In today's highly developed information society, transnational romances are not uncommon, especially the love stories between some companion women and African students. They have been together for a long time, and their relationship is getting deeper and deeper, but the transnational relationship in reality is not as simple as imagined.
In Shanghai, a netizen shared a video on social media about a companion girl and an African boy. The girl accompanied the boy through college life, and the two fell in love for a long time, and after graduation, she decided to follow her boyfriend to Africa to start a new life. Netizens questioned this, thinking that the girl might regret it.
The story begins with a girl accompanying an African boy as a companion during her college years. Over time, the two grew closer and eventually confirmed their feelings for each other. Although there were inevitably small frictions in the process of getting along, none of this shook their feelings. They had a wonderful college time together and ushered in the moment of graduation.
The girl decided early on that she wanted to follow her boyfriend to Africa after graduation. She is not afraid of the difficult living environment, nor is she afraid of unfamiliar culture shock, but she is afraid that she will not be able to stay with her boyfriend all the time. She resolutely discarded the opposition around her and insisted on her choice. When boarding the plane to Africa, the girl is full of happiness and shows affection to her boyfriend, as if to declare her happiness and contentment to the world. I just don't know how long this smile lasts.
The girl is full of confidence in the future, believing that her African boyfriend can bring her happiness, and for this reason she gives up all her relatives and friends in the country. She would rather endure all unknown challenges just to be with her beloved.
But the reality is brutal. Counting the companion girls who marry to Africa, how many of them live in dire straits every day? How many people have been left out in the cold after giving birth to children, living a boring and torturous life? And how many have fulfilled their original dreams and lived happily ever after?
With the lessons of the past, there are still girls who choose to marry in Africa without hesitation, as if it were a place full of happiness and joy. We have to ask these girls, do they really know what they want?
Sometimes, people always want to see the outside world, but when they see it and come back, it may be difficult for them to be accepted by the Chinese people again. Not because they are flattering, but because their attitudes have changed. Just like the clothes in the mall, everyone spends money to buy new clothes, who wants to buy the old ones again?
Everyone's life path is their own choice. There will be gains and losses, maybe this girl will really be very happy, but what is the probability of this? Since she dares to gamble her future life on a slim outcome, she should be prepared to accept any outcome.
To sum up, I think the girl's choice may be brave, but it is also fraught with risks. Life is not a fairy tale, and transnational romance is even more challenging. I hope she can stick to her beliefs, and at the same time have the courage and wisdom to face reality. After all, life is a long journey, and happiness requires not only courage, but also wisdom and perseverance.