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The Internet café boy and the redemption in the peanut field
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In 2008 in China, the Internet is setting off a wave, countless young people are pouring into Internet cafes, looking for fun and excitement in the virtual world, at that time, the online game "Audition" swept the country, it with dynamic music, cool dance moves and rich social system, attracted a large number of young players
Chen Jianhua, a 16-year-old boy from Linqing County, Shandong, was also deeply involved, superior family conditions, the doting of his parents, let him experience the taste of "freedom" prematurely, a sudden meningitis, but left an indelible shadow in his heart, he began to doubt his intelligence, felt confused and afraid of the future, the virtual world seemed to become his escape from reality
1. The confused boy behind the privileged life
Chen Jianhua's parents are both medical workers, working in a local hospital, earning a lot of money, as the only child in the family, he has been pinned on by his parents since he was a child, but a sudden illness changed the trajectory of his fate
That year, Chen Jianhua was only 6 years old, a sudden high fever, he fell into a coma, after the hospital's full rescue, he finally defeated the disease, but the disease left an indelible shadow on his young mind
"I remember waking up and feeling that the whole world was different" Years later, Chen Jianhua still has palpitations when he recalls this experience, "I feel like my brain has slowed down, I can't remember many things, and I can't learn"
Since then, Chen Jianhua's academic performance has plummeted, and his originally lively and cheerful personality has become taciturn, and his parents have been running around to find medical advice for him in order to make up for him, but with little success
"We all thought he was just sick and weak, so he couldn't keep up with his studies," said Chen's mother, "and we didn't realize how much damage the illness had done to him psychologically"
As he grew older, Chen became more aware of the gap between himself and his peers, and he began to avoid his studies and indulge in online games, trying to find solace and a sense of accomplishment in the virtual world
2. The carnival of the virtual world and the illusory love
In the summer of 2008, Chen Jianhua came into contact with the game "Audition" for the first time, and the cool interface, dynamic music, and enthusiastic interaction between players in the game instantly attracted his attention
"At that time, every day after school, I would go to the Internet café to play games for a few hours," Chen Jianhua recalled, "In the game, I could forget the troubles of reality and enjoy the happiness brought by the virtual world to the fullest"
He quickly became addicted to it, spending a lot of time and money in the game every day, buying himself all kinds of gorgeous costumes and props, learning all kinds of difficult dance moves, and making a group of like-minded friends in the game
In the game, Chen Jianhua found an unprecedented sense of achievement, and with his excellent gaming skills, he quickly became a master in the game and won the admiration of many players
"At that time, I felt like I had found my true self in the game," Chen Jianhua said, "I was free to express myself and do what I wanted to do, without caring about other people's opinions"
The virtual world is illusory after all, and in the game, Chen Jianhua met a girl named "Cha Cha Hao", and they confided in each other, shared happiness, and gradually developed into a romantic relationship
"She is a very gentle and empathetic girl" Chen Jianhua recalled this online relationship, with a sweet smile on his face, "We will chat and play games in the game every day, and it feels like falling in love in reality"
This relationship was destined to be a tragedy from the beginning, and Chen Jianhua did not know that the real identity of "Cha Cha Chi" was a factory worker a few years older than him, and she was just using online games to pass the boring time
3. Rushed to an illusory love, but unexpectedly gained the enlightenment of life
During the National Day holiday, Chen Jianhua decided to meet the "just right" side, he hid from his parents, rode a bicycle alone, and set off from Linqing County to Boping Town, 40 kilometers away
"I was full of her shadow at the time, and I didn't think too much about it at all," Chen Jianhua recalled, "I just wanted to meet her early and tell her my love in person."
