Lao Lu said that during this time, he worked hard to help his niece fill in the volunteers, and he was about to be angry!
He said that he looked through the information of previous years, consulted a lot of data, consulted many friends, and finally provided a list that he thought was more reliable, but his niece did not listen to him at all.
I said that young people nowadays have their own opinions and ideas. Maybe what they like is the best for them.
"But he has little experience and not enough cognition, and with our guidance from someone else, he won't fall into the pit!" Lao Lu was still a little regretful and unconvinced.
I said, we didn't necessarily choose the right one, you see that the university we studied was not too bad, and now it can only be regarded as making ends meet, can we say that our choice is the best?
Old Lu was silent for a moment, and said, "Hey, too, her uncle doesn't read much, but he makes more money than us, and he often buys this and that for the children, and they love to listen to his uncle." It seems that the right to speak is still determined by strength!
I said, this is human nature and the truth. Today's children are psychologically mature early, and they are well aware of many social truths.
If you don't want to be slapped in the face by reality, you have to understand human nature! When you reach middle age, you still don't understand human nature, then you are not really mature.
No matter how people change, human nature will not change. And human nature only has a reverence for the truth of "strength", which has been the case since ancient times, and humans are similar to animals. Even the genetics come from animals.
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1. Fear of inner "strength".
In zoos, we just like most animals, but we can't help but be in awe of lions and tigers, because they are born with great strength to fight.
In nature, when other animals see lions and tigers, they will also flee in fear in all directions. Because they don't run away as soon as possible, they are likely to be eaten.
In ancient times, human beings survived in the constant struggle with nature and competition with animals, but the awe of strength was engraved in the genes, and even today, human beings cannot eliminate the influence on the inner strength of animals.
Two: awe of external "strength".
Let's think about it, the ancient palaces were all built tall and solemn, so that people would be in awe when they walked in. This was a means for ancient emperors to show their dignity and make others feel awe.
In today's society, people will unconsciously feel awe when they see top luxury cars passing by on the side of the road. Therefore, in order to show their status, many people do not hesitate to spend money to buy luxury cars.
People's reverence for power, wealth, and social status is actually the evolution of human beings from the fear of animal power and authority, and it is also a manifestation of people's desire to gain power and show strength.
Three: the worship of acquired "strength".
Before celebrities and celebrities succeed, the people around him may be very indifferent to him, and even all kinds of calculations, but after he is successful and famous, the attitudes of the people around him are completely different, and what they gain is worship and respect.
This is a clear illustration of the great reverence that human nature shows for "strength", even in the face of the same person, when that person becomes strong, people's attitudes can change in an instant.
And when you are strong, others are kind to you, and then human nature is inherently good! When you are weak, others are not kind to you, and then human nature is evil!
In reality, people tend to treat and evaluate others according to their strength, which also reminds us to recognize and adapt to this characteristic of human nature.
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Therefore, whether people are willing to listen to what you say, and whether others support what you do depends on your strength to a certain extent.
When we reach middle age, we should understand some basic human nature, which will help us to understand the rules of society more clearly and control interpersonal relationships.
Only through the correct cognition and systematic understanding of awe can we better deal with various problems in reality, build our own more solid hard power, and finally let the strength speak for you!