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Wu Qingfeng once said, "You must believe in yourself, accept and like yourself as you are." Be sure to make yourself what you truly love. If your expectations don't match what your elders decide to look like or what society norms, be brave enough to speak up for yourself, overthrow the world with warmth, and make it ours. ”
Sometimes we ignore our own wishes and cater to others in order to make them happy. Gradually, we become the people others think we are, but not necessarily what we really want.
But there are still people who live their lives on their own terms, learn what they love, and pursue careers, and these women are often seen as mavericks by outsiders.
They are often the best people because they are confident, hardworking, and talented.
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assertive
Recently, I always saw a TV series, I don't know what the name is, there is a clip in it of an ordinary housewife played by Liu Tao, she wants to interview for a job.
During the interview, the interviewers usually consider the situation of the housewives as they think that these people have children and find it difficult to concentrate on their work. However, the woman played by Liu Tao was not helpless because of this, but insisted on not giving up.
She told the interviewer, "Even though I'm already a mom to a child, you might think I'm not the right person for the job. However, I would like to emphasize that I have studied this major in college and I absolutely love the job. I also work hard so that my children don't interfere with my performance. ”
She speaks with confidence on her face, which appeals to the examiner. As a result, she was successfully hired and became an employee of that company.
In fact, at all times, your most important quality is self-confidence. Those truly noble women, they all exude confidence. They believe they can do what they want to do.
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Work hard
After graduating from university, Xiaoling did not choose to join any company, but decided to start her own business. However, due to her lack of experience and freshness in society, her first venture was unsuccessful.
But she didn't give up because of this, this time Xiaoling chose to work in the company to learn entrepreneurial experience. When her entrepreneurial attempt failed, her friends came to comfort her, but Xiaoling said, "It's okay, as long as I continue to work hard to learn and experience, I will definitely succeed." ”
In fact, many people lack the spirit of struggle in their lives, and they become discouraged when they encounter failure, complaining about the outside world, but they do not reflect on themselves and never think about their own problems.
Those women with noble status will reflect on themselves in the face of failure and continue to work hard. They persevered until they succeeded.
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Fineness
A cute little pig girl will not only dress up and dress beautifully, but they will also read books and enrich their lives.
Take this epidemic as an example, many people are forced to stay at home, and most girls live a very simple life, their hair is not washed for several days, and their faces are washed once a day, but they do not wear makeup, because there is no need to go out, and they wear comfortable pajamas every day.
Everyday life is always filled with mobile games and TV, and they don't think about reading books to enrich themselves, or putting on makeup, because they don't feel like they need to go out.
Such an idea is usually wrong, and many women go from being an elegant little princess to an ordinary girl. I once saw a boy on Douyin saying that he hadn't seen a beautiful young lady take Douyin for a long time.
But those women who live elegantly, they wake up early and go to bed early every day, keep exercising and light makeup, and even if they stay at home, they will insist on reading some books.
Epilogue:
Women who live a privileged life, they know what they are really looking for, and they will strive for it, never give up, and they will not feel inferior because of what others say.
Such women shine wherever they go, and all eyes are on them. They are highly sought after by men, but they can also incur same-sex jealousy.