Guide
The root cause of family conflicts often stems from seemingly trivial matters, such as the unhappiness between the father-in-law and the mother-in-law over a small matter. Beneath this surface, however, lies a deeper problem. If you want to understand how misunderstandings and challenges arise in your family? Then read on.
Causes of family conflicts
In fact, the source of family conflicts is often triggered by some seemingly inconsequential small things. Just like father-in-law and mother-in-law, just
Because of the slightest thing, it is very unpleasant. Behind this, there is actually a deeper crux hidden.
Misunderstandings and challenges in the family
Here's the thing. My father-in-law and Li Qingwan have known each other for a long time. Li Qingwan was able to get together with her father-in-law, not because of her graceful demeanor, but because she was divorced from a single parent and had a daughter who was studying in graduate school, and had the same surname as her father-in-law.
Outbreak and management of family crises
At first, her mother-in-law didn't know about the relationship between Li Qingwan and her father-in-law. When the mother-in-law learned about it, she immediately reprimanded her father-in-law, accusing him of treachery and being a romantic person. even suspected that when Li Qingwan gave birth to Yang Shan, her father-in-law still had an illegitimate daughter outside.
At that time, my father-in-law was very annoyed and asked my mother-in-law to give an explanation. Unexpectedly, the two of them did not speculate, but actually started to move. The father-in-law wanted to fight back, but the mother-in-law picked up the hammer on the ground and slammed it into the father-in-law's head, instantly knocking the father-in-law unconscious.
Family reconciliation and future prospects
When my father-in-law woke up, he found himself lying on the sofa in the living room. Limp limbs and splitting headaches. At this time, he heard his mother-in-law calling out to others. The mother-in-law had already consulted with several of her neighbors to find someone to "teach" him. He also said that he would call his mother-in-law's parents to come and discipline this madman who did not know filial piety.
When my father-in-law heard this, he was furious. He wanted to quickly find the key and go into the bedroom to hide, but as soon as he reached the bedroom door, he heard his mother-in-law shouting: "Come on!" This bastard is awake! Hurry up and educate him! ”
After saying that, the mother-in-law also closed the bedroom door. After a while, the voices of grandfather, grandmother, and several relatives were heard. They shouted the slogan "Teach the madman a lesson", and they talked and laughed. seems to enjoy this "farce".
The rest of the story is simpler. Grandpa saw that his father-in-law was awake, so he stepped forward without saying a word. The beating was extremely fierce, and after a few slaps, my father-in-law was beaten dizzy. When my father-in-law came to his senses, it was already early the next morning.
At this time, he found himself lying on the bed, with his mother-in-law and Sister Yang sitting beside him. Sister Yang saw him wake up
, hurriedly helped him and asked, "Dad, how do you feel?" Does it hurt? ”
Hearing Sister Yang's title, my father-in-law was stunned. That's when I remembered all the things I had done last night. He looked around and saw that he was tightly surrounded. In addition to her mother-in-law and Sister Yang, there are also grandfathers, grandmothers, and even relatives who rarely contact them on weekdays.
At this time, the mother-in-law said with a smile on her face: "Wife, are you awake?" What do you think? To listen to me or not to listen? In the future, our family will not talk about this again. Li Qingwan, as your lover and my best friend, has been in our house for so long, and it can be regarded as fate. Let's get along well as a family. ”
Hearing this, everyone present laughed. Everyone felt that the matter was properly resolved. Only my father-in-law felt a little inexplicable. He thought to himself: Isn't it bad enough that I was beaten like this last night? Does it have to be worse?
After the family meeting, everyone left. At this time, the mother-in-law took out an agreement and asked the father-in-law to sign it. The agreement reads:
- Li Qingwan, as the third party in the relationship between husband and wife, stayed in the family for a period of time. Now due to emotional problems, the husband and wife need to negotiate and settle, and during this period, the husband and wife and their relatives must not pursue each other's past behavior.
- The husband and his relatives should fulfill their duty of protection to Li Qingwan and her daughter Yang Moumou (surnamed Yang in the text), and work with the husband and wife to maintain family harmony.
- The husband and his relatives shall not do anything detrimental to the relationship between the husband and wife and the family. If a violation is discovered, it will be punished jointly by both spouses and their relatives.
- This Agreement shall come into force on the date of signature and pledge by both parties and their relatives. Both parties and their relatives shall strictly abide by the content of the agreement and fulfill relevant obligations.