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Ye Ke: When the "princess" dreams of shattering the Internet
"I never go to the toilet at school, that's rude!"
Ye Ke, this name has frequently appeared on the hot search list recently, accompanied by dazzling labels such as "princess disease" and "contrived". A seemingly casual remark, but like a depth charge, set off storms on the Internet and pushed her to the forefront of public opinion.
The cause of this turmoil stemmed from Ye Ke's "amazing" speech in a live broadcast. She claimed that she had never used the school toilet when she was a student because she felt it was a "rude" behavior that did not match her status as a pampered "little princess" since childhood.
As soon as these words came out, netizens exploded instantly, and all kinds of spicy and sarcastic comments poured in like a tide: "It's rude to hold back to fart in the classroom, right?" "Do little fairies excrete from their mouths? "Is it that Li Ao is possessed, and he feels inferior to go to the toilet? "It's crazy to set up exquisite characters! ”……
Ye Ke's remarks undoubtedly hit the sensitive nerves of the public. In the age of the internet, everyone has a microphone and everyone can express their opinions. And when a public figure's words and deeds are contrary to the mainstream values of society, it will naturally attract public doubts and criticism.
However, this is only the appearance of events. Looking at the essence through the phenomenon, Ye Ke's "princess disease" remarks actually reflect deep-seated problems such as the lack of family education and the distortion of social values, which are worthy of reflection by each of us.
A twisted life wrapped in the aura of a "little princess".
Ye Ke's "princess disease" was not formed overnight. It can be seen from the information she revealed in the live broadcast that she has been treated by her father as a "little princess" since she was a child, and she enjoys completely different treatment from ordinary children, both materially and spiritually.
While the other children were eating in the school cafeteria, Ye Ke's father would prepare her delicate decorated cakes and milk. This kind of excessive doting has made Ye Ke live in a "vacuum" world wrapped in a false aura since he was a child, lacking the cognition and experience of the real society.
Under the overprotection of the family, Ye Ke is accustomed to being self-centered, believing that everyone should be like parents who unconditionally accommodate themselves and satisfy themselves. She couldn't understand why such a mundane thing as going to the toilet could be considered "rude".
This cognitive bias caused Ye Ke to still be unable to get rid of the shackles of "princess disease" in adulthood, and showed selfishness, willfulness, and lack of empathy in getting along with others, which eventually caused this Internet turmoil.
When the "princess" dream shatters the Internet: the false persona will eventually collapse
In the Internet era of information explosion, everyone can use the online platform to shape their own image and create the so-called "persona". However, the Internet is not an illegal place, and false personas will eventually be exposed.
Ye Ke tried to show his "exquisite" and "noble" side through online live broadcast, but his true face was exposed because of an inadvertent remark.
The remarks of "not going to the toilet at school" not only did not win her the halo of "princess", but made her the target of public criticism and was labeled as "contrived" and "hypocritical".
This turmoil has also sounded the alarm for all those who try to create false personas through the Internet: the Internet is not a vain show, and truth is always the most moving force.
When the "princess" dreams of the Internet, what is left for Ye Ke may only be endless reflection and remorse.
From "princess disease" to "group ridicule": the social environment fuels the fire
Ye Ke's "princess disease" certainly has the reason for the lack of family education, but the impact of the social environment cannot be ignored. In recent years, with the improvement of material living standards, some social groups have excessively pursued material enjoyment and exquisite life, while ignoring the guidance of children's correct values, which provides fertile soil for the breeding of "princess disease".
On social media, there is a variety of flaunting wealth and comparisons, and many Internet celebrity bloggers attract traffic by creating "white, rich, beautiful" and "rich, handsome" personalities, and convert them into economic benefits. This phenomenon has a subtle influence on young people's values, leading them to mistakenly believe that material wealth and external conditions are the only measure of a person's success.
In this social atmosphere, some parents have also begun to blindly follow suit, dressing their children as "little princesses" and "little princes", instilling the consumption concept of "whatever you want, Mom and Dad will buy it for you" from an early age, but ignoring the cultivation of children's independence, sense of responsibility and empathy.
Ye Ke's "princess disease" is a microcosm of this social phenomenon. The reason why her remarks have caused so much controversy is that it has touched the anxiety and concern of the public about the distortion of values.
The cost of "princess disease": self-centeredness and social disconnection
The harm of "princess disease" is not just as simple as triggering online group ridicule. At a deeper level, people with "princess disease" tend to be self-centered, lack empathy, and have difficulty establishing normal interpersonal relationships with others, ultimately leading to self-isolation and social disconnection.
Ye Ke's remark of "not going to the toilet at school" is a typical manifestation of his self-centeredness and lack of empathy. She didn't realize that the school is a public place, and the toilet is a facility that everyone needs to use, and her words and actions are not only disrespectful to other students, but also a disregard for her own social responsibility.
This self-centered behavior pattern is also reflected in Ye Ke's love life. According to media reports, Ye Ke has had scandals with many rich second generations, and his emotional experience has also been jokingly called "the realistic version of "Little Times" by netizens.
Patients with "princess disease" often regard love as a tool to satisfy their own material needs and vanity, while ignoring the purity and sense of responsibility of the relationship itself. This unrealistic view of love will only lead to emotional loss and emptiness in the end.
Reject the "princess disease" and embrace your true self: appeal and reflection
The Ye Ke incident is a wake-up call for us: in a more pluralistic and open society, everyone should face up to themselves, abandon vanity and artificiality, and live their true selves.
For those who are plagued by "princess disease", realize that "princesses" are just characters from fairy tales, and there are no crystal slippers or pumpkin carriages in real life. Only by being down-to-earth can we get out of our own life path.
Families, schools and society should all reflect on how we can guide young people to establish correct values and avoid the spread of "princess disease"?
Parents should give their children more love and companionship, rather than blindly spoiling materially. Schools should strengthen mental health education for students to help them build self-confidence, optimism, and positive values. Society should create a fairer, more just and healthy public opinion environment to guide people to pursue more meaningful life goals.
Everyone longs to be loved and respected, but true love and respect do not come from the vanity of the "princess" aura, but from the sincerity and kindness of the heart. Only by abandoning the "princess disease" and embracing the true self can we reap true happiness and joy.
Ye Ke's dream of being a "princess" has been shattered in the wave of the Internet. I hope she can learn a lesson from this turmoil, re-examine her life, and find her own direction.
Information source:
Ye Ke Douyin