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In the eyes of men, in fact, women are also graded, some women are suitable for general friendship, some women are suitable for confidants, some women are suitable for lovers, and some women are worth marrying home and loving for a lifetime.
For women, they all want to be pleasing to themselves, so they hope that they will become more beautiful, and they hope that they will be more able to attract men's eyes and get men's appreciation.
However, men are not the same, every man appreciates women differently, some men like beautiful women, some men like talented women, and some men like wise women.
Of course, no matter what kind of woman, she wants to be looked up to by men in love, and a man's high looks mean that he will respect her more, cherish her more, and care more about her feelings.
Many people say that when a woman falls into a love, she is most likely to lose herself, even if she is proud like a princess before, she will become humble when she really falls.
Although this statement is somewhat general, it is undeniable that women are indeed more emotional than men, easier to give their all, and invisibly occupy a humble position in love.
And those women who hold the bottom card in their hands are different, they have more capital to let men look up, easily occupy the active position in love, and hold men more firmly.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="10" > have the ability to love themselves </h1>
In fact, many articles have mentioned this topic, women should remember, no matter how much you love a person, no matter how much you want to give your all for him, first of all, don't forget to love yourself first.
When I was in college, there was a classmate, a very gentle girl, who even spoke softly and softly, but she did not expect that after meeting love, she was like a changed person.
The girl likes the senior of our grade, who has always been introverted, and she actually took the initiative to pursue the senior, and fortunately, she finally became the girlfriend of the senior.
At the beginning, the senior enjoyed her gentleness and thoughtfulness, but after a long time, after all, the foundation of his feelings for her was not deep, so he quickly changed his mind.
Feeling left out in the cold, the girl became a little crazy, always crying and stopping the senior on the way to class to ask for an explanation, and would be reluctant to eat, and gave him all the money she saved to buy gifts that the senior liked.
No matter how much her friends around her persuaded, the girl just wouldn't listen, because she was preoccupied with the impossible love.
The final result can be imagined, the senior did not change his mind, and even began to dislike her.
How can a girl who doesn't even love herself get the love of others? Only a woman who knows how to love herself well will exude charming charm and will be respected and appreciated by men, because no man is willing to become a sustenance for being attached to a woman.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > has its own personality traits </h1>
What kind of people are most likely to be ignored and forgotten? It must be a person without characteristics, when a woman has no characteristics in the crowd and only knows to go with the flow, then it is difficult for men to notice her, let alone love at first sight.
Although many men like more obedient women, but after a long time together, such women will make men feel bored and cannot arouse men's interest.
Because no matter what is said, men know that women will definitely agree, there is no novelty, no opinion, over time, it will make men less and less valued.
Women with personality traits are different, they can compete with men for red ears, and they can make sacrifices in order to stick to their principles.
But in the eyes of men, these performances of women will not anger them, but will make them begin to re-examine women, find women interesting, and even look up to women.
The more you please him, the more you obey him, the more he listens to him, he does not take you seriously, he thinks that you can recruit and swing away, and you have no importance in his heart.
But if you have your own personality, look spicy, but actually provoked his interest in you, even if you always work against him, he will feel that this is a kind of love in the mood.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" > has connotations</h1>
Are women with connotations attractive? Of course. How charming is it? Just look at the women who make men willing to surrender.
Lin Hui could not be forgotten because he let Xu Zhimo see her; Yang Dai let Qian Zhongshu love her all his life and willingly spoiled her; Deng Yingchao let Zhou Enlai, who originally did not intend to get married, see her and have a plan to get married.
A woman with connotations may not be beautiful, or she may be a very ordinary woman in the crowd, but after getting along with her, you can find the beauty in her.
Women with connotations are usually very knowledgeable, because she will constantly recharge herself and will not let herself be lazy all the time, so the accumulated knowledge is the source of her charm.
Women with connotations also have high emotional intelligence, know what to say on what occasions, and know how to preserve men's self-esteem in front of everyone, so men are respected at the same time, naturally they are willing to respect women.
A woman with connotations is like a breeze in the spring, gentle, and comfortable, and you feel that she may not be so important, but once she is not around, you will feel as if something is missing.
With such a woman, men will feel very insightful, more like a teammate who walks side by side, rather than a woman who only needs to coax and raise herself to pray for love.
When a man feels the changes that women bring to him, he will naturally look up to women, because he knows that she is worth cherishing and protecting himself.
Again, as the old saying goes, if you bloom, the fragrance will come.
If you want to be a woman that men appreciate, let men cherish, and let men love well, you must first let yourself have capital, whether it is external or internal.
Women become better, keep their own principles and bottom lines, know how to protect and take care of themselves, not just to wait for love, but to meet a better self.
When you stop losing yourself for love, you also understand what true love is, which is the emotion that will make you grow and become more perfect.
Using the simplest truth to think, if you want to be a noble woman, you must become confident and optimistic, psychologically strong; you want excellent men to love you, then you must first become a good woman; you want to get the respect of men, then you have to learn to respect men.
So, how to be a smart and attractive woman who can make men look up, have you learned?
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