In Zhejiang, a 39-year-old lady made a surprising offer on a blind date: she asked her future husband to give her a million bride price, plus three houses.
She also asked for 50,000 yuan a month for living expenses, because she doesn't work herself and likes shopping and beauty. The woman, who has been divorced twice and has three sons, hopes her future husband will buy a house for each of their children.
The blind date was a 29-year-old PhD student. When he heard these requests, he was shocked. The other party is not only ten years older than him, but also has a history of three children and two divorces. What's even more unacceptable is that she still thinks that she is a treasure, and whoever marries her will earn it.
The woman's logic is that her "good genes" can bring value to the other family. However, the young doctor felt that he didn't need to pay so much to get married, let alone meet such a sky-high demand. He felt that instead of satisfying such unreasonable demands, it would be better to find a partner of a similar age and a gentle personality.
Eventually, the young doctor decided not to contact her anymore, politely rejecting her request and urging her to reconsider her expectations.
Blind date is not only a competition of conditions, but more importantly, to find the right partner. Self-knowledge is important, and you shouldn't be overly demanding, regardless of your actual situation.
Everyone wants to find someone who knows how to value themselves, but that doesn't mean you can ignore reality and imagine yourself as a hot commodity in the market.
At the end of the day, finding a partner is about keeping your feet on the ground. It's not that whoever marries makes a big bargain, but whether two people can walk hand in hand and deal with the ups and downs of life together. Therefore, it is still the same old saying, the door is right, and the two are happy.