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We all know that the private lives of those "big shots" in the entertainment industry are often more exciting than the plays they act.
Today, I want to talk about the 66-year-old drama bone Kou Shixun, who is simply a living "essence of drama"!
, an actor who plays the "big man" on the screen all the year round, did not expect that he is also a master who "sits on two wives" in real life.
What's even more amazing is that these two "ladies" live upstairs and downstairs, and they have been together with each other for nearly 30 years!
Sounds like a fantasy? Don't worry, the story behind this is much more than it seems.
Upstairs and downstairs who love and kill each other
Speaking of this kind of "one house and two wives" drama, you must think it's incredible, right?
But in Kou Shixun's house, this is a commonplace daily life!
Imagine that your husband's two wives live upstairs and downstairs, how embarrassing is that picture?
But in Kou Shixun's small world, this seemingly impossible life has reached a new height.
Cui Yaoqi in the main room elegantly occupied the throne upstairs, while the "little three" Xu Lidan was quietly dormant downstairs.
Do you think it's going to be a full-fledged martial arts? No, no, no, they're a lot wiser than you think.
Every festive season, these three families can also gather together and have a happy reunion dinner!
I'm afraid this face is more exciting than those palace fighting dramas played by Kou Shixun, right?
I have to say that we can handle this complex relationship so harmoniously, and the ability of our "big man" can be seen!
But don't think that Kou Shixun is really like the characters he played, enjoying the life of hugging left and right all day long.
This old man really shouted bitterly: "If I can do it all over again, I'd rather have only one wife, I'm too tired!" "
As soon as these words came out, the people who ate melons couldn't be rectified. What's going on? Isn't this cheap and good?
But after thinking about it carefully, our old actor's complaint is really not unreasonable.
Do you think it's enough to serve one wife, let alone two?
And these two "ladies" are not fuel-efficient lamps.
Cui Yaoqi is resolute and resolute, in charge of the power of the family, and a look can make Kou Shixun obedient.
Xu Lidan is a quiet but strong master, and firmly grasps Kou Shixun's heart with a tender attitude.
Kou Shixun is torn between these two "strong women", I'm afraid it's more exhausting than acting, right?
Every night he might have to rack his brains and wonder: should he go upstairs or downstairs tonight?
This kind of day is said to be enjoying the blessings of Qi people, but it is better to say that it is walking a tightrope!
But then again, being able to maintain this complex relationship for nearly 30 years, Kou Shixun's emotional intelligence is really high.
Maybe this is the secret of his success in the entertainment industry, right?
After all, if you can play this "harem play" well at home, what role can you play on the set?
From doll pro to "harem drama"
Speaking of Kou Shixun's legendary relationship history, it is really a drama with ups and downs!
To start at the beginning, we'll have to rewind the clock back to when he was a kid.
Kou Shixun and Cui Yaoqi are not ordinary childhood sweethearts, they are serious baby parents!
Imagine that when the two little beans were still wearing open crotch pants, they were "arranged" by the adults for a lifelong event.
This plot is even more bloody than Aunt Qiong Yao's novel!
However, these two little ones have lived up to the expectations of adults, and their relationship is as good as conjoined babies.
When they were in school, both of them were admitted to the radio and television department of Shih-Hsin University, and this tacit understanding is simply amazing!
At that time, Cui Yaoqi was a school flower-level figure, so beautiful that she could make a hundred flowers lose their color.
Suitors can circle the school three times in a queue, but she just identifies Kou Shixun as a tree.
Kou Shixun in college is simply a contemporary version of the "spoiled wife madman".
picks up and drops off every day, buys snacks, and goes on dates, and spoils Cui Yaoqi so much that she is lawless.
That scene is even sweeter than an idol drama, and people call it "dog food is full"!
After graduation, in order to support Kou Shixun to pursue his acting dream, Cui Yaoqi resolutely gave up her career.
I'm afraid this sacrifice is more sadistic than the plot of the whole "The Legend of Zhen Huan", right?
But! Just when everyone thought that this fairy couple was going to live a happy life, the plot suddenly took a big turn!
Xu Lidan, an accidental intruder, was stunned to turn this "Qiong Yao drama" into a "palace fighting drama".
Xu Lidan was originally just an avid fan of Kou Shixun, an ordinary star-chasing girl.
At a fan meeting, she was so excited that she spilled wine on Kou Shixun's white shirt.
I thought I would be scolded for being bloody, but I didn't expect Kou Shixun not only not to be angry, but also to thoughtfully ask her if she was injured.
This can hook Xu Lidan's girlish heart to a ripple.
Since then, Xu Lidan has been running to Kou Shixun's crew every day.
The two of you came and looked at each other, and in the end they really sparked a spark of love!
This plot is even more bloody than the eight o'clock slot!
Kou Shixun has just reaped the spring of his career, but he is in a dilemma in love.
On the one hand, she is the wife of her childhood sweetheart, and on the other hand, she is an enthusiastic fan, and the difficulty of this multiple-choice question is comparable to that of the college entrance examination!
But our Uncle Kou is not an ordinary person, he actually came up with an idea that shocked the world and cried ghosts and gods.
He decided - both!
