Autumn with the shot
Yesterday I had a very heavy conversation with my relatives.
Nowadays, there is a popular saying in society that "parents have no bottom line for their children".
To sum up, the current parents are "too cheap".
Relatives gave several real-life examples. I can't refute it.
There is a relative who opened a big hotel more than 10 years ago. At that time, large-scale entertainment such as college entrance banquets were also popular. Anyway, I made a fortune. The key relatives themselves still have units. The income is definitely quite a lot.
The son and daughter-in-law of the relatives are all civil servants in third-tier cities, and their families are all laid by their mother-in-law's family, which is very rich.
The young couple gave birth to a boy, and now the parents of both sides are happy, not to mention.
Autumn with the shot
All the expenses of the grandson are paid by the mother-in-law. When my grandson was finally about to enter the first grade of primary school, my mother-in-law stopped transferring 6,000 yuan a month.
The daughter-in-law didn't say anything. But it just doesn't look as happy as it used to be. The relatives wanted to go to the son's house to see the grandson, but the daughter-in-law said that the grandson went to a make-up class and had to do his homework when he got home.
Relatives are in a displeasure. My son called and told his mother, "Mom, if you don't give us the money now, you will give it when you are old in the future, so it is better to give us the money now, so that everyone will be happy."
So the relatives continued to transfer 6,000 yuan to their daughter-in-law every month.
There is also a relative who is the head of the department at a major hospital. The income is very substantial. Her daughter and son-in-law also earn a good income.
Since his retirement, this relative has been contributing money and effort to his daughter's family. The main thing is to feel sorry for his daughter.
Autumn with the shot
When my granddaughter started kindergarten, my son-in-law started to keep his face black all day and not talk to her. She was in a bad mood, but she felt sorry for her daughter. In a dilemma.
[烟花] 还有一位亲属，两口子都是体制内。 收入稳定又可观。 不但给儿子买车买房，而且从儿子结婚一直到孙子上小学，每个月都要以各种名目给儿子儿媳妇转钱。 基本上每年差不多转帐十多万。
如今给儿子儿媳转钱的名目也五花八门。 比如，儿子车被刮了，怕儿子上火，给儿子转两千。 实际上儿子的修车钱都是保险公司负责支付。
再比如，孙子感冒了，赶紧给儿媳妇转几千，叮嘱给孙子买营养品。
再比如，得知儿子儿媳想去哪个地方旅游，又赶紧给转五千元，并且叮嘱儿子儿媳，出门在外，千万别节省。
Autumn with the shot
实际上这位亲属的儿子儿媳两个人的工资每个月也够花，也不买飞机大炮啥的，就是日常开销呗。 就是当老人的，转钱转习惯了。 按照东北人常说的，就是“老的，太贱了”。
据说现在家家情况都差不多。 普通家庭的老人还继续着勤俭持家，子女们早已大手大脚，潇洒每一天了。