When a child makes a mistake, many parents will say that he is still young and ignorant. Used to evade responsibility.
If the adults are more serious, they will also say, what do you care about with children!
Being young has become an umbrella for children to make mistakes.
On June 22, a 5-year-old boy was beaten up for calling his son to someone else.
The incident occurred in Zhangjiakou City, when a 32-year-old man, Ban, was taking his daughter for a walk when he met a 5-year-old boy he knew.
He called his son to Ban.
Ben was furious, pressed the boy to the ground, and threw four feet at his head.
These kicks kicked the boy directly into the hospital, with head trauma and a contusion near the right eye socket. Ban was detained for 15 days and fined ......
The boy's mother, Ms. Zhang, said that her son, who was only 5 years old, was just joking, and if the words were inappropriate, she would educate and apologize, and that the man was going too far to do so.
Netizens commented that the man also jokingly beat the child. Some people say: If you don't educate yourself, society will educate you for you......
The solution to the problem is not a matter of relief.
The little boy was beaten, and his mother said that there was a shadow psychologically,
Ban had to go in for half a month, and he had to pay a sum of money for delaying his work, and he was with his daughter at the time, what would his daughter think? In this matter, both sides lose. It also gives us a warning.
1. Children's education.
There is a boy in Lao Cai. Parents work part-time, grandmother leads.
The old lady is famous in the village, she has never lost a fight, and in her words, scolding can turn the other party into scolding.
Children grow up in such an environment, and it's strange not to follow the school. When the old lady heard her grandson scolding the family, she was still laughing, saying that he was still young. After going to school, he was beaten by his classmates and realized that no one was used to him.
Education should be grasped from the time of childhood, and we must not slack off in the slightest.
When a child scolds others and jokes, he is covering his ears and stealing the bell, and deceiving himself.
2. Impulse is the devil.
When a man beats a boy, he feels that he has lost face.
Netizens support men, perhaps because they have encountered similar things, and they did not gear up at that time, and they were holding their breath in their hearts. Maybe it's because I think the bear child can't get used to it!
Hit is the direct way.
But it's hard to get a sense of proportion, and what if there are more serious consequences? Instead of detention, the perpetrator of the assault faces criminal liability?
Impulsiveness is the devil. Before you start, think about the consequences before you take responsibility for your own life.
3. Sort out first and then soldier.
When encountering something, reason with the other party first is to give the other party a chance and give yourself time to buffer.
The boy is five years old, and it is not wrong to scold people to find his guardian, not to mention, the two families know each other.
What is requested, and the boy's parents put it forward, is the best way. If parents are jerks, it's never too late to warn.
Only in this way can the conflict be mitigated and more serious harm can be avoided.