A small thing often reflects a person's cognition.
The incident of giving up seats in the subway of Beijing Line 10 has caused a lot of uproar, and there is a new follow-up.
First, the uncle's daughter showed up to complain.
The daughter said: "You don't know, how did our family spend these 7 days, it was a trivial matter, so that my father suffered for 7 days, and many people said that 7 days is too short, it should be 7 years, is it too much?" ”
After reading the woman's speech, I remembered a sentence, it's not that a family doesn't enter the door.
If she had basic values and couldn't say such a thing, didn't she really know the reason for the matter?
At that time, there were many people in the subway car, and the uncle, who was burly, wearing a hat and glasses, came to a young girl and asked the other party to give up his seat to him.
Before the girl had time to stand up, the uncle took the crutch in his hand and pulled the girl's leg, this kind of behavior was polite to the old disrespect.
Has he forgotten that if you want to be respected by others, you must first respect others.
Everyone is an adult, buy a ticket and take the bus, and no one owes you.
Giving up your seat is love, not giving up is your duty.
If you need it, you can discuss it with the other party, and in general, everyone can understand that giving up a seat is nothing.
What is unaccustomed to is that some old people like moral bondage, and they are in good health, so they have to ask others to give up their seats to show the superiority of their identity.
Let's empathize, today's young people are also very hard, they are busy at work, they are tired to catch up with the subway, they really need to take a break, they don't have time to reply to messages during the day, and they want to take advantage of the time to take the bus to reply.
Sometimes, I really don't care about looking at others, and I don't know that there are old people around me who get into the car, and it is not objective to judge them simply by young people not giving up their seats.
In this matter, the real criticism is not the seat itself, but the old man pulling the girl with a cane, just imagine, if your own daughter is treated like this by strangers, will you be angry?
Under normal circumstances, people have basic judgment, and when they encounter something, they will not help their relatives.
The uncle's daughter, obviously lacking a sense of right and wrong, she blindly felt sorry for her father, but deliberately ignored her father's mistakes, her father suffered for 7 days, all of which were self-inflicted, and she couldn't complain about others.
There are also some people who do not distinguish between right and wrong, who ran to blame the girl who was bullied, saying that it was her fault that she did not take the initiative to give up her seat, and she should come forward to apologize to the uncle.
The girl's sister stood up and told everyone that this incident hurt her sister a lot, she was already very uncomfortable, and she didn't want to go out now, she didn't think her sister was at fault, and she wouldn't let her sister apologize, why apologize?
I have to say that my sister is very responsible, and it is good to dare to stand up and protect my sister at a critical time.
There is a "herd effect" in psychology.
Someone did an experiment where a few caterpillars were placed on the edge of a flower pot, and the caterpillars would circle along the edge of the pot, one after another, and even if they crawled for several hours, none of them would walk away.
This is the blind obedience of losing self-awareness, which will also be reflected in the public, some people encounter things, they don't have their own judgment at all, they like to follow the clouds, but they don't know, sometimes blind obedience will bring great harm to others.
Let's just say, what did the girl do wrong by not giving up her seat? Need to be morally blamed?
Normally, we encourage the transmission of kindness between people, such as giving up a seat to someone who needs it, but there is a premise that the other person is worthy.
People are mutual, you are kind, we are also kind, if you are unreasonable, we must also have the right to refuse.
This is the bottom line of kindness, and the kindness that loses the bottom line is cowardice.
Why are we talking about this?
A small thing that can reflect good and evil.
Good and evil are sometimes in a thought, when you go out, everyone wants to meet good people, and we are willing to do our best to help others, but if we meet people who are domineering, we should also adhere to the principles and let the other party understand that no one is used to him, and if he does something wrong, he should be punished.
From this point of view, I just want to say that if this uncle and his daughter do not change their values, they still have a lot of hardships to endure.
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