Originally, the couple should be happy to give birth to a baby, but Ms. Li, who is also a mother, couldn't laugh at all, and lay on the bed and said worriedly, "This has disrupted the rhythm of our lives, and I really don't know what to do."
The husband sat on the ground and complained, "I hope that the caring people in the society can help us, otherwise we will really not be able to live this day, and I don't know how to solve the expenses in the future."
The couple living in Shenzhen are two migrant workers, they have already raised two children, and the pressure has been very high, if it were not for the two of them working day and night, they would not even be able to pay the children's school fees. In this way, the family of four has gradually improved in economic conditions.
Chen Xiaobo claimed that they didn't notice when his wife was pregnant, and only after knowing that a month later, Ms. Li had a series of changes such as morning sickness, and the two understood that this was a baby.
After all, now that the country's fertility rate is declining, and the 3-child policy is vigorously promoted in society, they can be regarded as contributing to the country. When the wife and wife went to the hospital for an examination 3 months later, they found that this time it was 4 twins, and the husband was instantly stunned in place, not knowing what to do.
After discussing countermeasures, the two finally decided to give birth to the child, after all, it was the mother's flesh and blood, and the child could not be strangled in the cradle.
The husband said that both of them were authentic migrant workers, and they originally had two children, but now they became a family of 8, and the father already felt great pressure before the children were born.
On August 23, 2024, Ms. Li gave birth to her quadruplets at a hospital in Shenzhen, but they could not afford to pay for the medical bills, so her husband had to post a video online asking for help, hoping that well-wishers could help them tide over the difficult time.
The most terrible thing is that the four children were sent to the intensive care unit because of premature birth, and the monthly medical expenses are 200,000 yuan, even if 80% of the social security reimbursement is added, and the help of the community union, it is still impossible to pay the high medical bills.
Ms. Li's husband's request for help, netizens did not buy it
If you have the ability, you can give birth, and if you don't have the ability, don't force it, the reason why there are so many one-child families in society now is that the economic conditions do not allow for more births, not to mention help, and the netizens themselves are also under great pressure.
If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place? Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, he prefers to go to the tiger mountains. I am a worker myself, and my economic conditions are average, so I don't stop the loss immediately after finding out that it is quadruplets, and now I have no ability to raise children, but I have to pay for netizens.
It's already a two-child family, and you're not satisfied? Even if you are conservative and want to leave the family behind, there is no need to have six children at once, right? If the economic conditions allow it to be said in the past, it is called reproductive freedom and ability. Now that's at best, self-inflicted.
If the money is not enough, it is better to think of some other ways, well-wishers are not fools, no one's money is blown by the wind, and it is better to donate money to those who really need it.
The comments of netizens are very heart-wrenching and realistic, maybe the husband did not consider that the child would be born prematurely and was also sent to the intensive care unit.
Now the cost of raising children is unimaginable, in a city like Shenzhen, a child can empty a family, to say that Ms. Li's husband is not easy, and he has raised two children over the years.
But the bullets that go out can't be held, and since they have chosen, they have to pay for their actions, and as ordinary people, they can only wish them good luck.
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