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was once a loving couple, and now an embarrassing "confidant".
Whether it is the harmonious atmosphere created in the live broadcast room, or the embarrassed and polite smile of Fu Seoul and her ex-husband after looking at each other, this is extremely clearly confirmed.
The good memories of the past have long since turned into a dream and disappeared.
However, this time, netizens' attitude towards Fu Seoul was more sarcastic and incomprehensible, and even the live broadcast with two people felt like a show of hype.
When the former "sober in the world" queen fades her halo and subverts her previous image again and again, what kind of life will she live?
Live farce
At the beginning of this year, Fu Seoul appeared in the live broadcast room of her ex-husband Lao Liu with a new look.
The red blouse makes her ruddy, just like her fiery personality, and she is working hard to explain a certain product.
On the other hand, Lao Liu seemed a little at a loss, and could only cover up his embarrassment by going through the process.
The reaction of the two is really laughable in the eyes of netizens in the live broadcast room, and there are not a few divorced couples who can still be friends, but it is definitely not their state.
Some netizens didn't think it was a big deal to see the excitement, and they interacted in the comment area and shouted about remarriage, but Fu Seoul rejected them on the spot.
She replied: "It's okay to remarry, but it's not necessary, and now they are good friends." ”
Seeing that the atmosphere was in embarrassment for a while, Lao Liu happily started a round and welcomed Fu Seoul's arrival again.
Fu Seoul's appearance successfully brought a wave of traffic to the live broadcast room, and the two also acted to interpret what "brotherhood is".
It's just that this explanation makes everyone listen to it so awkwardly, and for a while, the spitting sound continues.
Some people ridiculed Fu Seoul's current appearance as too ugly, claiming to be an "independent heroine" but constantly consuming her ex-husband's traffic after the divorce.
It's still acceptable once or twice, and it's a bit puzzling to keep making jokes about "divorce".
What's more, since the news of the divorce came out, the two have looked like they have broken off from the past.
Lao Liu is used to being a family cook, and after the divorce, he started an Internet career with his friends, recording his life and making vlog jokes.
Fu Seoul regained his career as a "debater", talking eloquently on "The King of Comedy" and talking about talk shows.
The theme of this talk show still revolves around her ex-husband, making Lao Liu blush.
In front of the public, Fu Seoul has always been positioned as a "sober in the world" in love, and observing her speech, most of them are independent women.
In this show, Fu Seoul didn't forget to care about her ex-husband by the way.
"Eight years after my debut, I put on sunglasses and a mask for Lao Liu."
"When we meet, we are sneaky, but no one is at ease."
"As we all know, because there are already people in the family, 'Zhang Shuo', the speed at which men reorganize their families is fast."
At this moment, Lao Liu was sitting in the audience not far from her, with an intriguing wry smile in his eyes.
From an outsider's point of view, they used to be a couple who talked about everything, but when this intimate relationship was broken, the seemingly harmonious and friendly relationship between the two seemed to have already turned into window paper that could be broken at the first poke.
One is sharp and straightforward, without mercy, and the other nods well and is silent.
Such a character has long been doomed to a tragic ending in their love.
Behind the love
In fact, as early as "The Man Who Does Housework", Zhu Dan broke the ending of the marriage between the two in one sentence.
"I don't think if you replace him with someone else, your marriage may not survive until now."
As soon as this sentence came out, many viewers felt very puzzled, but this was not groundless.
In the program "Wonderful Story", Fu Seoul has made her "sober remarks" many times, and in the minds of many viewers, she is a talented woman with unique views on marriage.
And the image of her husband in her mouth is that he does not want to make progress and does not seek progress.
This kind of independent career heroine has undoubtedly won a lot of praise for Fu Seoul, and many people regard her as a role model on the road to marriage, calling "Sister is so cool".
However, when Fu Seoul and her ex-husband Lao Liu were exposed in the public eye again and again, was it really as she said?
In the program "Goodbye Lover", the husband and wife showed their usual "way of getting along", no matter what Lao Liu does, the first sentence in Fu Seoul's mouth is always belittlement and suppression.
The program team arranged an interaction between the two, and Lao Liu prepared a gift for her for the 14th anniversary of their relationship.
thought it should be a scene of harmony, but Fu Seoul glanced at the gift and asked why this kind of thing couldn't be usually had.
Lao Liu was working, and Fu Seoul said that he was not good at home.
When choosing the wedding cake, Fu Seoul also came up and poured cold water first, bluntly saying that the old Liu just picked it up was not good-looking, and he didn't like it, and then complained that Lao Liu had no opinion and didn't have any ideas of his own at all.
The guest next to him was dumbfounded, and commented: If you do it, you will be scolded, and if you don't do it, you will not be assertive.
Indeed, the most important thing in a marriage relationship is to understand each other and live in harmony.
If a person puts himself in a higher position for a long time, complains and belittles his other half, without respect and understanding, how can this relationship be long-lasting?
And Fu Seoul's principle is to settle everything with arguments, if there is a conflict between the two, they must quarrel until he is convinced, will this really promote the development of the relationship for the better?
Marriage is not a battlefield, let alone a conflict, some speeches that seem to advertise "sober and independent" are actually "double standard scenes" behind the scenes, and there is no equality.
The sorrow of the family
Fu Seoul's attitude towards marriage comes entirely from the pain of his original family.
Because of his poor family since he was a child, seeing his mother working hard to make money, the young Fu Seoul secretly vowed to make a lot of money so that his mother could live a happy life.
This influence continued into adulthood, and for a while, Fu Seoul's view of love was once that two people made money together.
In the program, Fu Seoul recalled: "When I was a child, basically no one in my family didn't hate him, and every member of my family, all my relatives, had to say bad things about him in front of me. So for a long time, I thought he was a 'devil'. ”
The lack of paternal love robbed her of her trust in men, and also allowed her to use reason and calmness to erect a wall for herself to protect herself in the years to come.
Later, Fu Seoul met her husband Lao Liu.
Perhaps God lamented that her family was too unfortunate, so she quietly sent a man who was diametrically opposed to her father to protect her.
At the beginning of the relationship, the relationship between the two was very harmonious, and Fu Seoul once regarded Lao Liu as a good medicine to soothe his inner pain.
He is gentle, affectionate, and has a strong sense of responsibility for his family.
He never stays home at night, and takes taking care of his wife as one of his great pleasures.
Accompanied by Lao Liu, Fu Seoul gradually walked out of the shadows of the past, and she began to break free from the shackles and step by step onto her own stage and shine.
As long as she wants to, as long as she is there, Lao Liu has been accompanying and supporting Fu Seoul not far away from where she can see.
It's a pity that love is always ever-changing, and I don't know from which moment it started, and the person standing next to you has quietly separated from your heart.
The development of her career has made Fu Seoul's world more colorful, and when she returned home and saw her husband's family cooking, she felt that it was not the love she wanted to pursue.
She began to feel that Lao Liu's cooking was unpalatable, and it was not even as good as buying it on the street.
She felt that Lao Liu was not enterprising, and she didn't know how to go outside to expand her career territory, so that she could stand in a parallel position to herself.
A love affair comes to an end, leaving it full of devastation.
She honestly told the truth about the two not loving each other on the show: "I used to treat you as a light in the dark night to light me forward, but have you ever thought that the reason for the separation is that I am no longer afraid to walk at night." ”
At the end of the show, the two hugged each other tightly and chose one last hug in calm.
We used to love and understand each other, but we have embarked on different paths in life.
It's good to have you, thanks for meeting.
conclusion
Maybe not all encounters end well, but we can be the best version of ourselves.