On the university campus after the summer vacation, many students will dry their quilts or clothes on campus every Saturday and Sunday. A girl at a university saw that the weather was fine on Sunday, so she dried her quilt in the drying area on campus. In the evening, when the girl collected the quilt, she found a pair of men's autumn pants clinging to her quilt. The female college student felt as if she had been insulted.
The girl was so angry that she posted the incident on a campus forum, claiming that "if the owner of the pants doesn't take them away before eight o'clock, I'll cut them." Because the owner of the autumn pants is very obscene in doing this, and he needs compensation, you can find me! ”
At eight o'clock in the evening, the owner of the autumn pants did not show up, and the girl picked up scissors to cut the autumn pants to pieces. After the incident of girls cutting boys' autumn pants fermented on the Internet, the school said: It is necessary to understand the situation first. Some netizens said: "This girl is too "ice clear and jade"! "There seems to be something else to this compliment.
Some netizens think: "The girl who cut the autumn pants is 'filthy', maybe the owner of the autumn pants was far away from the girl's quilt when he dried the autumn pants, and it was the wind that blew the autumn pants next to the girl's quilt." Girls really shouldn't cut other people's autumn pants into pieces. ”
Some people who are not afraid of the chaos when they see the excitement said: "The owner of the autumn pants must be deliberate, so many empty places where you can dry clothes, you don't go to dry, but choose to stick a girl's quilt to dry, who would dare to sleep with such a quilt?" ”
In fact, this little thing reflects that the girl who cuts the autumn pants has a bit of a psychological problem. It is extremely common for college students to dry their clothes on Saturdays or Sundays, and on all college campuses, they will choose several open spaces, erect wooden stakes, and pull wires for students to dry their clothes. Very few schools will divide the boys and girls to dry, the drying area is public, whoever occupies it first, and there is no division between men and women on the wire. As a result, it is almost impossible to avoid the phenomenon of the clothes of boys and girls being blown together by the wind on the wire in the drying area. As long as the state of mind is normal, there will be no bad psychological feelings about this phenomenon.
When I was studying at Northeast Normal University, it often happened in the drying area in front of the dormitory that students had their clothes in one place in the morning, and when they collected their clothes in the evening, many clothes would be crowded together. At this time, the wind is unintentional, even if the clothes and quilts are blown together, they can be separated when collected, and it will not have a bad impact on anyone.
The current situation is that the hostess of the quilt believes that the owner of the autumn pants is deliberately leaning against herself, which is obviously an inference. Although it is true that in reality, there are boys who use their mobile phones to molest or obscene girls, it is obviously an inference to accuse boys of deliberately putting autumn pants against girls' quilts in the public area where the quilt is dried. According to the principle of who asserts, who adduces evidence, the hostess of the quilt should use evidence to prove that the boy deliberately obscenities to herself. If the hostess of the quilt cannot prove that the owner of the autumn pants did it intentionally, she should bear the adverse consequences of failing to provide evidence, and should apologize to the male owner of the autumn pants and compensate for the loss.
The act of the hostess of the quilt cutting the boy's autumn pants is an act of intentionally destroying other people's property, which violates Article 49 of the "People's Republic of China Public Security Administration Punishment Law": "Anyone who steals, defrauds, robs, snatches, extorts or intentionally damages public or private property shall be detained for 5-10 days and may be fined up to 500 yuan; where the circumstances are more serious, they are to be detained for 10-15 days, and may be concurrently fined up to 1,000 RMB. ”
Because this matter is of little value to the damage, and it is an act of psychological stress under a misjudgment. If the boy asks the girl to apologize or there is a conflict, the police will mediate between the two parties. The male owner of the autumn pants was violated by the private property rights, and the boy had the right to demand that the girl who cut the autumn pants compensate for his losses. What's more, girls have disclosed their intentional psychology about infringement on the Internet.
The online public opinion caused by the incident of a girl cutting a boy's autumn pants shows that college students need to carry out corresponding psychological counseling. University campuses are small societies where people interact with each other, and it is common for boys and girls to come into contact with each other physically or with clothing in group life. If a girl is inadvertently bumped by a boy while attending a meeting or going to the cafeteria to eat, can the girl cut off a piece of the boy's limb that touches her body to prove that she is clean and clean?
College students should cultivate the psychological quality of being kind to others and living in harmony with others. Things like drying clothes triggered a strong reaction from this girl, and such a strong confrontational behavior was expressed in the form of a video, reflecting that this girl's personality is more extreme. Under a normal state of mind, the phenomenon of the clothes of boys and girls in the drying area blowing together due to the effect of the wind should not cause disputes or bad psychological feelings.
In fact, this girl who cuts boys' autumn pants seems to be a kind of cleanliness. Cleanliness is an obsessive-compulsive disorder that usually manifests itself as irresistible repetitive cleaning that is known to be meaningless. People with cleanliness have a psychological cognition that some things they come into contact with in their lives are dirty, and even things within the normal scope of hygiene will feel anxious and repulsed, resulting in involuntary and uncontrollable compulsive cleaning, inspection, refusal to touch, evasion and other behaviors.
Cleanliness is a common mental illness, although there is no epidemiological data on the mainland. However, cleanliness can be divided into carnal cleanliness, mental cleanliness and mixed cleanliness.
People who are carnal in their sexual cleanliness will perceive the body of those who come into contact with them as unclean and will have an extreme aversion to physical contact with the other person, always refusing to have physical contact with others. If you don't stop shaking hands with the opposite sex in a social situation, you will wash your hands repeatedly when you get home, even if your hands are broken.
A person who is psychoactive will be disgusted with all the normal behavior of the person who comes into contact with him, and will be disgusted by the other person's language and demeanor, believing that everything he does is dirty and ugly.
People with mixed cleanliness have the characteristics of the first two cleanliness.
The specific cause of cleanliness is not well understood, but it is generally complex and may be caused by a variety of factors. Cleanliness can be related to genetics, psychology, society, family education, and personality. It often occurs in people with a family history, people with high mental stress, and people with overly rigid family education. Accidents, job changes, and parental divorce can all induce cleanliness.
College students should have a high IQ and logical thinking, when drying clothes, regardless of men and women, should consider avoiding their drying clothes from touching other people's clothes, and use tools to fix the clothes, so as not to cause other people's bad psychological feelings.