In the entertainment industry, there are not a few stars with high emotional intelligence, and high emotional intelligence will not only bring good popularity, but also win the praise of the audience, is He Jiong not a living example?
Although everyone knows that high emotional intelligence is very pleasing, some artists have to find a new way to set up a "straight" persona for the audience. Indeed, this can indeed impress the audience, like the tranquility of the heroic personality, Na Ying, who has been praised, and does not stand still in the circle?
However, sometimes it is too blunt, but it plays the opposite role. Huang Zitao, a former member of EXO, has traveled all over the entertainment industry with his "cruel words", some people praise him for his true temperament, but some people comment that he is low emotional intelligence, and he has been in the entertainment industry for so many years, and has not grown at all.
☆ The first live broadcast with goods, and netizens "bar" on the ☆
At present, the wave of live broadcast sales is booming, and many celebrities have also begun to share the cake and participate in it. Huang Zitao, as a star with tens of millions of fans, showed his advantages in the first live broadcast, and it took only 4 hours for the turnover to reach 140 million.
A big reason for achieving such results is that the things he sells in the live broadcast room are very cheap, which also arouses the consumer psychology of many people.
However, because of this, coupled with his roaring style of carrying goods, some malicious comments have been brushed up, saying that he is cutting leeks, and even wants to report him. Huang Zitao finally did not press the patience, his fingers directly pointed at the camera, and began to fight back:
"You're going to sour me, I have everything you can't get!"
"You said I cut leeks, when the country was in trouble, I donated a total of 5 million, my brand clothing did not even have profits, I took all the shelves and donated to Henan, what have you done?"
"I don't make money who makes money? I earn money I give to everyone, who do you give the money you earn? ”
Although what Huang Zitao has stated is the truth, he has indeed done a lot of public welfare, but because of his not tactful wording, he has been complained about by some netizens. After all, as a public figure, his words do have a certain negative impact. As a result, the hat of "low emotional intelligence" was also buttoned on his head.
Looking back at Huang Zitao's previous "low emotional intelligence" words and deeds, it also made the comments go to a one-sided trend.
☆ In the face of seniors and friends, never be merciful under the mouth ☆
In the previous "Meng Detective", there was a program about Huan Zhu Gege, in the interaction, Huang Zitao would always dislike the acting skills of Na Ying and Sha Yi from time to time.
To this end, many netizens have taken out the film and television works he starred in to prepare him to punch his face, and also criticized Huang Zitao for being arrogant and arrogant and not knowing how to respect his predecessors. Even if some fans explain, he is like this, straight, and honest. But it also caused a wave of doubts: he has been debuting for so many years, and he still sells Geng Zhiren, is this not a low emotional intelligence?
In addition, in a live broadcast, Huang Zitao wanted to describe his friend during the live broadcast, originally wanted to say "SB", but fortunately he reacted quickly and immediately changed his mouth "This straight man sits on the sofa, you see him is particularly handsome." Friends on the side were also amused by him, although they did not know if they were from the heart.
In this regard, Huang Zitao also carried the label of "like to scold his friends".
☆ "Real on Earth" Huang Zitao, you need to know more about him ☆
But from the scene picture mentioned above, Huang Zitao will indeed give people a kind of "unreasonable", "aggressive", "low emotional intelligence" and "uncivilized" influence. But this is only a conclusion drawn from the perspective of a passerby, in fact, after a deep understanding of this person, it will give people a sense of contrast that is real and not contrived.
Just like the scolding with black fans in the live broadcast, he didn't care at first, but in the face of the crazy influx of malicious comments, no one would be able to sit still. Indeed, Changing yang mi may give a beautiful and seemingly civilized counterattack; He Jiong will also resolve the embarrassing and righteous response. Everyone has their own way of dealing with it, why can't Huang Zitao return it?
Moreover, under moral and legal conditions, he did not transgress the line. On the contrary, those who take advantage of others and say that others are hypocritical need to be weak-minded.
In addition, huang Zitao is not aggressive in dealing with seniors and friends. Like after ridiculing Na Ying and Sha Yi's acting skills, they will also calm their emotions in time, and they will also have the courage to admit their mistakes. In addition, Huang Zitao constantly jokes with the predecessors in the program in the program, but also to ensure the effect of the program, so it is understandable that this is mainly not excessive.
The same is true for friends, not to mention how deep the friendship "SB" hides in the brotherhood, the relationship of "friends" alone is enough to show that the two are very close, and it is understandable to joke and have no scruples.
And in reality, such a character often makes more sincere friends. After all, in complex interpersonal relationships and social environments, it is much better to tell the truth and not hide than to hide the opposite, although some words sound less beautiful.
Therefore, before fully understanding a person, never judge a person out of context. Just like Yang Chaoyue and Yu Shuxin, when many people first contact them, they will feel that they are very "fake" and deliberately sell people, but after slowly understanding them, they will find that in the great entertainment circle, they are more real star artists.
I also hope that netizens will not fully understand and understand Huang Zitao and other public figures before they have the impulse to criticize the idea, but also to wait and see the changes, through the phenomenon to see the essence, completely conclusive before making an evaluation, more goodwill. After all, as we ordinary people, in the face of malice, who does not want to fight back immediately?