There is a large wave of divorce in the countryside, of course, in addition to the breakdown of the relationship, these 4 reasons are the main culprits. These families are facing the tragic situation after the divorce, and they have tasted endless sadness, and they really feel helpless and have nothing to do.
Friends, have you been watching the news? There are so many young adults who have divorced in the past two years, and behind this kind of divorced family, there are really secrets that no one knows, in addition to the verbal personality incompatibility and lack of feelings, there are 4 reasons behind it.
The parties to these divorced families do not deserve sympathy, but they have affected his parents and children, and let these family members suffer with them, which is too unusual.
People like us before our age, when they encounter things, they can't publicize their ugliness, and they are embarrassed to mention the word divorce, for fear of being laughed at by others. Now these people are all over the city, and they are boiling. But he refused to give up. I wish the news of their divorce was publicized on TV everywhere.
It is estimated that they want to use their divorce to hype themselves up and make themselves Internet celebrities. The idea of our previous era was indeed a bit traditional feudal, but everyone has seen a few couples who are divorced, to say something unpleasant, even if it is a fight between two people.
What you should do will never be left behind, basically every family has several children, who has the heart to think about divorce. Like the group of people born after 809,000 now, what they advocate is that the price of love is more expensive, and the price of freedom is higher.
These people are the main force of the divorce army. In the past few years, I heard that there were many divorces among people in the city. In the past two years, the rural people have also panicked, and they have followed the trend all the way, and the frequency of divorces has skyrocketed. It's so selfish! Have you considered your parents' feelings? Where did you put your own children?
Like my brother's family, two daughters and a son, are on the verge of divorce, if nothing else, they all have to be divorced, I guess I haven't tried the pain after divorce, and many people also want to experience the days after divorce. What these people don't know is after the divorce.
Your parents and children can be said to be living in dire straits, we used to have a meal without a meal, so bitter, so poor, and we didn't have the heart to think about this, but now these people in their thirties and forties, their lives are really too good.
Just built a house to live in at home, and didn't even climb them to move a brick? It's really warm and hungry, and the heat is sleepy. There are mainly the following 4 reasons behind the divorce, friends take a look together, right?
The first reason, the popularity of mobile phones, although some people have found a wife on the mobile phone, but this mobile phone has caused many families to fall apart, there are too many beauties on the mobile phone, each of them is younger and more beautiful than their wives, after a long time, what is the wife who shares the joys and sorrows? Let's get a divorce.
The second reason is that parents manage too much, and most of the young people who are now divorced are only children, who have been spoiled by their parents since they were children, and at the same time have a kind of dependence on their parents, and the opinions of their parents are mainly on big and small things.
Some parents even leave their parents and don't know how to live anymore, and some parents just make decisions about everything and marry a daughter-in-law back, which doesn't work, and that doesn't work. What she didn't know was that they were also only children.
is also living a princess-like life, can she stand it if you treat your daughter-in-law like this? Besides, will the current daughter-in-law be afraid of her mother-in-law? You've got to coax them. After such parents manage too much, even if the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the son is good, they may also move towards divorce.
The third reason is to go out to work. The outside world is too exciting, the eyes are charming in the flowers, and some people are too young, how can they control it? But how can you survive on the one-third of an acre of land at home?
Working outside the home has led to many single men and women forming temporary couples, which is everywhere, because people are too young and have strong physical and physiological needs, and it is normal for this situation to occur. Therefore, husband and wife cannot be separated for a long time.
The fourth reason is the sky-high bride price. Some families are really stretched thin. However, the bride price that some people ask for is hundreds of thousands, and my friend's son got married on May Day, and I heard that the bride price was 580,000 yuan.
After getting married, you have to pay off your debts first, so it's quite sad. People don't marry into your family to endure hardship, and they don't have the right to dispose of their own wages, and some people can't stand it at all, and they make a chicken and dog jump all day long, and poor couples mourn everything.
In addition, there are quite a lot of strong women in this era, and the ability to make money is quite strong, if her man is not as good as her, that kind of waste is useless, she blurts out, and says that she is blind and has found such a wreck, this kind of blow some men can't stand it.
The above is the reason for the increase in the frequency of divorces. If you want to change this situation, you must have a correct concept of marriage, whether it is a man or a woman, you must not blindly ask for it, you must recognize that marriage is not a child's play. Marriage should be approached with generosity and tolerance.
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