Proper publicity can make people look up to you a few points, and even scare off those who want to make small moves behind your back.
However, when you retire, or on certain occasions, it doesn't make much sense to make a statement, and you may get yourself in trouble.
There are three things in particular, don't show them all over the place.
It's better to keep a low profile when it's time to keep a low profile, and don't keep trying to make others look up to you.
If you overdo it, not only will it be no good, but it will also be easy to burn yourself.
Timely convergence is the real wisdom.
01
Don't show your money to relatives and friends.
In real life, money is a sensitive topic, especially among relatives and friends.
If you have a little savings, especially in middle age, as soon as you show your wealth, someone will immediately target you.
When people ask about your income, assets, and pension, they are ostensibly concerned, but in fact, they are thinking about how to get some benefits from you.
My relatives and friends never knew how much money I earned, and I never told them about it.
Because once you say it, the borrowers and the autumn breeze all come to the door.
And the gossip will follow.
To put it bluntly, there are few people in this world who have a real heart, if you publicize it too much, you will only cause trouble for yourself, which is really not worth it.
Money matters are best handled in a low-key manner, neither to make people jealous nor to look down on you.
02
Your own children are better than others.
No matter how good your child is, there is no need to show off everywhere.
The result of showing off is often a lot of jealousy and gossip.
I know a neighbor who used to brag about how good his children were, how good his work was, and how good his children were when he met people in the past few years.
As a result, as soon as the children lost their jobs and went home to squat and eat soft rice, the surrounding discussions immediately sounded, and there was no stop at all.
You see, this is the end of Zhang Yang.
No matter how capable your child is, don't step on others to climb up.
One day Feng Shui will take turns, and you used to press on other people's heads, but in the end, you became the laughing stock of other people's backs.
Be low-key in what you say and do, after all, no one wants to be the object of ridicule.
In this life, don't be too arrogant, especially those who like to use their children's affairs to suppress others, once the car rolls over, the taste is much more uncomfortable than you think.
03
In front of your relatives, don't show that you're doing a particularly good job.
In reality, the smartest thing to do when dealing with relatives is to keep a low profile.
Don't always boast about how good you are, especially when you are materially beautiful, showing off will only get you into trouble.
When I was a child, my family was in good condition, but I didn't get any good looks from my relatives.
Jealousy is an emotion that everyone has, don't expect relatives to have no guilt.
I have an uncle in my family, who is a representative of jealousy.
When I was young, he pointed fingers at my family, and when I was admitted to university, he was even more red-eyed.
Not because of what I did, but because I was better than his children. You say, how annoying it is to be such a relative.
Therefore, when interacting with relatives, don't always talk about your material conditions and family achievements.
It's actually better for yourself to keep a low profile.
You are doing well, you just know it in your heart, there is no need to show off everywhere and make others blush.
When all that gossip flies all over the place, your life will no longer be quiet.
In reality, many people attach great importance to family affection, especially when they get older, and kinship seems to become more important.
But don't forget, human nature is complicated, and even relatives can be jealous.
So, it's a blessing to live well, and being low-key can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles.
Let my words come into your heart
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