Wen l Zhang Fei
Editor l Zhang Fei
The hosting circle can't escape the ending of "marrying into a wealthy family"?
It seems that whether it is the hosting circle or the entertainment industry, all the girls who enter will marry into a wealthy family in the end.
Could it be that this is a springboard?
Let's not talk about the entertainment industry, even the CCTV hosts have married into wealthy families one by one.
Dong Qing or Zhou Tao, which husband is a simple character?
But among so many hosts, there is such a couple, there is no "what's a bluff", let alone "vigorous"
It's a simple life.
Ordinary but warm, and he didn't always promote his private life.
That is CCTV's hosts Dong Qian and Wang Shilin.
These two are both CCTV hosts, although they are both well-off families, they are not related to that kind of wealthy family.
Even relatively speaking, Dong Qian's family is better than Wang Shilin's family background.
Dong Qian was born in Beijing, and her parents were both intellectuals, at that time, the family was definitely a well-off family, and she didn't have to worry about food and clothing since she was a child.
As an only child, Dong Qian has also been the focus of her parents' attention since she was a child.
The difference is that Dong Qian's parents never dot on their children, as long as they can do it themselves, they will do it themselves, so Dong Qian's hands-on ability is very strong since she was a child, the key is that in terms of independence, Dong Qian has her own opinions.
With sparks and lightning all the way, Dong Qian was admitted to the Department of History of Peking University
We all know what it means to be able to be admitted to Peking University at that time.
Including Dong Qian's character, her parents have always thought that Dong Qian is suitable for work such as a scholar, but no one expected that an enrollment before graduation would completely change Dong Qian's fate.
She was a history student, and she was recruited to CCTV as an editor, which can be said to be completely different from all her previous experiences, and at first Dong Qian herself doubted whether the decision to join CCTV was correct.
After all, if the major is not right, all aspects are equivalent to starting over.
I thought I was a top student of Peking University, but CCTV was full of talents, and more of them were professional talents.
At the beginning of entering CCTV, Dong Qian's work made mistakes at both ends of the three days.
was criticized by the leader from time to time, and even the leader said directly in front of Dong Qian, "It's a mistake to recruit you in."
It is conceivable that Dong Qian's inner loss, but this kind of blow and setback did not discourage Dong Qian, but inspired her determination to do a good job.
In this way, we later had a sharp-tongued, fluent, and eloquent host on TV.
No one thought that a top student of the History Department of Peking University would "change careers" and become the host of CCTV.
Compared with Dong Qian, who is not from a professional class, Wang Shilin himself is a master of broadcasting and hosting, and he is also the first old host to join CCTV.
Different from Dong Qian's family environment, Wang Shilin's family is relatively average.
Although the older generation was born in the military, Wang Shilin chose "liberal arts".
It's just that compared with the roughness of the soldiers in his impression, Wang Shilin is more elegant, like an ocean, giving people a feeling of moisturizing things silently.
This point comes more from Wang Shilin's growth environment, he knows the helplessness and struggle of the people at the bottom of the society in life, and he also knows more about how difficult the people are to live in life.
The reason why I chose to host the broadcast back then was to use my own ability to help more people and speak for them.
At that time, Wang Shilin did not join CCTV as soon as he graduated, but chose to continue to study in school, and he knew very well in Wang Shilin's heart that knowledge would definitely help him improve himself in many aspects.
The key is that in that era, if you were a graduate student, you could teach and study in the school, which was also Wang Shilin's biggest guarantee for himself.
It's hard to imagine how the two could have come together.
Many people say that two people are together, complementary temperament is the ultimate important, learn from each other's strengths, and use your strengths to make up for her weaknesses, and two people can live a very happy life, instead of looking for another you in the world.
If both of them are hot or introverted, life will not be good after all.
may also be due to fate, after Wang Shilin graduated and entered CCTV, he put all his energy on work
Even when he rarely went home, in a blink of an eye, Wang Shilin was 35 years old.
