The maintenance of any intimate relationship is a science.
Some women, in intimate relationships, can become more and more favored; Some women, in intimate relationships, seem to be less and less loved, and the relationship with the other half is getting worse and worse with the naked eye.
In this case, it is not others that we can change, but ourselves. But if you do well enough, the other party still has less and less affection for you, then choose the long pain is better than the short pain.
A man can't let go of a relationship and can't forget a person, because of a variety of mentalities: maybe it's because he's unwilling, maybe it's love to the bones, maybe it's fate.
And the can't let go of the beloved and can't forget it is undoubtedly the most tormenting.
People often ask: How many times can a man love in this life?
The answers vary, but in fact we all understand that the person who once loved her deeply and was destined to be the only one who was destined to be the only one.
Shen Congwen once wrote: "I have traveled on bridges in many places, seen clouds many times, and drank many kinds of wine, but I have only loved a person who is at the best age." ”
People will meet many people in their lives, some pass by, some nod friends, and some entangle for a lifetime.
And a heart, when it is emotional, can't let go; A person, who is moved, can't forget it after all.
Uncontrollable attention understands
In this life, the happiest thing is that there is someone who puts you at the top of his heart.
When we truly love someone, our eyes will unconsciously pay attention to him, and our eyes will follow him like a spotlight.
It is an uncontrollable concern, and it is because of this concern that we get to know a person better.
When a person fully understands your temperament and character, knows your fragility or beauty, if he is not your enemy, he must be someone who loves you deeply.
The road of life, joys and sorrows, is ruthless. And the person who is in the heart is unable to control the attention, and under the attention to understand with the heart and considerately.
Unforgettable love is someone who knows your warmth and coldness, understands your joys and sorrows, and makes you feel the peace of "light clouds and light breeze".
Everyone feels like TA when they see it
Love, like a pair of hands, can easily peel off the disguise of a cold man.
My friend Xiao Lei once told me that he had a first love that is still unforgettable. That girl was the white moonlight of his life, but by accident, he couldn't go on.
When the two had just broken up, he saw a back on the road and chased after him stupidly, because that back really looked like his first love.
Later, he had a few girlfriends, and they were more or less eyebrows, mannerisms, or side faces, like his first love.
He knew that he was being like this, and it was unfair to his current lover. However, this feeling is subconscious and uncontrollable. When he saw a girl who looked a little like his first love, he unconsciously leaned over.
Everything about TA is a preference
As the hormones in a relationship fade, the blinded eyes are gradually opened. As you get to know each other better and spend more time together, the "filter" will be removed.
However, when you really put someone into your heart, even after the love period, the one you see is still the beauty you want in your heart.
As we always say, we love someone as a whole. If you love him, you have to accept all that he has.
The man who loves you deeply can always find your shining point in the process of getting along. It's not that he has a pair of eyes that are willing to find beauty, but that you are incomparable in this world in his heart.
A taciturn person can talk eloquently in front of his lover; A person with a big grin can also become warm and considerate in front of his lover...... To love someone is to give her all your favoritism.
Unconsciously reminiscing about the good things that used to be
Su Cen once said: "The most extravagant person in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you." Everyone's time is valuable, and giving it to you is equivalent to giving your own world. ”
The feelings of two people have turned into a person's thoughts. Willing to wait all the time, it is beautiful that once, that memory has become a gentle companion for a man in this life.
The feelings that have entered the heart, even if they are deliberately suppressed, will suddenly hit your heart at a certain moment from time to time.
When the lover is not around, it is as if a part of his body is missing. When reminiscing about the good past, the beautiful pictures frame by frame make people intoxicated. But after facing the nothingness of reality, my heart is inevitably extremely sad.
Every memory is a story, a love that can't be forgotten, and people who can't let go. This kind of heartache is an experience of life, and it is also a process of growth, which makes men strong in grief and move forward in memories.
Haruki Murakami once said: "People who are really good to you are in the details, people will lie, but the details will not, love is the details, and not love is also." ”
If a woman enters a man's heart, then this woman is the person who the man spends his life and is willing to take care of with all his might.
Of course, love does not make a man completely irrational. Perhaps, he will not give you everything he has from his heart and lungs, but at least he will bring a warmth and expectation of life to women.
There are always so many infatuated lovers in this world, but they prefer to fall in love with a person who is in deep love, they can't get it, they can't let it go, they can't forget it, but they miss it all day long.
People who have entered their hearts, how can they say that they will forget and forget, and if they have moved their hearts, how can they say that they will let go. She turned around, at the end of the world, I am guarding a city alone, guarding a memory, the years are flying, but the love remains the same.
I have loved deeply, everything about you has been engraved in my heart, and I am fortunate to meet you in three lives, even if it is sad.
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[Text: The pen has a temperature and speaks for love, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]
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