued, "women have greater mood swings than we do, especially around the menstrual period. At this time, they need to be more understanding and tolerant, rather than arguing and blaming. ”
I nodded, remembering that Xiaomei's mood swings were particularly large before and after her menstrual period. One time she lost her temper over a trivial matter, but I didn't understand it, and instead argued with her, which ended up making both of us very unhappy. Later, I realized that at this time she needed my care and comfort, not my rational analysis.
Xiao Li smiled: "These are all taught to me by my sister, she said that women are sometimes like the weather, they can change, but as long as you understand them with your heart, they will be very grateful to you." ”
After listening to this, it dawned on me that there are so many things that we need to learn and understand about women's psychology. When I got home, I talked to Mei about the party. After listening to this, she smiled and said, "Actually, we girls just hope that you can pay more attention to our hearts and be more understanding and tolerant." ”
I sighed, "It seems that I still need to learn a lot. ”
Xiaomei looked at me gently: "As long as you are willing to understand me, I will also try to understand you." When two people are together, the most important thing is to understand and support each other. ”
This conversation made me understand that men need to be more patient and attentive when dealing with women. Women's psychology sometimes seems complicated, but in fact, they just want more care and love.
"Demystifying Women's Secrets: What Men Need to Know About Women's Psychology." This is not only to get along better, but also to make the relationship with each other stronger and happier. Only by understanding each other's inner world and learning to listen and care can we support each other and grow together in the long years.