You might think that after the age of 55, women should be more independent and have less need for men. However, let's walk into the inner world of 57-year-old Aunt Lin Wanru, and you will find an unexpected truth.
Aunt Lin Wanru is a retired middle school teacher with an ordinary and fulfilling life. However, when she entered the second half of her life, she found that her dependence and demand for her husband Lao Yang became stronger and stronger. This phenomenon can't help but make people feel confused and curious.
Looking back on her youth, Aunt Lin was an independent woman. She is like an eagle with wings spread high, soaring freely in the sky of career and family. At that time, she firmly believed that she could control the ups and downs of life on her own.
"I can face the world on my own and don't need anyone's help. Young Lin Wanru often thinks so.
However, the years passed quietly. When Aunt Lin entered middle age, she began to feel a loneliness and loneliness that she had never felt before. It's like a lonely boat, looking for a harbor to dock in the vast sea of people.
The son leaves home to chase his dreams, and the once lively home suddenly becomes empty. Although her husband Lao Yang is still around, the two have fewer and fewer common topics. Aunt Lin began to miss those happy days as a family, longing for someone to share her joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
Just as Aunt Lin was stuck in the quagmire of loneliness, an unexpected turn happened. She found herself relying more and more on Lao Yang, as if she had found the other half of the puzzle in her life.
Although there is no longer the passion and romance of their youth, there is more tacit understanding and understanding between them. Aunt Lin began to appreciate Lao Yang's calmness and wisdom, and liked to listen to him tell stories about the past and future plans. They rediscovered common topics and participated in community events, travel, fitness, and more together.
"With Lao Yang by my side, I became happier and more fulfilled. Aunt Lin's eyes flashed with happiness.
This change made Aunt Lin start to think about the reason. She found that as she grew older, she craved more and more emotional comfort and spiritual sustenance. It's like a big tree with lush foliage that needs the snuggling of another tree to withstand the wind and rain.
Aunt Lin realized that the emotional support and companionship of men was becoming more and more important to her. This is not to say that she didn't need men before, but as she grew older and more experienced, she cherished and appreciated the emotional bond with men more.
For young female friends, Aunt Lin has her own advice: "Don't be afraid to rely on men, and don't pursue independence too much. At different stages of life, we all have different emotional needs. ＂
She likened it: "When we are young, we are like a butterfly, a flower that can chase careers and dreams to our heart's content; But in middle age or even later in life, we may be more like a returning bird, craving emotional companionship and support. ＂
Aunt Lin believes that we should learn to cherish the emotional bond with men and make each other indispensable partners in life. It's like two trees that depend on each other, resisting the wind and frost of the years together.
After experiencing the ups and downs of life, 57-year-old Aunt Lin Wanru finally understands that women's needs for men are not simple material dependence or spiritual sustenance, but a deep emotional connection and spiritual fit.
When we have this connection with men, life becomes better and more fulfilling. Like a moving duet, the two voices are intertwined to compose the most beautiful music of life.
So, let's cherish the emotional bond with men and create a happy and fulfilling life together! Because in the journey of life, how blessed it is to have a partner who understands you, loves you, and supports you!