Song Ningfeng, an actor who has worked in the entertainment industry for many years, although he has some bright spots, has failed to break into the public eye.
Song Ningfeng's acting skills on the screen have been recognized, and he has participated in many well-received works. He played an important role in "Golden Age" starring Tang Wei, and showed his strength through his rivalry with Tang Wei.
In "Aspirin" with Mei Ting, he also accumulated rich acting experience, and in "Love and Blind Date" directed by Zhang Aijia, he successfully played the leading role, further proving his acting skills, although these works added honor to his acting career, but did not make him truly popular.
Song Ningfeng's background is complex and he has close ties with many well-known figures in the entertainment industry. His cousin is Dou Wei's ex-wife Gao Yuan, and this relationship makes the relationship between him and Faye Wong and Zhou Xun indescribable.
Especially Zhou Xun, who was his girlfriend, this past is still talked about today.
However, Song Ningfeng's seemingly dazzling interpersonal relationships did not really help him make a breakthrough in his acting career. He is still the unknown actor who strives to show his talent in front of the camera, and looks forward to being recognized by more audiences one day.
In this highly competitive entertainment industry, Song Ningfeng has always maintained his enthusiasm for his career and dedication to his work, although this road is full of difficulties and obstacles, he still insists on taking love as the driving force and devotes himself to the shaping of every role.
Perhaps, it is this persistence and love that makes it possible for him to usher in a turning point in his career in the future.
In 2012, Song Ningfeng and Qi Xi fell in love and came together because of the play. This relationship was warm and beautiful, and even Song Ningfeng changed his original name "Song Ning" to "Song Ningfeng" in order to express his love, which means "the stream comes from the peak".
This romantic gesture is undoubtedly a testimony to the most passionate period of their relationship.
However, married life is not as perfect as they imagined. Qi Xi prioritized his career and was reluctant to have children for five years. Although Song Ningfeng's heart was full of unwillingness, he chose to respect his wife's decision and silently supported her career.
This sacrifice may have been seen as considerate at the time, but it also laid the groundwork for future marriages.
In 2018, Qi Xi participated in the movie "Mordoga" and partnered with Wang Chuanjun. On the occasion of the start of filming, Song Ningfeng also made a special trip to the set to give his wife a compliment full of rainbow farts, showing his firm support for his wife's career.
On Valentine's Day of the same year, the two also attended the premiere of the Berlin Film Festival of "Over the Spring" together, and in the eyes of outsiders, their marriage was still harmonious and loving.
However, fate plays tricks. During the filming of the movie "Mordoga", Qi Xi and Wang Chuanjun secretly had feelings for each other. Just two months later, the two stars were photographed on an intimate trip, and Wang Chuanjun's hand was tightly wrapped around Qi Xi's shoulder, as if announcing their relationship to the world.
In September 2018, Qi Xi and Song Ningfeng publicly announced their divorce, and the news of this divorce is embarrassing, because more than half a year ago, there has been a scandal about Qi Xi and Wang Chuanjun's nighttime tryst, which seems to imply that Qi Xi may have stepped on two boats during this time.
For Song Ningfeng, the blow was huge. He once changed his name for love and silently supported his wife's career, but in the end he ended up with such an ending. The failure of this marriage not only brought him huge psychological trauma, but also buried hidden dangers in his future love life.
Soon after the divorce, Qi Xi's life changed dramatically. She quickly moved into Wang Chuanjun's love nest, and the relationship between the two developed very quickly, which was surprising. Compared with her marriage to Song Ningfeng, the relationship between Qi Xi and Wang Chuanjun seems to be more warm and firm.
The news that Qi Xi soon became pregnant and gave birth to a son was undoubtedly a heavy blow to Song Ningfeng. Qi Xi, who was once reluctant to give birth because she was focused on her career, now does not hesitate to conceive offspring for her new love, this stark contrast reminds people of the past when she delayed for five years to give Song Ningfeng a child.
The relationship between Qi Xi and Wang Chuanjun developed very quickly and steadily. Before Wang Chuanjun officially announced his relationship, Qi Xi was photographed traveling with Wang Chuanjun with her child, which was in strong contrast to her previous attitude towards Song Ningfeng.
In June 2023, when Wang Chuanjun participated in the recording of the "Peach Blossom Dock" program, he generously disclosed his marriage relationship with Qi Xi, which immediately sparked heated discussions from all walks of life. Attention has been drawn to the sweet life of the new couple, and they have indeed shown a sweet side.
Some media have photographed the warm pictures of Wang Chuanjun and Qi Xi's family of three many times. Qi Xi hugged the child with a happy smile on his face, and Wang Chuanjun guarded his wife and children on the side, this picture was like a happy family.
In contrast, Song Ningfeng's situation is even more embarrassing. He must face his ex-wife's happy new life, and he also needs to face all kinds of difficulties in his marriage. Qi Xi's appearance of talking and laughing in front of the camera was like a heavy slap in the face of his ex-husband Song Ningfeng, and it also became an indelible shadow in his heart.
However, this relationship has been buried with hidden dangers since the beginning. Zhang Wanting soon became pregnant, and in order to register the child, Song Ningfeng had to get the certificate in a hurry. This decision was not a deliberate choice between the two of them, and seemed more like it was forced.
