In 1998, the movie "Storm and Storm Dominates the World" was released.
Yang Gongru plays the heroine Kong Ci in the film.
Dressed in a red wedding dress, her eyebrows are picturesque, and she is beautiful.
not only fascinated the three brothers of Frost Wind Cloud, but also touched the hearts of many audiences.
It's a pity that although there are many people who love her, she does not achieve happiness.
What's even more regrettable is that Yang Gongru outside the play, although he has had many relationships, he is still alone.
Going around and around, in the word "love", she is always a "loser".
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1995 was a watershed in Yang Gongru's life.
This year, she was 21 years old and a freshman in Canada.
When I returned to Hong Kong for a vacation, I happened to meet the Miss Asia beauty pageant.
With the persuasion and support of her mother, Yang Gongru signed up for the competition.
Originally, she didn't hold out hope, and she just couldn't bear to be sad for her mother.
As everyone knows, her beauty is destined for her to be a blockbuster.
That year, Yang Gongru not only won the championship of Sister Asia, but also won many awards such as "Miss Most Photogenic", "Most Popular Beauty", "One Person, One Vote", and was known as Li Jiaxin of ATV (Asia Television).
Seeing this, ATV struck while the iron was hot and immediately decided to sign her.
The appearance of Yang Gongru made ATV a treasure, not only named her "the most beautiful Asian sister", but also used all the good resources at hand to support her debut.
In this case, it is difficult for Yang Gongru not to be popular.
She partnered Maggie Cheung and Li Ming to star in her film debut "Sweet Honey", which not only made a wave of familiar faces, but also won the nomination for Best Newcomer at the Hong Kong Film Awards.
Movies are emerging, and TV series naturally can't be left behind.
Soon "Snow Flower Sword" was broadcast, and Yang Gongru played the heroine Mei Jiangxue in the play.
Dressed in white, his eyebrows are picturesque, and he is as cold as a fairy.
The charming demeanor of the gestures still makes many people remember it to this day.
Many people, and even regrettably, she failed to play "Little Dragon Girl" once.
Ancient costumes have masterpieces, and modern costumes are soon to follow.
In 1998, the TV series "I Have a Date with a Zombie" came out.
Yang Gongru incarnates as Wang Zhenzhen, a primary school teacher in the play, innocent, kind, gentle and lovely.
For this role, she was nominated for Best Actress in Asian Television in 1999.
So far, Yang Gongru's career can be said to be in full swing.
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The career is smooth, but the love is constantly bumpy.
As the saying goes, my fair lady is a gentleman.
As beautiful as Yang Gongru, there will naturally be no fewer suitors.
A popular student, a well-known wealthy businessman.
Some people had scandals with her, and they were boiling.
Some became her boyfriends, with a bang.
It is said that Yang Gongru's earliest object of scandal was the wealthy businessman Ye Maoqing.
At that time, Yang Gongru had just been elected as the champion of the Asian sister, and Ye Maoqing pursued her.
It's a pity that King Xiang has a dream, but the goddess has no heart, so this matter will not be over.
In the entertainment industry, the most common thing for actors is to fall in love with the play.
Among Yang Gongru's rumored boyfriends, there are naturally also actors who play with her.
In those years, she and Ekin Cheng worked together frequently and were known as the best screen couple.
In the play, tenderness and sweetness, love and sweetness.
The scandals outside the play are naturally full of flying.
But at that time, Ekin Cheng already had a lover, and he was in love so much that he couldn't give up.
Not long after, Yang Gongru and Louis Koo were photographed meeting in Taiwan.
The list of rumored boyfriends has been added one more.
Immediately afterwards, the music genius Wang Jie appeared and became the target of Yang Gongruxin's scandal.
But after going around in circles, Yang Gongru's relationship has not been able to stabilize.
Until she met Zhou Zhengyi, a wealthy businessman, she began to have the idea of getting married.
When they met for the first time, Zhou Zhengyi was captured by Yang Gongru's beauty.
In order to impress the hearts of beauties, he spent a lot of money.
Diamond jewelry, famous cars and mansions, took turns in front of Yang Gongru.
Gradually, Yang Gongru was moved, and the two came together naturally.
She thought that after all the twists and turns, she had finally found her lover.
Unbeknownst to him, all the gifts given by fate have been secretly marked with a price.
One day, Yang Gongru and her mother were resting in a coffee shop when suddenly a woman rushed in, slapped her hard, and angrily scolded her for being a third party.
At this time, it dawned on her that everything was fake.
It is false to say that you love her, and it is also false to say that you want to marry her.
With a heart like Zhou Zhengyi, how can there be only one person around?
Where would he be willing to give up an entire forest for the sake of a tree?
This slap woke up Yang Gongru and shattered her dream of love.
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I thought that after experiencing a "little three" turmoil, Yang Gongru should be more cautious in dealing with feelings.
Who knows, she really doesn't have a long memory, and she was deceived again soon after.
In 2008, a rich second generation named Jian Junjie appeared in Yang Gongru's life.
After the relationship was exposed, many people reminded Yang Gongru to pay attention to the other party's relationship status and not to repeat the mistakes of the past.
However, Yang Gongru, who was immersed in love, didn't believe that the man would lie to him at all.
She happily posted on her personal social account:
"We started dating after confirming that both of us were single, so please rest assured that my friends who care about me can rest assured.
I know how to protect myself. ”
Subsequently, they not only lived together generously, but also met their parents and prepared to get married.
It's a pity that the slap in the face always comes unexpectedly.
Not long after, Jian Junjie's genuine girlfriend came to the door to ask the teacher, and Yang Gongru once again fell into the infamy of a "third party".
Over the years, Yang Gongru has repeatedly had a bad relationship, and the rich boyfriends she talked about were not fuel-efficient lamps.
It stands to reason that she should have recognized that it is better to rely on others than on herself, and it is better to live as a wealthy family than to marry a wealthy family.
However, after experiencing so many things, Yang Gongru still said with a look of longing in an interview:
"My biggest dream is not to be a big business owner, nor to be a movie queen, but to marry a good husband who loves me."
Perhaps, her mentality has something to do with her experience as a child.
Yang Gongru lives in a single-parent family and was raised by her mother.
When she was a child, her mother went out to earn money to support the family, so she hugged her mother's clothes and slept with the smell on them.
Growing up, the role of "father" has been absent.
And the love that is missing always needs to be filled in elsewhere.
Perhaps because of this, Yang Gongru subconsciously has an extreme desire for family, and at the same time hopes to have a husband who loves him to make up for the lack of fatherly love.
However, the love sought outward is always short-lived.
Happiness will only truly come when we love ourselves with all our hearts.
May you and I in the world learn to love ourselves in the process of growing up.
Bravely face the setbacks and difficulties in life, and let the picture of life bloom with endless brilliance.
Author丨Mo Xiaowent
Editor丨Mo Xiaowent