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"I want a baby!"
"We've already said yes, don't have children! Who is qualified to raise children now. ”
Lina came to United States by chance, and met George, a United States professor who was 25 years older than herself, at school, and in order to get a green card, Lina and George staged a wonderful marriage experience.
When the two got along, Lina gradually fell in love with George, and proposed to have a child with him, but this idea was strongly opposed by George, so the two kept arguing, and finally Lina and George divorced and left the house......
Married to an old man in United States who was 25 years older
Lina was born in a poor family in Inner Mongolia, in her junior year, because her family could not pay the tuition fees, Lina could only choose to drop out of school and go out to work, she worked in factory assembly lines, sales and card sales, etc., but she was always uneasy about the current situation.
Later, I heard in the mouth of a colleague that the aunt at home has been developing abroad all year round, and the money earned is not less than that in China, hearing this, Lina's heart was moved, and in 2015, Lina took the money she had saved from her part-time job over the years and came to live in the unfamiliar United States.
But it didn't take long for Lina to use up the money she brought, because she had no identity, she could only find a job as a waiter and dishwasher in United States, and all kinds of hardships made Lina miserable, and if she wanted to have a way out, she had to have a green card.
But how can a green card be so easy to get, and later Lina learned after inquiry that the fastest and most effective way to get a green card is to find a United States man to marry.
This allowed Lina to discover a new world, so in addition to her daily work, she concentrated on finding a suitable marriage partner, and soon, a United States man named George appeared, who was a full 25 years older than Lina.
Speaking of the meeting between the two, it was really fateful, in 2017, when Lina entered a community college to learn English, on the first day of registration, Lina was attracted by this polite teacher, or a mature man is attractive.
As a result, when the next day of class, George turned out to be her teacher, which made Lina ecstatic, and she was also very serious in class, and she would run to George to ask for advice when she got out of class.
The characteristic of United States is that they will immediately confess when they meet their hearts, and George is the same, on the third day, Lina suddenly received a call from the teacher George, because English is not good, the communication between the two relies on chat software.
George said a lot, which roughly meant that he liked Lina from the first sight of her, and whether he was willing to fall in love with him or not.
Lina was stunned at first, I didn't expect United States to be so straightforward, but Chinese are not bad, people should be honest with others, so she told George her true purpose.
The reason why she wants to marry United States person is that she wants a green card, if George, then the two will get married directly, and they can make up for it after marriage when they fall in love.
George, who was originally the preemptive striker, may have been frightened by her sincerity after hearing Lina's words, and stopped talking, and after a few seconds, George said that he needed time to think about it and give her an answer in a few days.
Afterwards, Lina didn't take it to heart, after all, she had a purpose, but she didn't expect that only a week later, George's reply came, he felt that Lina was very sincere, and there was a saying that if he refused, then Lina would also find someone else to get married and get a green card.
He couldn't bear to see Lina being used by someone with a heart, so it was better to marry him, at least he had a stable salary, RV social security, and he didn't have to worry about it for the rest of his life, and he was willing to help Lina handle it.
But there is a premise, that is, George does not plan to have children after marriage, and Lina agrees, and in this way, after only 10 days of acquaintance with the old professor, Lina handed herself over.
George also fulfilled his promise, 4 months later, Lina got the United States green card as she wished, and after getting married, Lina moved to George's house to live, thinking that their relationship would warm up in daily life, but it was not.
5 years of emotional cleanliness out of the house
Their lives have become AA system, and since Lina wants to live in his house, she has to pay rent to him, and the money she earns at work is also spent separately, without disturbing each other.
But after all, when they are married, it is always inappropriate for the husband and wife not to come out to show their faces, so they will go out together, go shopping, and eat food together on weekends, and George will also take Lina to meet friends for parties and visit museums to learn more about United States culture.
These are all new to Lina, and through her role as a professor of philosophy at George, Lina has met many United States, so this is the benefit that George brought to Lina.
In the two years she spent with George, she found that this old man was very good, kind-hearted and heartless, and she had learned a lot from him, so she thought about whether she could develop this marriage of only marriage and not love into a real de facto marriage.
That is, to live a normal life and live a normal married life, so Lina, who is 32 years old, wants to have a child with George, but this idea is strongly opposed by George.
He explained that he had already said that he would not have children before he got married, but Lina felt that now that her living conditions were better, she could consider having one, but no matter what Lina said, George just didn't agree, and the two had a quarrel.
George, who was born in philosophy, began to instill in Lina the idea of not wanting children, and gradually, Lina also felt that she really couldn't ask for it, and she couldn't take care of the money she earned, and wouldn't it be crazy to have another child.
After another two years of thinking like this, Lina's desire to have a child came back again, because she and George had many arguments about it, and Lina also realized that this was not the life she wanted.
Chinese pay attention to raising children to prevent old age, and there is no one to send themselves to the end in the future, which is too miserable, in 2022, Lina and George went through the divorce procedures, Lina went out of the house, and only took what belonged to her.
After the divorce, Lina faced life positively and began to screen a large number of boyfriends on social platforms, and it didn't take long for Lina's second relationship to come.
Life nowadays
The two met at a café, Lina sat down after buying coffee, and the man followed, and they chatted like this, the other party was a professor at United States University, who was also 15 years older than her.
Lina had a good impression of him during the chat, and she also confessed her experience to each other, she just wanted to find a kind and warm person who could meet her needs.
Hearing this, United States men were deeply attracted to Lina, who had contacted so many girls before, and it was the first time they had seen Lina, and the personalities of the two formed a contrast, and they were immediately determined to be together.
Lina has also been struggling on the road and never stopped, her boyfriend taught her to invest, taught her how to live a high quality of life, taught her how to love someone, it can be said that this appointment has given Lina happiness that she has never had.
Now Lina has created a personal account, posted a video of her daily life, and will also help fans evaluate some skincare products, and on June 5, 2024, Lina released a video about "Summer in New York, comfortable".
Lina in the video has a great figure, wearing a white baseball cap and dancing to the music, and there is no sign that she is almost 40 years old.
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Source: The Douyin account "Lina in New York" released a report on "Episode 11: The Survival Story of a 36-Year-Old Chinese Woman at the Bottom of United States Society (11)" on October 23, 2023
On October 26, 2023, a report on "Episode 11: The Survival Story of a 36-Year-Old Chinese Woman at the Bottom of United States Society (12)" was released
On October 29, 2023, a report on "Episode 11: The Survival Story of a 36-Year-Old Chinese Woman at the Bottom of United States Society (13)" was released
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