After more than three hours of riding, Chen Jianhua finally came to the village where "Cha Cha Chi Chi" was, and when he saw the true face of "Cha Cha Chi Hao", he was dumbfounded
"She herself is completely different from the image in the game," Chen Jianhua recalled, "She was much shorter than me, and she was also very ordinary, not as beautiful as in the game at all"
Chen Jianhua still spent a day with "just right", but the experience of this day made him unforgettable for the rest of his life
In order to reduce the burden on the family, "Cha Cha Hao" dropped out of school after graduating from junior high school to work as an apprentice in a barber shop
"Cha Cha Chi" took Chen Jianhua to experience a day of rural life, they worked in the fields together, digging peanuts, breaking corn, cutting rice, and experiencing the hard work and hardship of farmers
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"I had never done farm work before, and that day really exhausted me," Chen Jianhua recalled, "Seeing Cha Cha Chi and her family working hard to make a living, I suddenly felt that my previous life was so comfortable and too uncherished
That night, after Chen Jianhua returned home, he couldn't calm down for a long time, and he began to reflect on his life and think about his future direction
"I suddenly realized that I couldn't live like this anymore," Chen Jianhua said, "I have to cheer up, study hard, and find a good job in the future in order to repay my parents for raising me and live the life I want."
Fourth, from an Internet café boy to a medical doctor, he proved the infinite possibilities of life with his actions
From that day on, Chen Jianhua completely quit his Internet addiction and devoted himself to studying, he got up early and went to bed late every day, studied hard, and his grades improved by leaps and bounds
"He seems to be a different person," said Chen Jianhua's homeroom teacher, "I used to be distracted in class, but now I listen very carefully in class, and my academic performance has improved very quickly."
In the 2009 college entrance examination, Chen Jianhua was admitted to a medical school in Shandong with excellent results and became a medical student
"I chose to study medicine because my parents are both doctors, and I hope to be able to inherit their mantle," Chen Jianhua said, "and I also hope to be able to use my medical knowledge to help more people"
During his university years, Chen Jianhua studied hard and achieved excellent grades, he actively participated in various social practice activities, and used his spare time to practice in hospitals and accumulate clinical experience
"He was a very caring and responsible child," said Chen's university counselor, "who always put his patients first and did his best to help them"
After graduating from university in 2013, Chen Jianhua was admitted to the university as a graduate student, where he participated in a number of scientific research projects and published many papers in academic journals at home and abroad
In 2018, Chen Jianhua received his MD degree and worked as a neurosurgeon in a tertiary hospital in Jinan
"I love my job very much," said Chen Jianhua, "and I am very proud to be able to use my medical knowledge to help patients relieve their pain"
Today, Chen Jianhua has become an excellent neurosurgeon, and he has won unanimous praise from patients and colleagues with his superb medical skills and noble medical ethics
Fifth, there is no road in vain in life, every step counts
Looking back on the past, Chen Jianhua was full of emotion
"If it weren't for that online dating, if it weren't for that peanut digging experience, maybe I would still be an Internet addicted teenager addicted to online games," Chen Jianhua said, "I am very grateful to 'Cha Cha Hao', it was she who made me understand the true meaning of life and let me find my own direction in life"
Chen Jianhua's story is a story about growth, transformation and redemption, it tells us that there is no road in vain in life, every step counts, even if you have lost your way, as long as you wake up in time and pursue bravely, you will be able to find your own bright path
Postscript:
Chen Jianhua's story is also a microcosm of social reality, in today's society, with the popularization of the Internet and the rise of online games, more and more teenagers are addicted to the virtual world, abandon their studies, and even embark on the road of crime
There are many reasons why teenagers are addicted to online games, including the lack of family education, the lack of school education, and the influence of the social environment
Solving the problem of teenagers' addiction to online games requires the joint efforts of families, schools, and all sectors of society
In terms of family, parents should strengthen the companionship and guidance of their children, and help them establish a correct outlook on life, values and worldview
In terms of schools, it is necessary to strengthen ideological and moral education for students, guide students to use the Internet rationally, and arrange their time reasonably
In the social aspect, it is necessary to strengthen the building of Internet culture, create a good Internet environment, and guide young people to use the Internet in a healthy way
Only in this way can teenagers stay away from the harm of online games and grow up healthy and happy
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