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The Secret of Frozen Age: Reflections Triggered by a Gathering
The circle of friends has been swiped by celebrities again.
The protagonists this time are Chen Kun and Karen Mok. In the photo, the two of them are dressed in Chinese style, and they are in an antique alley, which has a bit of a quiet taste. The accompanying text is also very simple: "I went to the alley yesterday and had dinner with good friends." ”
It is said that this is nothing special, it is normal for celebrity friends to have a meal, at most it is a hot search. However, under this photo, the comments of netizens are surprisingly consistent, all of which are "shocked":
"OMG! Karen Mok's state is too great! I really don't believe her at all when she says she's 54 years old! ”
"Where is this 54 years old, I believe it when I say it's 34 years old!"
"Chen Kun was completely compared to Mok Wenwei this time, right? The gap in maintenance is too obvious! ”
I clicked on the photo with intense curiosity, and then, I was silent.
Chen Kun in the photo, wearing a well-tailored suit, is still the "factory flower" that fascinated thousands of girls back then. But I don't know if it's an angle problem, in the photo, the fine lines at the corners of his eyes are clearly visible, and the hairline also vaguely reveals a receding trend, and the whole person looks a little tired. And Karen Mok, who is standing next to him, is a completely different style of painting.
I saw that she was wearing a black cheongsam, outlining her delicate curves. The fair skin looked particularly delicate in the dim light, and the years seemed to favor her so much that they did not leave any marks on her face.
What's even more amazing is the confidence and energy she exudes from the inside out, and her gestures are full of elegance and charm.
Netizens said that where is this like a 54-year-old person, it is simply reverse growth! In contrast, the 48-year-old Chen Kun is more like being ruthlessly "slaughtered" by the "pig-killing knife of time". For a while, topics such as "Karen Mok's frozen age", "celebrity maintenance" and "age anxiety" quickly dominated the hot search list, triggering heated discussions among netizens.
Some people say that the reason why celebrities can stay young is nothing more than because they have money and leisure, and they can spend a lot of money on maintenance, how can ordinary people have this condition? Some people also say that this has a lot to do with genes, some people are born beautiful, and God appreciates food, and they can't accept it.
It is also said that the most important thing is the mentality, as long as the mentality is young, you can maintain a youthful state.
It is undeniable that these factors will indeed have an impact on a person's appearance and state, but if we attribute Karen Mok's "frozen age" only to these external factors, it will be too one-sided.
So, what is Karen Mok's frozen age code?
Karen Mok's frozen age code: both internal and external
The outside world's evaluation of Karen Mok, in addition to "sexy goddess" and "queen of change", also has a title - "beauty madman".
She once revealed in an interview that she attaches great importance to maintenance, insisting on applying facial masks, doing spa treatments every day, and regularly going to beauty salons for professional care, which has been the same for decades and has never stopped. In addition, she is an out-and-out athlete.
Looking at her Weibo, you will find that she often posts photos of herself exercising, practicing yoga, and playing golf. She once said that exercise not only keeps her in shape, but more importantly, allows her to release stress and keep her body and mind happy.
And the habit of insisting on exercising all year round also gives her an enviable tight figure and upright posture.
In addition to external maintenance, Karen Mok pays more attention to internal cultivation.
She loves life and loves to try all kinds of new things. She loves traveling, photography, and music, and these hobbies keep her curious about the world and her passion for life.
She also attaches great importance to family life.
In 2011, Karen Mok married her first boyfriend in Italy. After marriage, she put more time and energy into her family and enjoyed the bland happiness of her husband and children. She said that her family is her greatest spiritual support, and it is her family that has given her unconditional love and support, allowing her to face various challenges in life bravely.
Some people may say that the reason why Karen Mok can live so freely is because she has become famous and no longer needs to run for fame and fortune.
But in fact, Karen Mok has never stopped pursuing her career.
She is still active on stage, bringing wonderful performances to fans. She is still trying different roles and challenging her acting skills. But she no longer works hard in pursuit of fame and fortune like she did when she was younger, but pays more attention to the quality of her works and her own feelings. She lives transparently and soberly, knows what she wants, and keeps working hard for it.
