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3 onlookers, 1 person took off his pants: the social pain behind the elderly "tearing each other apart".
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On the noisy street, it should be a scene of busy traffic and people coming and going, but a jaw-dropping farce is being staged: two old men who are over the age of sixties, in front of everyone, staged a "naked tear each other"
This scene was recorded by Xiao Li, a young man passing by with a mobile phone, an old man wearing a white vest, excited, and a bloated aunt was arguing fiercely, what was shocking was that the old man actually took off his pants on the street and stood naked in front of the aunt, as if venting some dissatisfaction, and the aunt was not to be outdone, waving the shopping bag in his hand, and confronting the old man
What's even more chilling is that the surrounding onlookers, in addition to sporadic dissuasion, are more indifferent stares and whispers, some take out their mobile phones to shoot, some point fingers, and some even laugh, as if what is being staged in front of them is not a farce, but a burlesque performance
This seemingly absurd incident reflects two problems that cannot be ignored in the current society: the social integration of the elderly and the lack of social responsibility
Behind the "naked and torn each other": why are the elderly so out of shape?
After the incident, there was a heated discussion on the Internet, and people accused the two old men of "immoral" and "disrespectful to the elderly"
It is true that the behavior of the two elderly people is indeed inappropriate, but should we think about what exactly caused them to be so out of shape in public?
Behind the "naked and tearing each other", there may be unspeakable grievances and helplessness of the elderly
The change of social roles makes it difficult for many elderly people to adapt, and after retirement, they retire from their busy jobs, lose their social identity and value identity, and are prone to a sense of loss and loneliness
The changes in family relationships have also made some elderly people feel at a loss, and after their children start a family, they are withdrawn from the lively family life and become "empty nesters", lacking emotional sustenance and spiritual comfort
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Society's attention and support for the elderly is insufficient, and many elderly people lack spiritual and cultural life, have a narrow circle of social interaction, and find it difficult to integrate into modern society
When these negative emotions have been accumulated in the heart for a long time, once they encounter the fuse, they may explode in an extreme way
The apathetic onlooker: a wake-up call for a lack of social responsibility
In the incident of "tearing each other apart", what is even more chilling is the indifference of onlookers
In the face of two elderly people arguing on the street, and even taking off their pants and other radical behaviors, the onlookers did not stop it in time, but chose to watch, take pictures, record videos, and even laugh at them, this attitude of indifference is undoubtedly a trampling on the sense of social responsibility
The sense of social responsibility refers to the obligations and responsibilities of individuals to the society and others, which is a kind of moral norm and an important symbol of social civilization and progress
In today's society, the sense of social responsibility is facing a lack of crisis, people are more and more concerned about their own interests, indifferent to others and society, and even have an attitude of "nothing to do with themselves".
This lack of social responsibility is worthy of reflection by each of us
From "onlookers" to "participants": building a warmer society
The incident of "tearing each other apart" has sounded the alarm for us, and the social integration of the elderly and the lack of social responsibility are social problems that we must pay attention to and solve
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So, what should we do to prevent similar incidents from happening again and build a warmer and more friendly society?
To pay attention to the needs of the elderly and help them integrate into society, the government, communities and families should work together to provide more spiritual and cultural life for the elderly, enrich their spiritual world, and help them find a sense of belonging and worth
It is necessary to strengthen education on social responsibility, advocate a positive social atmosphere, and make joint efforts among schools, families, and society to guide people to establish correct values, enhance their awareness of social responsibility, and form a good social atmosphere in which "everyone is for me and I am for everyone."
Everyone should start from themselves, start from small things, be a responsible and caring person, and when others are in trouble, we should lend a helping hand instead of being indifferent
The incident may be just a small wave in social life, but it reflects the deep-seated problems existing in our society, let us join hands and work together to build a more harmonious and friendly society, so that everyone, regardless of age or old, can feel the warmth and care of the society
In addition to the above measures, we can also start from the following aspects to further solve the problem of social inclusion and lack of social responsibility of the elderly:
1. Strengthen policy support and improve the social security system for the elderly, the government should increase investment in the social security system for the elderly, improve the pension insurance, medical insurance and other systems, and provide more reliable living security for the elderly
2. Encourage the participation of social forces, develop the pension service industry, encourage social forces to set up pension institutions, community pension service centers, etc., to provide more diversified and personalized pension services for the elderly
3. Use scientific and technological means to help the elderly cross the "digital divide", develop smart phones and apps suitable for the elderly, and help the elderly learn to use the Internet and enjoy the convenience brought by the development of science and technology
4. Carry forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, create a social atmosphere of respecting and loving the elderly, vigorously promote traditional virtues such as "all kindness and filial piety come first" in the whole society, and advocate social customs of respecting, loving, and respecting the elderly
Let us work together to support a happy old age sky for the elderly with love and action, and contribute to the construction of a harmonious society
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