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Before the age of 30, are you still happy for "blandness"?
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"Plain is true", this familiar saying, seems to be the life creed of the elders, but also their ardent expectations for our generation, when we really enter the year of standing, looking back on the past, but found that the word "plain" has a completely different weight and texture at different stages of life
Chapter 1: The "Blandness" of Youth: The Joy of Carefreeness
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The youth in memory is always full of bright colors and cheerful melodies, and at that time, our understanding of "bland" is simple and pure, like a blank sheet of paper, without too much rendering, you can feel pure happiness
Exercises piled up on the desk, sweaty runs on the playground, snacks shared with friends on the way to school...... These seemingly ordinary daily life, but constitute the most precious memories of our youth, when the happiness comes simply and directly, there are no complex social relations, no heavy life pressure, some are just a vision of the future and cherish friendship
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In 2022, the "China Youth Development Report" released by the China Youth Research Center shows that the overall happiness of contemporary adolescents is high, among which harmonious family relationships, academic progress, and friend support are important factors affecting the happiness of adolescents
The train of youth is always when we are unprepared, heading to the unknown distance, when we say goodbye to the campus and step into the society, only to find that the once "bland" has become a luxury happiness
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Chapter 2: "Blandness" in Adulthood: The Interweaving of Stress and Anxiety
The world of adults is full of challenges and pressures, such as mortgages, car loans, children's education, and parents' pensions...... The pressure of these realities, like invisible boulders, overwhelms us, and the "blandness" we once longed for gradually loses its color and becomes heavy and depressing under the weight of reality
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At work, we have to face fierce competition and complex workplace relationships; In life, we have to play various roles well, deal with all kinds of trivial things, and run around day after day, so that we are physically and mentally exhausted, and the dreams and passions we once had are also exhausted
According to the "2022 National Mental Health Development Report", the detection rate of mental health problems in adults is on the rise, of which work pressure, life pressure, and interpersonal relationships are the main triggers, which shows that the "blandness" in adulthood is not as easy and comfortable as we imagined, but full of challenges and tests
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When we are exhausted in life, when we are constantly compromising in order to dream, we can't help but ask: Is this really the life we want? Are we losing ourselves on the path of pursuing "blandness"?
Chapter 3: The "Blandness" of the New Era: The Pursuit of Happiness in Diversity
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Fortunately, young people in the new era are no longer limited to the traditional definition of "bland", they pay more attention to the realization of self-worth and pursue spiritual satisfaction
They no longer equate "blandness" with "being content with the status quo", but see it as a positive attitude towards life, they work hard in pursuit of a better life, not give up their dreams for the sake of "blandness", they enjoy life in order to feel the beauty of life, not to numb themselves for the sake of "blandness".
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They love to travel, and in the process of exploring the world, they broaden their horizons and increase their knowledge. They are keen to learn new skills and enhance their self-worth in the process of constantly challenging themselves; They also actively participate in public welfare activities, and in the process of helping others, they gain happiness and a sense of accomplishment
For them, "blandness" is not immutable, but full of infinite possibilities, and they use their own way to define their own "blandness", and also interpret the true meaning of "blandness" in the new era
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Epilogue: What does your "blandness" look like?
At the age of 30, it is an important node in life, we bid farewell to the ignorance of youth, but also ushered in mature thinking, and we also have a deeper understanding of the understanding of "bland".
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"Bland" is not a pool of stagnant water, but a vast sky in which we can freely choose the direction in which we fly
"Bland" is not without pursuit, but the pursuit of inner peace and contentment
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"Bland" is not without passion, but to integrate passion into every bit of life
So, what does your "blandness" look like? Are you still happy about the "blandness" you once had? Have you found your own way to be "bland"?
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Perhaps, everyone has an answer to "plain" in their hearts, and what we have to do is to keep exploring, keep moving forward, and finally find our own "plain" happiness
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