From the infirmary to retirement, she danced to meet old men to solve financial problems
Preface
In life, we will always meet all kinds of people, some people choose to face difficulties bravely, and some people choose to escape and let go. Recently, I was deeply touched by the stories of two people around me. A friend worked in the infirmary until he retired, met the old man through dancing to solve his financial problems, and lived a satisfying life; Another friend, whose husband was sentenced to life imprisonment after committing a crime, chose to let her son live in a mess and indulged in mahjong parlors herself, and her life was in trouble. The two friends showed their different attitudes and choices in life, and they made trade-offs in the face of difficulties, which made me think deeply.
1. From the infirmary to retirement, she danced to meet the old man to solve financial problems
1. A friend's work history
This friend used to work in the infirmary of a large company, and he was very responsible and loved by the employees. As she grew older, she eventually chose to retire and start her own leisure life.
2. Economic problems encountered
Life after retirement is not as easy as she imagined, especially financial problems have become her biggest problem. The children have their own families and careers, and they can't support her for a long time, and she doesn't want to disturb her children too much, so financially, she doesn't get much help.
3. Dance to meet the old man
Faced with a difficult situation, she did not choose to sink and complain, but actively looked for a solution. She loves to dance and goes to the square every day for ballroom dancing, which makes her a lot of friends. Among them, there was an old man who took special care of her, and after learning of her difficulties, he took the initiative to lend a helping hand to her.
4. Solve economic problems
The old man, a dance teacher, invited his friends to his dance classes, and his friends earned an extra income as a result. By dancing to meet the old man, she not only solved her financial problems, but also made more friends and lived a fulfilling and meaningful life.
Second, in the face of her husband's crime, she chose to let her son go and indulged in mahjong and couldn't extricate herself
1. The sins of the husband
Another friend's experience is embarrassing. Her husband was sentenced to life imprisonment in an accident, and the family's life changed dramatically.
2. Indulge your son
Faced with the fact of her husband's crime, she chose to let her son go and let him freely control everything in the family. Because he could not get the care and education of his mother, the originally excellent son gradually lost himself and began a subversive life.
3. Addicted to mahjong and unable to extricate yourself
And she herself, without the courage and confidence to face life again, instead indulged in mahjong parlors and devoted all her time and energy to gambling. Gradually, her savings were squandered, and her life was in trouble.
3. Different attitudes and choices towards life
1. Be brave and seek positively
Through the stories of these two friends, I deeply feel that there will always be various difficulties and challenges in life, and when faced with difficulties, our choices and attitudes will determine the quality of life.
2. Influence and shape
Everyone's growth and experience will be influenced by family education and social environment, and the relationship between family members will also have a profound impact on an individual's life choices and attitudes.
3. Find a way out and choose your lifestyle
No matter what kind of predicament we encounter, we should face it bravely and find a way out, so that we can find a lifestyle that suits us and live a truly happy life.
epilogue
Through the stories of these two friends, I deeply realized that difficulties and challenges in life are unavoidable, and the only choice we can choose is the attitude and method to face difficulties. I hope that everyone can maintain a brave and determined heart in the face of difficulties, and believe that they can overcome everything and welcome a better life.