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Jin Ming, maybe many people still remember this name, right? The "little Wanjun" in childhood, that is a red mess of "little girl", once swept the entire TV screen, today let's have a good chat, time flies, Jin Ming is 44 years old, single and unmarried, but still living a glamorous life, what has happened?
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The first time I saw Jin Ming, it was really a lively and lovely girl, I remember that back then, she played the role of "Xiao Wanjun" in Qiong Yao's drama, with long black and bright hair, with those big watery eyes, it was almost heart-wrenching, her performance was delicate and sincere, and the role was deeply popular, and the people watching were all applauding for her talent, and even the children loved to imitate her crying and smiling, who would have thought that she was only nine years old at the time, and she became a well-known child star
At that time, she could lead to a bright career path, Aunt Qiong Yao personally selected her from countless children, and filmed one classic drama after another for her, Jin Ming starred in "Xueke", "Qingqing Riverside Grass" and so on, it was really hot during that time, and the little girl's star dream seemed to be not far from her
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At this time, a major decision in life came, Jin Ming resolutely chose to suspend in the golden period of a short-lived acting career, at that time, this was really a bold choice, she gave up the opportunity to play "Little Swallow", devoted herself to her studies, and worked hard to be admitted to the international relations major of Peking University
If you ask me where Jin Ming's success lies, I would say that it was her heart that insisted on learning, she made the choice, chose the life of knowledge and college, instead of relying only on the glory of the past, don't you think it is a kind of courage? Especially in that era when appearing in TV shows was the mainstream, the choice made by Jin Ming was really admirable
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In college, she not only studied hard, but also actively participated in various club activities, met a group of like-minded friends, four years of college life, Jin Ming was independent, cheerful, and exuded a confident light, but when she graduated and returned to the entertainment industry, the former star has been replaced by a large wave of new generations, Jin Ming's acting career, as if silently left behind
Life has changed since then, the role she took over has gradually become a supporting role, and even her appearance in some episodes is no longer the protagonist, this change will inevitably make people feel a little lost, but Jin Ming did not choose to retreat, she dared to face and continue to explore her future, although outside voices often accuse her of "being disabled", but her short height and appearance changes did not discourage her, but more of a self-reflection
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I have to say that Jin Ming's feelings are also bizarre, her experience tells us that there is more than one road in life, and the twists and turns of love are also embarrassing, the first love boyfriend is a "mom treasure man", everything depends on Jin Ming, and finally the two parted ways, the second boyfriend is a narcissist, very controlling, Jin Ming once again chose a wrong person, this relationship experience seems to tell us that the choice of love and the choice of life are the same, you have to rely on wisdom and patience
And during this time, Jin Ming has been repeatedly compared with other actresses, for example, Ruby Lin, who is also a child star, is now married and has children, and Jin Ming's very fragile part is that the prejudice of society against single women should not be underestimated, many people sigh of dissatisfaction because Jin Ming is unmarried and pregnant, as if the normal life trajectory is to be unmarried and childless, but Jin Ming's choice makes people look at her differently, she lives a wonderful life, maybe in her heart, real success is not limited to a family
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Her life is still rich and colorful, and in her free time she enjoys the good things, traveling, doing yoga, going to the teahouse for tea, and partying with friends, which she calls "having fun", such a life does not feel lonely, but rather reveals a kind of personalized happiness - that kind of freedom that comes from within
Jin Ming's "unmarried and unpregnant", in today's society with diverse values, it seems quite meaningful, her attitude towards life is positive, she chooses to no longer be bound by traditional concepts, and puts her energy into the field of her own interests, she relies on her own ability and wisdom to feel the world and make life richer
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Perhaps in many people's concepts, Jin Ming's unmarried status makes her particularly conspicuous, but in her opinion, this is part of her choice, and now she is already the innocent girl she was at the beginning, but a woman with self-awareness and independent ideas, and has become a real "winner in life"
Before the end, I might as well talk about my own thinking, in this rapidly changing society, it seems more difficult than ever to define a "winner", the pursuit of career fullness, emotional fulfillment, often need to make trade-offs, but Jin Ming used his own experience to tell us that there is more than one mode of life, whether it is to choose to get married and have children, or to remain single, this does not mean success or not, but an expression of values
Do you have a life choice like Jin Ming? How do you balance work and home in your life?
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