In the long journey of life, the only person who can accompany him from beginning to end is himself, and the person who can make himself feel at ease and rely on is only himself, so when people live, they must be kind to themselves and be better to themselves.
Some people say that loving oneself is the most romantic thing in the world, and I think that only when a person knows how to love himself can he learn to love others, get rid of the control of others, and live his true self.
To love yourself, you must first accept yourself unreservedly, see your shortcomings clearly, admit your shortcomings, accept your imperfections, neither give up on yourself, nor lose self-confidence, and do your best in everything.
The advantages of others can be learned with an open mind, but they are not worthy of envy, because there are also places in yourself that are also worthy of learning from others, so you just need to believe in yourself, do yourself well, and love yourself seriously.
Everyone is a unique existence in this world, we must believe in ourselves, rely on ourselves, and make ourselves stronger and stronger, enough to face all kinds of tests of fate, enough to face all kinds of hardships in life.
We must learn to reconcile with the world, with real life, with our true selves, accept reality, accept ourselves, accept the difficulties that come our way, deal with them calmly, and solve them after careful consideration.
As the saying goes, people are more popular than people, most of the troubles of life come from blind comparison, no matter how good others are, it has nothing to do with themselves, why bother with it, and live your own life, it is more important than anything else.
Fate is always fair, he gives you something and takes something from him, there is no good fortune for no reason, there is no good fortune that falls from the sky, everything is just the result of a cycle of cause and effect.
You don't have to envy the advantages of others in a certain aspect, and you can't just see your own shortcomings, as everyone knows, while you envy others, others are also envying you, so the most important thing in life is to be yourself.
Instead of envying others, it is better to reflect on yourself and do your best; Instead of being arrogant, it is better to cultivate self-confidence, improve your abilities, and accumulate strength, so as to make yourself stronger and not dependent on anyone.
In this world, there is no perfect thing, there is no perfect person, and there is no road to a flat river, you don't have to be too strict with yourself, and you don't have to be too anxious.
In short, it is wise to love yourself, don't always have trouble with yourself, let alone compare with anyone, according to your own pace, adjust your mentality, focus on what you like, and live a strong sense of happiness.
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Wen Ling is a freelance writer whose works have been published in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and must be reproduced with the author's permission.