This operation is simply a deduction of the phrase "greed is not enough to swallow an elephant" to the extreme!
I have to say that Kou Shixun's operation is really full of the skill of "not doing multiple-choice questions".
This is a simple love story, but he turned it into a palace fighting drama.
The next plot is even more exciting......
The Shura field becomes a harmonious house
Kou Shixun's operation is really earth-shattering, it is simply playing extreme sports on the road of family harmony!
When he took Xu Lidan home for a "showdown", I bet he must have pinched a cold sweat.
Cui Yaoqi's reaction can be said to be quite "dramatic", which is even more wonderful than all the roles played by Kou Shixun.
She was so angry at first that she almost didn't lift the roof, and that scene was a living "shrew scolding the street" scene!
I bet Ko Se-hoon must have regretted trying to give himself two big mouths at the time.
But after experiencing a struggle with an inner drama that is more complicated than "The Legend of Zhen Huan", Cui Yaoqi came to a divine turn.
She chose to accept this special family structure, which simply interpreted the word "generosity" to the extreme!
Cui Yaoqi's decision can be said to have brought an unexpected reversal to this "palace fighting drama".
Not only did she not make a big fuss about the Heavenly Palace, but she offered to manage all of Kou Shimao's property.
This trick is simply a brilliant tactic of "retreating to advance"! is worthy of our strong woman Sister Cui!
And Xu Lidan is also a smart person, she knows that her identity is sensitive, so she has always kept a low profile.
She once said: "As long as I can see Kou Shiqian from time to time, I will be satisfied." "
This is even more distressing than the infatuated heroine written by Aunt Qiong Yao.
In this way, with the wisdom and tolerance of the two women, this seemingly impossible family was miraculously maintained.
Over the course of thirty years, they have learned to be considerate of each other, even to help each other when they are busy.
You see that when Cui Yaoqi was busy taking care of the accounts, Xu Lidan took the initiative to take care of Kou Shixun.
And when Xu Lidan needs to go out to work, Cui Yaoqi will also take care of the family considerately.
This kind of "threesome" lifestyle has simply refreshed our perception of traditional families!
Sometimes you even feel that this is a "harem", it is clearly a happy family!
Kou Shixun is left and right between these two "strong women", and his life is called a nourishment.
But don't think he'll really be able to sit back and relax.
Two wives meant that he had to put in double the amount of effort and effort.
When you give gifts on holidays, you have to weigh them, and a little carelessness may lead to "palace fights".
And maneuvering between two women with very different personalities is really more testing than walking a tightrope!
But then again, being able to handle this complex relationship so harmoniously shows the ability of our "big man".
This kind of day is said to be enjoying the blessings of Qi people, but it is better to say that it is playing on the balance beam!
But I have to say that this unique family model gives us a new perspective on love and marriage.
The pluralism of love or the slippery slope of morality?
To be honest, once Kou Shixun's "monogamous and two wives" drama was exposed, it was simply a nuclear bomb thrown on the Internet!
Public opinion exploded in an instant, and various voices came and went, and the heat was comparable to grabbing red envelopes at the Spring Festival Gala.
Some people admired it so much that they felt that Old Man Kou was simply a fighter among the masters of the love field.
"This operation is absolutely amazing!" - That's probably what many people think.
But there are also many people who scoff at his behavior, believing that it is simply a typical case of moral degradation.
In particular, some feminists were so angry that they wanted to rush to the door of Kou Shixun's house and hold up a sign in protest.
"Isn't that naked machismo?" - There are not a few such voices.
Honestly, is it really that simple? In this era of "values buffet", shouldn't we think about it from a different perspective?
Not to mention legal issues, is this relationship model really completely untenable from an emotional point of view?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not washing the floor for Kou Shixun. But since all three of them are voluntary, and they have lived in harmony for so many years, shouldn't we outsiders also respect their choice?
After all, love has always been an inexplicable thing, who can guarantee that their feelings will be the "standard answer"?
Besides, in this era of "three views follow the five senses", Kou Shixun can handle such a complex relationship so harmoniously, and there is no one else who has this ability.
But then again, although Mr. Kou shouted "tired", from his words and deeds, we can still feel his cherishment and gratitude to his two wives.
This brings to mind the question: what is the essence of love? Is it single-minded? Is it inclusion? Or do they fulfill each other?
Perhaps Kou Shixun's "monogamous" relationship has given us a new perspective to think about this issue.
In this fast-paced society, it is not easy to find someone who truly loves you, let alone two?
Of course, I'm not encouraging everyone to follow Kou Shixun's example. After all, there are not many people who can handle this relationship so well.
But this story at least tells us that love and marriage are far more complex and diverse than we think.
Perhaps we should let go of our prejudices and look at different relationships and family models with a more open mind.
After all, there are thousands of happy appearances, and who can say that their own standards are the only correct ones?
Is this story of "one husband and two wives" a realistic version of "The Legend of Zhen Huan in the Harem", or an embarrassing sincere relationship?
This is a question that only the person concerned can answer. But in any case, it does give us a whole new perspective on what it means to think about love, marriage, and family.
What do you think? Don't you think it's not that simple? Feel free to leave a message in the comment section and let's talk about this interesting and complex topic!
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