Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad
May Fourth Entertainment
2024-07-14 18:51Published in Heilongjiang
Meng Ziyi has been in 3 relationships, and each time a boy took the initiative to break up, she couldn't help but start wondering herself: Am I too clingy?
But once you understand Mencius's concept of love, you will know that those boys were too seen through by her and had to propose to break up in order to save their face.
Mencius, the absolute "sobriety of the world"!
Mencius: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad
On a quiet night in "Fifty Kilometers of Peach Blossom Dock", Zhang Xincheng shared his love story with Meng Ziyi: "I talked about one before, but then I missed it, and then I felt that this person was actually very good......
Meng Ziyi hit the nail on the head and explained the reason: "That must be your next (girlfriend) is too bad!" ”
Zhang Xincheng obviously can't accept this statement: "I don't think so. ”
Mencius explained: "As for us, we all decide what to do based on the judgment of the moment. If you think she's good at the moment, you can't be separated from her. ”
Zhang Xincheng is still a little unwilling, taking "Bouquet of Love" as an example: "The souls of the two protagonists are very compatible in all aspects, but for the sake of the present, one chooses the wilderness and the other chooses the track." ”
Meng Ziyi gave a straight ball again: "That means that these two people are just not suitable." They all have different positions on social values. ”
Zhang Xincheng somewhat understood what Mencius meant: "In retrospect, they are the most compatible pair, but the time is not right, or they are not always on the same track." ”
Mencius summed it up highly: "I think life is to keep looking forward. ”
True! Whether it is the wilderness or the track, looking forward is always the right direction.
Mencius: A good love for young people is a stimulant for careers
When Xu Zhisheng eats, he will habitually take a photo and send it to his girlfriend.
It was originally a very simple and normal thing, but after Mencius saw it, he cast an envious gaze, and couldn't help asking: "You guys chat every day?" If you go to dinner, you will tell her that you went to dinner? Did I eat anything today? ”
Xu Zhisheng replied: "When it's time to eat, just take a photo." ”
Meng Ziyi covered his mouth and snickered, "Oh, it's so sweet, help!" ”
Xu Zhisheng asked Meng Ziyi distressedly: "What did your previous boyfriends treat you?" I don't chatter, I don't talk to you when I eat, and I can get you excited for a long time by taking a photo? I feel a little sorry for Sister Meng. ”
Meng Ziyi talked about a boyfriend before, and often cried to her about how difficult it was for him and how hard he worked, which caused Meng Ziyi to feel very sorry for him and accommodate him.
What made Meng Ziyi realize that he was PUA by the other party was that they would always quarrel over the same thing, "Although he is always weak on the surface, when I tell him something, no matter what I say, I can't shake his opinion, which means that he is not a weak person at all." ”
From the small to the big, from this to the other - this kind of overall view is often what people who fall in love lack!
Perhaps because the 3 relationships were all dumped, Mencius has a set of standards for judging the quality of love: "When we fall in love at this age, it must be like a stimulant in our career, which will make us want to pursue a good career." If he is troubled every day and wants to mess up, it must be wrong. ”
Mencius: Initiative in love is not cheap
Through the recording of the variety show "Heartbeat Signal", Meng Ziyi also summed up some experiences:
In life, one of the men and women will often be together because they are moved, but only the real two-way rush is the best way to have a relationship. The original intention of falling in love is because of liking, which is the respect for the other half.
The initiative in love is not cheap, if the other party thinks you are cheap, it means that the other party has a problem, you can't blame yourself for the fault, he is not worthy, he is not worthy!
epilogue
Li Xueqin once used "a flower bred under the Bodhi tree" to describe Mencius.
She also made a vivid description of Mencius's simple, direct and efficient outlook on life and love: "Most of us will go around several bends and hit the wall several times before we can find the true meaning. And Mencius, from the very beginning, was waiting for us at the true meaning; Wait until we break through the wall and walk over. ”
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Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad -
Meng Ziyi's 3 relationships were all dumped, and he shared his view of love with Zhang Xincheng: I miss my predecessor because the current one is too bad