As the greatest badminton player in Chinese history, Lin Dan's achievements on the court are absolutely undoubted, but Lin Dan off the court has completely become the object of people's spurning because he forgot to draw the curtains.
But just when everyone thought that Xie Xingfang would choose to clear up her relationship with Lin Dan because of this incident, she finally chose to forgive Lin Dan, and it was only after many years that people saw Xie Xingfang's current situation and completely understood how correct her choice was.
So why did Xie Xingfang choose not to divorce? And why did she do it?
The goddess of first love
If you want to describe Xie Xingfang's status in Lin Dan's heart, it can be summed up in one sentence, that is, the goddess of first love, Lin Dan, who had just turned 15 years old in 2000, was just a newcomer to the national team, he met Xie Xingfang here and fell in love with her at first sight.
It's just that because of the relationship between the national team, there is not much intersection between the two people, so the two people don't have any opportunities to get in touch, until 2003, Xie Xingfang, who was already the main force of the national team, needed someone to help as a sparring partner, and Lin Dan happened to be her sparring partner at this time.
This made the two of them acquainted, and then Lin Dan was the sister who was two years older than herself and launched a fierce pursuit, as long as it was what she wanted, Lin Dan would immediately go back to meet it, and the team finally had a holiday, and Lin Dan would also think of buying some gifts for Xie Xingfang for the first time.
In this way, the two people slowly walked together, but the national team naturally has the rules of the national team, although there is no explicit prohibition on the players to fall in love with each other, but the results of the national team are still very important, but fortunately, the strength of the two people is the top of the national team, so the coach did not prevent the two from falling in love.
So at the 2007 All England Open, Lin Dan announced the relationship between the two to the world on the podium of women's singles, and after that, Lin Dan's career seemed to be open, winning a number of world championships, in 2009, Xie Xingfang had no choice but to retire due to injury problems, and became Lin Dan's virtuous helper.
Only a year later, Lin Dan became the first Grand Slam winner of Chinese badminton, and after getting this honor, Lin Dan directly chose to enter the palace of marriage with Xie Xingfang, but the good times did not last long, but the happiness of the two people was completely changed because of a curtain that was not drawn.
Curtain events
After getting married, Lin Dan seemed to be open, not only became the first Olympic badminton men's singles champion to complete the re-election, but also won various awards, in 2016, Xie Xingfang was pregnant, just when everyone thought that Lin Dan would spell out his third Olympic champion for the sake of his child.
Lin Dan unexpectedly lost to his subordinate Li Zongwei in the semifinals, and after the Olympics, Xie Xingfang gave birth to Lin Dan's first child, but at this time, the paparazzi broke the big news that Lin Dan actually cheated, and the reason why he was photographed was that he forgot to draw the curtains.
In the paparazzi's revelations, Lin Dan and a woman kissed in the hotel, Xie Xingfang was still pregnant at the time, and as soon as this incident came out, the whole network exploded, and even the official had no way to cover it up for him, but Lin Dan chose not to respond after this to cover up the matter.
But netizens didn't intend to let Lin Dan go, and there were immediately denunciations of Lin Dan on the Internet, as well as sympathy for Xie Xingfang, and even wiped out the information of the junior Zhao Qiya.
Zhao Qiya was originally the third place in the Miss China competition, but she has been scandalized since her debut, and after this incident, Zhao Qiya was boycotted by the whole network and soon disappeared from the public's field of vision.
After this incident, many netizens persuaded Xie Xingfang to break up with the scumbag, but Xie Xingfang's choice surprised everyone.
Xie Xingfang's surprising choice
Xie Xingfang, who was recovering from pregnancy at the time, posted on her social media, the content was very simple, that is, Lin Dan had apologized to herself for this incident and expressed her forgiveness.
This surprised many people, after all, in the eyes of many people, Xie Xingfang has always been a vigorous and resolute character, and she would not forgive Lin Dan's infidelity so easily, but she chose to forgive it as soon as possible.
Many people think that the reason why she chose this way may be largely related to the child, after all, the child of two people has just been born, and choosing to divorce at this time is not very unfriendly to the child.
But in fact, what Xie Xingfang thinks is by no means so simple, until 8 years later, when we look at the lives of two people, you will find out what Xie Xingfang's real purpose is?
Xie Xingfang chose two reasons
Xie Xingfang once said that she was an excellent and independent athlete before she retired, and she was a financially independent woman after retiring.
Xie Xingfang is now doing her own business and creating her own brand, and the company's development is very good, on the other hand, Lin Dan's current situation is much worse, although he can get a lot of attention by virtue of his identity as the first person in badminton, but the original incident made his reputation inferior.
And now the two of them can basically be regarded as financially independent individuals, Lin Dan is basically an Internet celebrity now, occasionally able to appear on some shows, and his annual income is much worse than Xie Xingfang's, and even his usual life depends on his wife, and he has a position as a creative director in his wife's company.
But it is obvious that the initiative of marriage has always been on Xie Xingfang, the original thing is well known, and the fact of derailment is also a certainty, if Xie Xingfang is willing, she can kick Lin Dan away anytime and anywhere, the reason why she didn't do it is not because there is love, but for the sake of the child.
In addition, with the living sign of Lin Dan, the development of his company will be much smoother, and Zhao Qiya, as long as he does not divorce, the original matter will not be over, Zhao Qiya is the junior who intervenes in other people's families, so Zhao Qiya has absolutely no possibility of turning over in this life.
Zhao Qiya has always wanted to enter the entertainment industry to develop, but as soon as this incident came out, let alone the entertainment industry, no one would pay attention to it if she wanted to be an Internet celebrity in the live broadcast industry, it can be said that Xie Xingfang's initial concession was finally exchanged for her own success, and it can be said that Xie Xingfang herself is a person with great wisdom.
Now Xie Xingfang is very happy, the child has an excellent career, as for love or something, for Xie Xingfang, it is not very important whether there is or not.
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