After marriage, Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng often had conflicts, which made Song Ningfeng deeply uneasy. Zhang Wanting had already shown a strong desire to control during her pregnancy, especially after a quarrel, she would even take extreme behaviors, such as walking on the rooftop, which made Song Ningfeng extremely frightened.
This situation is a sign that there are major problems in their marital relationship.
In the second season of "Goodbye Lover", Zhang Wanting's behavior became more and more serious. She frequently interrupted others to speak, and mercilessly ridiculed Song Ningfeng as a "drag oil bottle". This kind of public humiliation made the other guests feel uncomfortable, and they persuaded Zhang Wanting to restrain herself.
However, she considered herself "great" and interpreted these exhortations as an affirmation of her "self-sacrifice".
What's even more shocking is that once Zhang Wanting actually pinched Song Ningfeng's neck and scolded him. In the face of such violent behavior, Song Ningfeng chose to swallow his anger and tried to excuse his wife.
This kind of almost masochistic behavior made onlookers unbearable, and even Yi Lijing, who was known for his poisonous tongue, couldn't help but exclaim "excessive".
However, despite all this, Song Ningfeng wrote the words "I don't want to divorce" at the end of the show. This behavior sparked a heated discussion among the guests in the observation room, and Sun Yi complained unceremoniously: "The brain is not good."
Even more worrying is that this unhealthy relationship has begun to have a detrimental effect on their children. Their young daughter has reportedly mimicked her mother's behavior and learned to treat her father with words like "something is wrong."
Song Ningfeng's performance in this marriage makes one wonder if he has lost himself. His attitude of silently bearing seems to be interpreting the word "forbearance" in his own way. However, this kind of forbearance did not win his wife's understanding, but made Zhang Wanting more and more unscrupulous and intensified.
This marriage was undoubtedly a nightmare for Song Ningfeng, but he seemed unable or unwilling to wake up from this nightmare. Perhaps in his mind, this painful relationship is still better than being alone.
However, this wrong choice is slowly eating away at his self-esteem and happiness.
Song Ningfeng's marital predicament stems from his past relationship with Qi Xi. Qi Xi's betrayal of him left an indelible shadow on Song Ningfeng's psychology, and when he saw Qi Xi talking and laughing in front of the camera, happy and happy, it was like a slap in the face.
This painful experience had a profound impact on Song Ningfeng's outlook on love and marriage.
This trauma caused Song Ningfeng's understanding of love to be seriously skewed, and he mistakenly believed that Zhang Wanting's controlling desire and extreme behavior were out of love for him and for his good.
This misunderstanding made him deeply trapped in this unhealthy relationship, unable to extricate himself Song Ningfeng seemed to have lost the ability to judge what true love was, mistook Zhang Wanting's control and insults for concern, and even chose to excuse her in the face of such bad treatment.
At the same time, Zhang Wanting's behavior also reflects her deep inferiority complex. She may think that she can't match Song Ningfeng, and she is afraid that he may leave her like Qi Xi.
This inferiority complex eventually translates into controlling and aggressive behavior towards Song Ningfeng, and she will gain a distorted sense of security by belittling and humiliating Song Ningfeng, as if this is the only way to ensure that Song Ningfeng will not leave her.
What's even more worrying is that this unhealthy relationship has begun to affect their children. There are reports that their young daughters have learned to imitate their mother's behavior and will say things like "something is wrong" to their father.
This kind of family environment will undoubtedly have a negative impact on the child's development and may lead the child to form a wrong concept of interpersonal relationships.
Song Ningfeng's eyes were always full of helplessness and pain, but he still chose to stay in this marriage, perhaps because he was afraid of experiencing failure again, or because he wanted to give his children a complete home.
However, this situation urgently needs to change.
In "Goodbye Lover", Song Ningfeng seems to have become accustomed to being belittled in the eyes of the guests, and others tried their best to refute him because he felt unfair.
However, Song Ningfeng has remained silent, and this almost masochistic attitude makes one wonder if he has completely lost his self-esteem and the ability to protect himself.
Song Ningfeng's experience is not only the unhappiness of his personal marriage, but also presents the problem that some people may lose their way in their relationships. How to get out of the predicament and rebuild healthy interpersonal relationships is not only a problem that Song Ningfeng needs to face, but also a point that all those who are caught in a similar predicament need to think about and prepare.
Song Ningfeng's story has changed from an unknown actor to a "poor man" in marriage, which is really embarrassing. We should learn from his experience that marriage is not child's play, and both parties must work together to manage it.
For Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting, in order to get out of the current predicament, they first need to face up to the existence of the problem. Song Ningfeng needs to understand that swallowing his anger cannot be exchanged for true understanding and respect.
He needs to learn to protect himself and establish a correct view of love, although his acting career did not make him famous, it should also give him enough courage to face the challenges in life.
I look forward to Song Ningfeng being able to get out of the haze and regain his self-confidence. Perhaps, he can transform these rich life experiences into the nutrients needed for acting skills and create brilliance in his acting career.
After all, the excitement of life is not only limited to marriage, there is a broader world waiting for him to explore.
For the public, Song's story provides an opportunity for reflection and a greater sense of empathy and understanding when judging others, rather than just criticizing and mocking.
Everyone will encounter their own problems in life, and solving these problems is precisely the opportunity for us to grow and progress.