Chen Kun's "Midlife Crisis": Pressure and Challenges
On the other hand, Chen Kun, over the years, he seems to have fallen into a kind of "mid-life crisis".
Although he still maintains his handsome appearance and undiminished charm, the fine lines at the corners of his eyes and his tired demeanor still reveal his inner anxiety and uneasiness. As a popular actor in the entertainment industry, Chen Kun has maintained a high-intensity work rhythm over the years. filming, endorsement, and participating in variety shows...... He barely paused.
The high-intensity work pressure made him physically and mentally exhausted. And the brutal competition in the entertainment industry also made him feel pressure.
In this era of "traffic is king", he is over 40 years old, and he is no longer the most popular "little fresh meat" in the market.
He needs to work harder to keep his position. In addition to the pressure of his career, Chen Kun also has to face pressure from his family.
As a single father, he raised his son alone to grow up, and the hardships can be imagined.
And as his son grows up, he also faces more and more problems and challenges.
Career, family, age......
These practical problems pressed on Chen Kun's shoulders like mountains, making him breathless.
Perhaps, this is why, in the photo with Karen Mok, he looks so tired and vicissitudes.
In fact, Chen Kun's "mid-life crisis" is also a dilemma that many middle-aged people are experiencing.
When people reach middle age, their careers enter a bottleneck period, and their bodies begin to decline...... All kinds of pressures come one after another, and people are overwhelmed.
And this society doesn't seem to be friendly to middle-aged people.
"Greasy" "Middle-aged girl" "Greasy uncle"...... These labels, which have obvious derogatory connotations, are wantonly attached to middle-aged people, as if they are destined to be equated with "greasy", "outdated" and "outdated" when they reach middle age.
In such a social environment, middle-aged people are prone to anxiety and confusion. They don't know where to go or how to deal with life's challenges.
So, how can middle-aged people get out of this predicament and live their own wonderful life?
Perhaps, we can find some answers from Karen Mok and Chen Kun.
"Frozen Age" Apocalypse: Age is just a number
Karen Mok's "Frozen Age" tells us that age is just a number, and it doesn't determine our lives.
Even if we are over half a hundred years old, we can still maintain a young mindset and live our own wonderful life.
Chen Kun's "midlife crisis" reminds us that when people reach middle age, they must learn to adjust their mentality and actively deal with various challenges in life.
Instead of "lying down" and laughing, it is better to actively seek change and live your own wonderful life.
So, how can we do this?
1. Break through age anxiety: Accept who you are
First of all, what we need to do is to break the anxiety of age and accept our true selves.
Age is just a number, it doesn't define our lives.
Don't feel anxious and fearful as you get older, and don't be bound by social stereotypes.
Each age group has its own unique charm, and what we need to do is to "live in the moment and cherish the present".
2. Internal and external training: The secret of cultivating "frozen age".
Secondly, we should pay attention to both internal and external cultivation and cultivate the secret of "frozen age".
External maintenance is important, but more important is inner cultivation.
Maintain a young mindset and face life positively and optimistically; We must persist in learning and constantly improve our inner cultivation; It is necessary to cultivate healthy hobbies and hobbies to make life full of fun.
3. Live your own life: Find your own rhythm
Finally, we need to live our lives and find our own rhythm.
Don't blindly pursue the definition of "success" and don't be swayed by other people's eyes.
Everyone has their own life trajectory, what we have to do is to "never forget the original intention, we have to always", and take the road we choose.
Life is a marathon, not a 100-meter sprint.
Don't suffer from gains and losses because of temporary gains and losses, and don't lose yourself because of other people's eyes.
As long as we "have dreams and keep our feet on the ground", we will be able to live our own wonderful life.
This gathering in the alley is not just a simple dinner between celebrity friends, but also a mirror, reflecting different attitudes and lifestyles towards life.
It allows us to see the possibility of "frozen age", and also allows us to see the prevalence of "midlife crisis".
But more importantly, it provokes us to think about life: how do we define "success"? How do we deal with age? How do we live our "selves"? Perhaps, there is no standard answer to these questions.
But one thing is certain: there is only one life, we must "do it and cherish it", and live our own wonderful life!
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