Text/Lingling
Hayao Miyazaki said: Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stations on the way, and it is difficult for anyone to accompany you from beginning to end. When the person accompanying you is about to get out of the car, you should be grateful, even if you are reluctant, and wave goodbye.
Life is like this, all encounters are accompanied by parting, no one can accompany anyone forever, even if it is your family, one day will leave you. Even if it's your best friend, you always have to live your life.
Life is a journey, people come and go, keep meeting, and keep saying goodbye, no matter who you meet, everything is arranged by providence, no matter what the outcome is, we are all with fate.
The truth between people is that they will disperse when they walk, but despite this, we must face it calmly, learn to see it, learn to let go, and there is nothing that we can't let go.
I remembered that I had a friend who used to have a very good relationship, everyone was in the same place, from elementary school to junior high school to high school, they all studied in the same school, and I once said that we would be friends together for a lifetime and never separate.
But after arriving at the university, everyone is not in the same place or working in the same city, and gradually they lose contact. From the beginning of frequent contact to occasional messages, to no contact once a year, chatting has become simpler, so that all kinds of sharing to simple greetings, it has been seen that everyone's circle is different, their lives are different, and gradually there is no common topic, and it is impossible to meet together, so it is difficult to return to the previous mode of getting along.
No matter how deep the relationship was at the beginning, it will slowly fade away with the passage of time.
But I want to say to you, I'm glad to have met you in the sea of people, not necessarily for a lifetime, but for a journey. In my heart, you are still the best friend of my youth.
In fact, most people are the same, because they are not in the same place, because it is difficult to get together again, because their respective circles are different, so the contact is reduced, and finally there is no contact anymore when they walk.
Encounters are accidental, partings are inevitable.
The trajectory of life is different, the choice is different, the final destination will be different, between people, after all, it is a passerby, no one has to blame anyone, we all have to bless each other, stride forward, grateful to meet, live up to the meeting.
The relationship between people, in fact, has a time limit, the years are in a hurry, and some people are destined to be only passers-by, can only accompany you for a journey, but can not accompany you for a lifetime, and will walk and walk away.
Time is a big filter, and time will give you the answers you want. In this world of ups and downs, people come and go. Some people are far away, some people are closer, some people go, and some people come.
Before, I couldn't figure out why people change. So good friends will drift apart? Now I slowly understand that parting and impermanence are the norm, so please cherish what you have. What becomes just a human object, what does not change is the true temperament.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said, we were so eager for the waves of fate, and in the end we found that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually the calmness and calmness of the heart; We had been so hopeful of recognition from the outside world, only to realize in the end that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others.
In this life, gathering and dispersing are the norm, we must all learn to let go, learn to look down, go with the flow, and live our own lives.
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