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Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

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Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

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The 37-year-old actor married a 51-year-old agent: the public opinion storm caused by his father's birth

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

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In today's society, discussions about marriage and childbirth are becoming more and more frequent, especially when it comes to age and family expectations, it has attracted widespread attention, 37-year-old actor Xiao Jingteng married 14-year-old agent Lin Youhui, which was originally a moment worthy of blessing, but because of Xiao Jingteng's father's prompting remarks at the wedding, it became the focus of public opinion, this incident not only made people think deeply about the expectations of their parents and the choices of the younger generation, but also triggered a discussion on family, love and reproductive rights

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

The picture comes from the Internet

The age limit of love: who says you can't love each other?

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

The picture comes from the Internet

Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui's love story from acquaintance to love, after 16 years, their relationship is stable and deeply recognized by both parents, in the eyes of many people, the tenacity and beauty of this relationship is enough to transcend the boundaries of age, according to a recent study, age difference in love is not necessarily an obstacle, but may become a driving force for both parties to grow each other, this point of view is reflected in Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui's marriage, although Lin Youhui is 51 years old, is in menopause, but her relationship with Xiao Jingteng is still deep, Admirable

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

The picture comes from the Internet

When the father mentioned "giving birth" at the wedding, this happy atmosphere was instantly broken, and many people began to question whether the parents' expectations for young couples to have children were reasonable and whether they would invisibly put pressure on them, as one netizen said: "Respect the choice, not the birth" This remark has resonated widely, highlighting the diverse views of society on childbirth

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

The picture comes from the Internet

Father's prompting remarks: unintentional fault or deliberate pressure?

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

The picture comes from the Internet

Xiao Jingteng's father said at the wedding that he hoped that his son could add Ding as soon as possible, on the grounds that he was old and hoped to hold his grandson in his lifetime, which in the eyes of many people was not only a manifestation of father's love, but also an intervention in the life choices of young couples

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

The picture comes from the Internet

Many netizens expressed puzzlement about this, thinking that this kind of birth promotion seems to be a bit too strong, especially for 51-year-old Lin Youhui, the physiological risks of childbirth are obvious, medical studies have shown that women between the ages of 45 and 55, the probability of menopause has increased significantly, which greatly reduces the possibility of childbirth, therefore, it is undoubtedly uncomfortable to exert pressure in public on such a special occasion

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

The picture comes from the Internet

As a father, Xiao Jingteng's mood is also understandable, his starting point is to hope to see his grandson as soon as possible, but the method is not appropriate, many parents in the society in the face of their children's marriage and childbirth problems, often because of their own expectations and worries, and put pressure on the younger generation, this phenomenon is not an isolated case, but reflects the general contradictions in the current family relationship

Burst! 51-year-old Lin Youhui was born on the spot by Xiao Jingteng's father, and netizens commented: I'm going to be menopausal

The picture comes from the Internet

The Conflict Between Fertility and Family Expectations: A Pervasive Anxiety in Modern Society

According to data from the National Bureau of Statistics, more and more young couples choose to consider fertility after the age of 30, a trend that makes there is a clear conflict between parents' expectations for children and reality, and even leads to family conflicts in some cases

In Xiao Jingteng's case, his father's birth-inducing remarks not only challenged Lin Youhui's personal choice, but also made people reflect on whether childbearing should really be an inevitable requirement of marriage. Many young people believe that the happiness of marriage does not depend only on the birth of children, but also on the affection and support between husband and wife that is the core of maintaining the family, as psychologists say, the quality of marriage depends on the mutual understanding and support of both parties, not just quantitative indicators

Summing up this incident, the pressure of birth is not only a violation of personal choice, but also allows us to see the prejudice against fertility in modern society, reproductive rights are the basic rights of everyone, and only on the basis of respecting individual choices can the happiness and harmony of the family be truly realized

The true meaning of a happy marriage: children are not the only criterion

Returning to the marriage of Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui, their love story reminds us that a happy marriage does not have to be marked by the birth of a child, even if there are no children, the love and support between husband and wife can also make the marriage last, in today's society, the choice of fertility should belong to every couple, and any external pressure should not affect their decision

At the end, you might as well think about how to find a balance in the family relationship, both respect the expectations of parents, and insist on your own choice, after all, only when we truly understand the core values of marriage, in order to find their own happiness in the complex society, for Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui, their future not only depends on the birth of children, but also on each other's commitment and companionship, as they vowed at the wedding: "I will be with you for the next eight lifetimes", no matter what the future is, Their love has become a story of our time

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