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Imagine that you are the jewel of kung fu superstar Jet Li, who has been in the limelight since childhood.
Suddenly, one day, the fairytale life shattered to the ground with a bang.
Your parents are divorced, and you are thrown to your grandmother's house, and what was once a warm embrace turns into a cold memory.
This is the story of Li Si, the daughter of a star who fell from heaven to earth.
But don't think that's the end of it!
The 34-year-old Li Si is still unmarried, is he disappointed in love, or is there another hidden secret?
Li Si's childhood is simply a live-action version of the princess in a fairy tale, sparkling so bright that people can't open their eyes.
Think about the kung fu superstar dad and the beautiful mother like a fairy, this fairy gene combination can give birth to an ordinary baby?
From the day he fell to the ground, Xiao Li Si was destined to grow up in the spotlight.
On the photo wall at home, family photos are hung full, Jet Li is holding Li Si, and Huang Qiuyan is smiling like a flower on the side, which is simply a spokesperson for happiness in the world.
But the good days didn't last long, and the sky fell.
Mom and Dad are getting divorced! For Xiao Li Si, this news was even more terrifying than being struck by lightning.
It turns out that those seemingly flawless married lives have long been in shambles.
Jet Li later publicly said that his marriage to Huang Qiuyan was just an attempt by him to be "young and ignorant, and untrained by ups and downs".
This is even more heart-piercing than a knife! Xiao Li Si listened to it, and probably wanted to give his father a "drunken fist".
After the divorce, Jet Li resolutely returned to Hong Kong in order to pursue better development opportunities.
Huang Qiuyan stayed in United States and faced the storm of life alone.
The most distressing thing is that Li Si and his sister were sent to live at their grandparents' house.
Imagine that the little princess who was originally held in the palm of her parents' hands suddenly became Cinderella under the fence, who can bear this kind of identity gap?
Li Si became extremely well-behaved and sensible, for fear that if he accidentally made a mistake, he would be abandoned again.
She pinned all her hopes on her mother in the United States, hoping for the stars and the moon to one day be reunited.
But the reality is always so unsentimental.
Huang Qiuyan's life in United States was as tortuous as a bloody drama, and even lived on the streets for a time.
This once glamorous woman now has to rely on the handouts of strangers to barely fill her belly.
Li Si's childhood was stolen in this way, leaving only broken memories and doubts in his heart.
Why are happy days gone when they say no? Why can't mom and dad be there like they used to?
These questions were like a mess, entangled in Xiao Li Si's heart, casting a lingering shadow on her childhood.
Adolescence is a Shura field for everyone, but it is simply a hellish difficulty for Li Si.
While her peers were still worried about exams, she had to face the huge psychological trauma caused by the breakdown of her family alone.
Every day when he opened his eyes and saw those happy family photos on the wall, Li Si's heart was dripping blood.
She began to become reticent, as if she had grown ten years old overnight.
Even her closest sister could not enter the castle of her mind.
Time seems to have been magical, and Jet Li seems to have gradually forgotten that he still has two daughters.
He rarely came to visit Li Si and his sister, which undoubtedly gave Li Si another heavy blow.
She began to question herself, is she not good enough to be forgotten by her father?
This emotion of self-doubt wrapped around Li Si's heart like poison ivy, seriously affecting her self-esteem and self-confidence.
Just when Li Si thought that life was bad enough, fate gave her another shoulder fall.
Jet Li is going to marry Li Zhi! This news was like a bomb, completely destroying Li Si's last hope.
When she saw the sweet and happy wedding scene of her father and Lizhi on TV, her heart was about to break into slag.
Why did Dad not hesitate to choose a new family and throw the two sisters in the dustbin of memory?
This question has become an eternal pain in Li Si's heart, like a thorn pierced deep there.
At the same time, Huang Qiuyan's life in the United States has finally improved.
After years of struggle, she finally saved enough money to take Li Si and her sister to United States for reunion.
However, when the mother and daughter met, Li Si's eyes revealed deep disappointment and dissatisfaction.
So many years of separation have built an invisible wall between mother and daughter.
