In the labyrinth of emotions, I often think about a question: why do some boys always hover on the verge of being single despite their good conditions? It wasn't until I experienced a wonderful encounter that it dawned on me that what girls like is often the true self you take the initiative to show, rather than blindly please.
That day, the sun was shining, and I met her in the corner of the library - a quiet and elegant girl. I plucked up the courage and stepped forward, not to please me, but out of pure appreciation and curiosity. I told her that I liked the book in her hand and the way she read quietly in the sun. She wasn't surprised, just smiled slightly, and at that moment, I seemed to see the first rays of spring sunshine.
In the days that followed, we didn't deliberately create opportunities, nor did we deliberately try to please each other. I just take the initiative to say hello and share something interesting every time I meet her. And she will occasionally respond to my topic, or take the initiative to bring up some new ideas. This kind of natural communication made me feel more relaxed and happy than I had ever been.
Until one day, she suddenly asked me, "Why are you always so proactive?" I was stunned for a moment, then replied with a smile: "Because I like you and like the feeling of being with you." But more importantly, I appreciate your independence and self-confidence, and I want to let you see a true me through my initiative. She was silent for a moment, then nodded softly, as if she understood something.
This experience made me understand a truth: in the world of love, flattering often only makes the other person feel pressure, and true liking comes from appreciation and respect for each other. When we let go of the flattering mentality and face the people we like with sincerity and initiative, we can often reap unexpected surprises.
So, dear friends, if you are still worried about how to get rid of the single, you might as well try to let go of the flattery and use your sincerity and initiative to meet love! Trust me, when you take that step bravely, happiness beckons to you not far away.
So, are you ready for your love? Come and share your stories and opinions in the comment section!