The good old man "He Jiong is fifty years old and has no wife and children, and the show is off the air and gradually retiring", the current situation is miserable?
He Jiong: The fireworks in the world after the halo fades
When the hustle and bustle fell, the lead was washed away, and He Jiong, who once stood in the spotlight and was surrounded by flowers and applause, now chose a more low-key lifestyle. Leaving the stage of "Happy Camp", he is no longer the "happy messenger" who appears on time every Saturday night, and the news about him is gradually decreasing, replaced by various speculations and rumors: fifty years old without wife and children, "disappeared" after the show was suspended, and the current situation is miserable?
Such an argument is too narrow and pessimistic. The value of life should never be defined by marriage and the presence or absence of children. Isn't life doomed to failure and misfortune without the company of family? Apparently not.
He Jiong has been in the entertainment industry for decades, and he has already seen through the vanity and hustle and bustle of Vanity Fair. He knows that true happiness does not come from the recognition and pursuit of the outside world, but from inner peace and satisfaction. Choosing to fade out of the public eye may be his deliberate decision, another interpretation of the meaning of life.
He used to be the "leader" of the hosting industry, with high emotional intelligence, warmth, and wit, and was a mentor and friend to many young actors. He comforted Ouyang Nana, who was sad because of her acting skills, and also shouted for Ma Li's movie promotion. With his actions, he explained what true friendship and kindness are.
The former "He Bang", the annual celebrity birthday wishes, also confirmed his good popularity in the entertainment industry from the side. However, he took the initiative to choose to celebrate his birthday in a low-key manner, leaving more time for his family and friends, which just reflects his indifference to fame and fortune and his cherishing of true feelings.
As a public figure, He Jiong has also faced various controversies and questions. Taking photos with male friends was misunderstood about sexual orientation, taking his brother and son on the show was mistaken for his own child, being reported for arrears of nanny wages, and even receiving gifts from fans. These events, true or false, have pushed him to the forefront of public opinion.
In the age of information fragmentation, the truth is often hidden in layers of fog. In the face of these turmoil, He Jiong chose to deal with it in a low-key manner and used time to prove his innocence. He knows that instead of struggling in the whirlpool of public opinion, it is better to focus on his work and life, and respond to doubts with practical actions.
In recent years, there have been frequent scandals in the entertainment industry such as tax evasion, drug abuse and prostitution by celebrities, in stark contrast, He Jiong has always maintained a good public image. Although there are some negative news, overall, he is still a rare "clear stream" in the entertainment industry.
In today's society full of anxiety and impetuousness, He Jiong's story may bring us some enlightenment. Should we re-examine the value and meaning of life? Should we step outside the worldly framework and pursue inner peace and true happiness?
He Jiong's life is not "miserable", but another kind of consummation. He chose a lifestyle that was more in line with his heart's needs, which was a kind of wisdom and a kind of courage. He used his own experience to tell us that the excitement of life is not only fame and fortune, but also poetry and distance.
In this era of speed and efficiency, slow down and listen to your inner voice, maybe you can find the true direction. Just like how Jiong, fade the halo and return to life, in order to experience the warmth and beauty of fireworks in the world.
He is still active in the entertainment industry, but in a different way. He devotes more energy to drama performances and behind-the-scenes work, and continues to use his talent and passion to bring wonderful works to the audience.
The stage of life is not only the shining in the spotlight, but also the silent cultivation behind the scenes. He Jiong's choice may be a reflection on the current society. Are we pursuing outward success too much to the expense of inner growth and true happiness?
He Jiong's story is far from over. He is still interpreting the meaning and value of life in his own way. He is like a star, even if it is no longer shining, it still radiates a warm light, illuminating the way forward.