In the final analysis, when it comes to the relationship between men and women, some women are born with a lot of energy, and they can attract all kinds of handsome guys and those men with good conditions.
In fact, if a woman is particularly good at these three aspects in the relationship between the sexes, the charm value is absolutely ridiculously high.
Even if they broke up, it could make the man think over and over again, as if he had been poisoned.
I have to admit that between people, there is a world of difference between people.
Especially in the relationship between men and women, this gap can be seen at a glance, and it can't be hidden.
01
How it looks.
The reality is such a cruel place, no matter what they say about "inner beauty", most people still have honest eyes and prefer to look at faces.
Appearance does have an advantage in mate selection, and that kind of eye-catching appearance will naturally attract many people of the opposite sex.
Just like a friend of mine, although she is not a big beauty, she is delicate and lovely, she is always accosted by someone when she walks on the street, and finally finds a husband with good conditions.
This is the law of "looking at faces" in reality, women with slender bodies and good faces are always more likely to receive attention.
But don't forget, a beautiful appearance is just a key to open the door.
When we look in the mirror every day, we will care about whether we have wrinkles and whether we have become fat, and this kind of attention to appearance is normal.
Becoming beautiful can indeed improve the relationship of the opposite sex, but it is not the only path to happiness.
Start by appearance, but if you want to go on steadily, you need to have other skills.
02
Personal conditions.
To put it bluntly, improving personal strength and emotional intelligence is more cost-effective than simply pursuing appearance.
No matter how beautiful you look, it will be taken away by time, but emotional intelligence and ability are things that can really make people stand on their feet.
Especially in marriage, a woman's financial resources and personal achievements often carry more weight than that face.
Women who have succeeded in the workplace and in life are always more attractive to men with a pattern.
In recent years, women with economic strength and status have become "fragrant and sweet" in the eyes of many men.
Adults want nothing more than a few things: money, good looks, status, and happiness.
is like those successful men in film and television dramas, looking for a young and beautiful partner on the surface, but in fact, they have to weigh the other party's economic conditions and strength.
Well, men, it's very realistic in the end.
Don't just stare at the face in the mirror, cultivating your financial ability and emotional intelligence is the key to making your life more stable.
This is the capital that can really add points to yourself, and it is more useful than simple appearances.
03
The emotional value is very high.
We are human beings who are inherently emotional creatures.
When falling in love and making friends, in the final analysis, they are all looking for an emotional resonance and comfort.
Who can make you have a moment of relaxation in the tired days, who can support you when you are down, such a person will naturally make people unforgettable.
A few days ago, I watched a drama, and the second female lead in it is actually not outstanding, and she is not even as beautiful as the heroine.
But the male protagonist misses her.
Because she will observe words and colors, and know when the male protagonist needs encouragement and comfort.
This emotional value is precisely something that many people ignore.
In reality, we often encounter this situation.
Getting along with some people is like communicating with a cold stone, no matter how enthusiastic you are, the other party is always indifferent, and after a long time, you will naturally get tired.
But with people who can give you emotional value, even if they are not so stunning, they can make you feel like a spring breeze inside.
This kind of getting along is not forced, but naturally attracted.
So, physical appearance can attract attention, but emotional value can retain people's hearts.
A long-term relationship does not depend on appearance, but on the feeling of mutual understanding and comfort.
Let my words come into your heart
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