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Not all love roads are smooth sailing, some feelings have been together for a long time, if both men and women do not take the initiative to maintain, it is likely to be cold and estranged.
At this time, although the two parties did not break up directly, if both parties did not take the initiative, it was very likely that there would be a disconnection and the relationship would become indifferent.
However, not all men and women can quickly let go of each other after the disconnection, and some men and women have a strong attachment to each other after the disconnection, and they can't let go of the past relationship between the two of them.
At this time, both of them are eager to get back together, but they don't dare to break it directly, but seek other ways to reconnect.
Because both of them have emotional attachment to each other in their hearts, they still think about each other, so they will tacitly and quietly start to connect.
In the final analysis, after the disconnection, men and women have the following three connections, and most of them still love each other.
1. Quietly like the circle of friends and still pay attention to each other
In a relationship, if men and women still pay attention to each other after breaking off contact, and go to the circle of friends to quietly like each other, it means that they have not let go of each other and still love each other.
This kind of man and woman, once they give their sincerity, no matter what the reason, they are disconnected and do not contact, but they can't help but think about each other and take the initiative to pay attention to each other's emotions and lives, which shows that the past relationship between the two is very deep and they can't let go of the past.
At this time, they will frequently check each other's circle of friends and leave their likes and comments, which is also a reflection of their deep love for each other.
Therefore, both people can't help but quietly inquire about each other's news and want to know if the other party is doing well, especially emotionally, which is even more unforgettable.
If the other party is doing well, they will be at ease, and if they are not good, they will be very anxious. When both of them can't control their emotions, or have a response, then the two will quickly get back together, rebuild their old friendships, and stay together.
Classmate Xiaojing and her boyfriend are like this, when the two were in love for a year, they quarreled for some reason, and the two stopped talking, and no one took the initiative to maintain their relationship, so they broke off contact like this.
Although they are no longer in touch, neither side has forgotten each other, and they have never forgotten their past feelings, but they are unwilling to take the initiative to break the deadlock.
So, the two quietly checked each other's circle of friends, not only clicked often, but sometimes commented on each other, and gradually established interaction in the dynamics.
Although neither of them took the initiative to contact each other, it is not difficult to see from these interactions that both of them are very attached to each other, and they have long had the idea of getting back together.
In this way, in the end, when the two were cut off for less than two months, they couldn't control their emotions, so they began to send messages to each other, and the relationship was instantly harmonious, and the relationship became sweeter and sweeter.
It can be seen that in a relationship, after men and women break contact, as long as they still pay attention to each other and quietly like the interaction of the circle of friends, it is easy to re-establish the relationship and continue to walk.
2. Find mutual friends and convey the desire to get back together
In a relationship, if men and women still love each other deeply after breaking off contact, then they will definitely want to establish contact again, and they will never let each other be so indifferent.
Generally, they will go to a friend who is in common with two people, hoping that the friend can serve as a bridge and convey the desire to get back together.
For example, a woman will go to a man's good brother and ask him to convey her feelings about the man and want to get back together with him.
The man, on the other hand, will go to the woman's best friend and ask him to help him convey his deep love for the woman and his desire to continue dating.
In fact, as long as men and women are still attached to their past feelings, never forget, and cannot give up, then the two will try their best to let mutual friends convey their thoughts and love on their behalf, so as to establish a relationship again.
Of course, mutual friends will never refuse such a request, but will be very active in reconciling the two, and eventually the relationship between the two will be smoothly restored.
Colleague Xiao Chen and his girlfriend are like this, when the two were in love for less than two years, due to some misunderstandings, the relationship between the two became more and more indifferent, which led to the disconnection.
However, after the two broke off, Xiao Chen, who loved his girlfriend deeply, couldn't forget his girlfriend, not only often paid attention to the dynamics of her circle of friends, but also asked her friends about her.
Later, unable to control his emotions, he went to his girlfriend's best friend and talked about the contradictions between the two, and hoped that the other party could reconcile them and let the two get back together.
After hearing this, my girlfriend's best friend was naturally happy to help, so she asked her girlfriend to convey Xiao Chen's meaning.
It just so happened that his girlfriend couldn't let go of Xiao Chen, so she also found Xiao Chen's good buddy and asked for help to do something, hoping that the two could continue to be together.
In the end, the two re-established their relationship in the rubbing of mutual friends of both parties, and they got back together smoothly, and their relationship became more and more harmonious.
It can be seen that in the relationship, if men and women still love each other deeply after breaking off contact, and never forget the past, then the two will try their best to rebuild the old good, once the two get back together, the relationship will not only become more and more harmonious, but also the relationship will become more and more stable.
Third, they are not in love, and they can't let go of the past
In the relationship, if the man and woman are not in love, then after the two are disconnected, they will forget each other, find a suitable object, and will no longer have nostalgia for the past emotions.
And if men and women still love each other deeply, then after the disconnection, they will always miss each other, unable to let go of the past, and resolutely will not find a new love.
There is such a sentence in the TV series "Why Sheng Xiaomo": "If you have ever met the right person, then other people have become generals, and I don't want to compromise." ”
Indeed, in a relationship, after moving true feelings and falling in love deeply, it is difficult for two people to transfer their love to another person after they are separated.
They may try to accept others, but they are never able to let go of the past and establish intimacy with new acquaintances.
Therefore, even if there are other better partners, they can't accept it, because, in their hearts, they are still deeply attached to the love of the past, and they are eager to be together again.
Therefore, they will not associate with other members of the opposite sex, nor can they accept other pursuits of the opposite sex, let alone start a new relationship.
In this case, as long as two people can't control their emotions and reconnect, the relationship will quickly reunite and become more sincere.
Because, in the hearts of both of them, they can't forget the past, and they can't start a new relationship, the two love each other too deeply, once there is the right time to break the silence, they will reconnect, and naturally the old love will be rekindled, the two will continue to walk, and the relationship will become more and more stable.
Emotional Message:
In a relationship, as long as both men and women are sincere, they can't easily let go of each other.
Because they have each other in their hearts, even if they are disconnected, they still have expectations for their past feelings and are eager for the two to get back together.
Therefore, after the disconnection, they will quietly like the circle of friends and still pay attention to each other; will find mutual friends and convey the desire to get back together; I won't be in love, and I can't let go of the past.
It can be seen that men and women who truly love each other, even if there are contradictions and quarrels, will not really break off the relationship. Either way, they will find ways to get back together, and the relationship will be more sincere and solid.
I hope that men and women in real life will cherish fate, love seriously, pay together and maintain their feelings, and they will definitely be able to reap happiness!
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