Recently, the photos of Fu Mingxia and Guo Jingjing in the same frame have been on the hot search again.
When I saw it, I was amazed!
Guo Jingjing is still so temperamental, and her figure is so tight that people envy.
Fu Mingxia...... It's really a lot fatter, and compared with the slender little girl before, it's completely like two people.
So, everyone started to discuss.
What "Guo Jingjing is the real winner", or "How did Fu Mingxia become like this".
But seriously, seeing these remarks, I really feel a little bad in my heart.
Do we have to compare their "fat and thin" to each other?
Is Fu Mingxia's "happy fat" really so unforgivable?
Some people say that Fu Mingxia is fat and "blessed", as if someone has made a big mistake.
But you know what? Fu Mingxia is a diving genius who stood on the podium of the Olympic champion at the age of 14!
Over the years, she has won glory and sweat for the country.
Shouldn't she enjoy her life?
Personally, I think that the way she looks now is not the most real and relaxed state?
To be honest, she has already got the life slam in her hands for so many years, and now she can be fat if she wants to be fat, and she can be thin if she wants to be thin, why bother with the opinion in the accident world?
We also have to give her some space, don't keep talking about her "fortune".
Is Guo Jingjing really the "perfect woman"?
Many people praise Guo Jingjing, she maintains her figure so well, and she is so good at living when she marries into a wealthy family, she is simply a "winner in life".
But I want to say, is that really the case?
Guo Jingjing is indeed great, married to Huo Qigang after retiring, has three children, and shines in various activities.
She strives to find a balance between family and career and stay in good shape, which is admirable.
But does this mean that she "wins" better than Fu Mingxia?
We always use the labels of "thin is beautiful" and "wealthy life" to evaluate women, but are these really the standards of happiness?
Think about it, if it were us, how tiring it would be to be perfect in the public eye every day?
To put it bluntly, Guo Jingjing just chose a path she likes and strives to be herself.
No one is better than the other, and there really is no need to compare and go.
Who really understands the troubles of wealthy wives?
Seeing Guo Jingjing and Fu Mingxia, some people may think: Wow! Both of them married into a wealthy family in Hong Kong, how beautiful their lives should be!
But in fact, does the life of a wealthy family have to be happy?
Don't forget, the big guys also have the rules and pressures of the big guys.
Guo Jingjing must maintain her public image, and Fu Mingxia must also play the role of a good housewife.
In our eyes, they are glamorous, but behind the scenes, they also have to go through a lot of challenges.
In fact, in the final analysis, everyone is just "ordinary people", who doesn't have a little trouble?
Don't let "fat and thin" become the only criterion for women
Have you ever noticed that no matter who appears in public, everyone's first reaction is: "Is she fat?" Lost weight? ”
It seems that women's lives are tied by the words "fat" and "thin".
I saw some netizens say: "Aren't you happy if you're fat?" ”
That's really the way it is!
What if Fu Mingxia got fat? She is living comfortably now, her life is worry-free, and she has a large family to accompany her, which is very good!
And what about Guo Jingjing? She chose to continue to stay in shape and be active in the public eye, which was also her choice.
Everyone has their own ambitions, and being fat and thin is not a measure of happiness.
Each of us has our own "happiness formula"
To be honest, when I saw these comments, I was thinking to myself:
If I get fat in the future, will people also say, "Why did you get fat like this"?
In fact, happiness is a very personal thing.
Some people like fitness and feel that keeping in shape is a sign of respect for themselves; Some people think that it is enough to eat happily and live freely.
Which of these two options is wrong?
I think we should learn to respect everyone's way of life.
You can keep moving, you can choose to be lazy, it doesn't matter.
After all, there are no two leaves in this world that are exactly the same, and there is no "happiness standard" that is exactly the same.
Written at the end: the "true goddess" style of the diving queen
Fu Mingxia and Guo Jingjing, whether they are "fat as two" or "still beautiful", they are both diving queens who have tried their best to win glory for the country.
What we should remember is their sweat and hard work, not their current figure.
So, the next time you see their news, you might as well have more blessings and less comments.
Fat and thin are good, happiness is the most important.
Just like netizens said: "They are all the eternal goddesses of diving in our hearts!" ”
I hope that each of us can live our own "champion life", whether fat or thin, it does not prevent us from pursuing our own happiness.
This is what Fu Mingxia and Guo Jingjing really want to tell us, right?
Live your true self and don't care about other people's eyes, this is the most beautiful gesture!
So be it
These two diving queens used to be dominant, but now they live indifferently.
What they tell us is that in life, you don't need to compare with anyone, just have a good time.
So, whether it's you, me, or them, don't always live by other people's standards.
Eat when you want, lose weight if you want, and live your own life!