At that time, before getting married and starting a family, it was not like now, "urging marriage" to not rise to the bottom line of the parents.
What's more, Wang Shilin's family is simply unacceptable to him that he is 35 years old and not married.
At that time, Dong Qian was also 30 years old, and it may seem that it doesn't matter if she doesn't get married at the age of 30.
Dong Qian's parents were even more heartbroken for the sake of their children's lifelong events.
It's impossible not to get married for the sake of your career.
Fortunately, the leaders of the station also knew the situation of the two of them, and they couldn't help but bear the idea of pulling the red line.
So I usually have very little time to meet and talk, and even if I occasionally meet at dinner, I just nod my head.
Maybe fate is so wonderful, under the matchmaking of the leader, I didn't expect the two to really look at each other.
After a period of dating, both parties are very satisfied with each other, and the most important thing is not to look at the seemingly very different personalities of the two, but in fact they can make up for each other's shortcomings.
At that time, Dong Qian said to Wang Shilin, "I don't want to divorce in my life, traditional family, I hope you can abide by it", Wang Shilin also replied that he would love Dong Qian well for the rest of his life.
In fact, sometimes the relationship is really wonderful, no one expected that these two people would come together in the end, and even sympathize with each other.
After getting married, the two still worked on the front line, even if Dong Qian was pregnant until the last minute of childbirth at that time, she was still busy in the station.
Because the two of them got married at a young age, there are very few places where the parents of both parties can help after marriage, not to mention that the elderly cannot help in the teaching of their children.
Soon after Dong Qian gave birth, she returned to Taiwan to continue working, and she didn't even have much rest.
In Dong Qian's eyes, work is the first place, Wang Shilin understands Dong Qian's determination to break out in her career, since his wife is willing to break through, then he will be the person behind him.
So soon after the child was born, Wang Shilin chose to submit his resignation to CCTV, take over all the major and minor affairs in the family, and take good care of the child.
Sometimes Dong Qian is busy or goes to the front line for interviews, and often does not go home for a long time.
So there are very few places where Dong Qian participates in the growth of her son, so that when he was a child, his son didn't know Dong Qian at all, and even called Dong Qian "aunt" when he saw him.
It is impossible for people to take care of everything at home while taking care of their careers, and both Wang Shilin and Dong Qian expressed "no regrets" for all this.
At that time, Wang Shilin was also in the rising period of his career, and many people felt very sorry for his resignation, after all, no matter what, men do have a certain advantage in their careers.
In Wang Shilin's view, the most important thing is that the family can get along in a healthy and peaceful way.
What's more, who says men can't take good care of their families at home?
Who said that a woman must take care of the baby at home?
So for Wang Shilin, he never regretted all this.
With Wang Shilin's support, coupled with the maintenance of family harmony, this is the happiness of this family, just imagine if a "workaholic" like Dong Qian really marries into a wealthy family, can there be such a result?
I don't know how many times I've been divorced.
Traditional Chinese families always think that "men are responsible for making money to support the family, and women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers", but no one has stipulated that this must be the case.
Over the years, Dong Qian and Wang Shilin have made up for each other's shortcomings in life, and their style has never been publicized, except for showing up at work, everything is very low-key.
is so low-key that many people don't pay attention to their family in private.
The family lives very quietly, especially the children grow up safer.
It is understood that Wang Shilin and Dong Qian's sons are very smart and lively and cute, and I don't know how many "rich second generations" and "star second generations" have been beaten.
Not to mention that sometimes fate can't stop it, Dong Qian and Wang Shilin are like this.
It seems that the personalities are very incompatible, but they are very happy in life, which is enviable, and there are not so many messy things, and the family lives a healthy and happy life.
Here we also want to say that not everyone chooses according to the established life track, and this world has always been "natural selection of the fittest", taking a step back is not necessarily a "loser", and it is possible to get happiness and harvest that many people can't imagine!
Information sources:
CCTV Today's Women's Daily
Today's Women's Newspaper
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