The small flame in Li Si's heart had long since been extinguished, and in its place was a cold wasteland.
She is no longer the innocent little girl, but has become a teenager who is wary of the world.
The experience was like a nightmare, and how Li Si wished he could wake up and find that nothing had happened.
But the reality is so cruel, and she must face this broken world alone.
Li Si's adolescence was spent in confusion, pain, and self-doubt, leaving scars that are difficult to heal.
After experiencing so many family changes, Li Si's views on marriage can be described as "fried hair".
In her eyes, the idea that "marriage is deception" is ingrained and stronger than the city walls.
She feared that she would be like her parents, and that one day she would abandon her children like garbage.
This fear made her simply avoid marriage, as if marriage was some kind of beast.
Her parents and friends kept asking for blind dates for her, eager to push her into the siege of marriage.
But Li Si still insisted on his point of view: "I don't want to repeat the mistakes of the past, and I don't want the next generation to step on the pit!" "
This stubborn attitude makes many people stay away from her, as if she is some kind of marriage insulator.
But from the perspective of a bystander, we really can't simply judge Li Si's choice.
After all, she grew up in the shadow of a broken family since she was a child, and her fear of marriage was simply carved into her bones.
And being single is not a way of life, so why do you have to jump into the pit of marriage?
The important thing is that Li Si needs time to heal the wounds in his heart and rebuild his faith in love and marriage.
It's like a person who breaks his leg and needs time to recover slowly.
Li Si's view of marriage is actually a mirror of her childhood trauma.
Whenever someone mentions marriage, she conjures up images of the pain of her parents' divorce.
These memories are like lingering nightmares, always reminding her of the fragility of her marriage.
Sometimes Li Si will envy those happy couples, but then he will be overwhelmed by the fear in his heart.
She often wonders if she gets married, will she eventually part ways like her parents?
This mentality of suffering from gains and losses makes Li Si never be able to let go of his hands and feet on emotional issues.
She would rather be alone than take the risk of trying the feelings that might hurt.
In Li Si's view, love is like a huge trap, and if you are not careful, you will never recover.
Her attitude also made her friends gradually give up the idea of matching her.
After all, who wants to pursue someone who is so resistant to love?
But deep down in Li Si's heart, he actually longs for sincere feelings and warm embrace.
It's just that this longing is buried deep in her heart, wrapped in layers of reason and fear.
Although Li Si's current attitude towards marriage is comparable to "smelling the tiger's color", we should still have hope for her future.
After all, time is the most magical magician and can heal all wounds.
As he grows older and has more experience, maybe one day Li Si will make a 180-degree turn towards marriage.
In fact, we also have to see the shining point of Li Si, this girl is simply a little strong in life.
I have been through so many hardships since I was a child, and I may have been lying flat a long time ago, but she is still strong and alive.
This kind of tenacious vitality is even stronger than Xiaoqiang, and it has to be given a thumbs up.
Perhaps it is these painful experiences that have shaped today's independent Li Si.
Her story shows us how much the family of origin affects a person.
But our lives should not be defined by our family of origin, everyone has the right to pursue the life they want.
Whether you choose to get married or stay single, as long as it's your choice, that's the best.
Maybe one day Li Si will meet someone who really understands her and loves her, and rekindles her hope for love.
At that time, she was like a butterfly that broke out of its cocoon, and she could finally fly freely.
She may find that love is not terrible, and marriage is not a flood beast.
What a beautiful picture it would be when she truly let go of the shadows of her past and embraced life again.
Li Si's story is actually a fable about growth and healing.
It tells us to keep hope, no matter what difficulties we encounter, and believe that good things will come.
Maybe Li Si is still groping in the dark, but I believe that she will eventually find her own light.
After all, happiness never fails those who are brave, does it?
Let's look forward to Li Si's transformation together, and look forward to her embracing love and life again.
Who knows, maybe tomorrow when he wakes up, Li Si will meet his true destiny.
At that time, we must cheer for her and celebrate her, because it will be an important turning point in her life.
In any case, we must believe that Li Si's future will definitely get better and better.
Because she has already experienced the most difficult moment, the next life will definitely be more and more exciting.