"Charlotte Troubles", a romantic comedy starring Shen Teng and Ma Li, has brought countless laughs to hundreds of millions of viewers: Charlotte, who is full of money, Ma Dongmei, Who is sloppy and frustrated, Qiu Ya, who marries uncle, teacher Wang, who is skilled... Every character is so classic.
Under the cloak of comedy, Shen Teng also beats the noodles with a bowl of fennel that sheds tears while eating, trying to show us the emotional core of this film: reading a thousand sails, the original favorite person is around; the happiest life is actually between this bland and trivial.
Although this movie earned enough laughter and tears from the audience, it is quite enlightening, but after careful analysis, I found a very heartfelt truth: in Charlotte's love, there was never Ma Dongmei...
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Why?
At Qiu Ya's wedding, when Charlotte charged a big joke, Ma Dongmei couldn't bear to say these words:
"Qiuya is married, you are singing and dancing here, dressed like a feather duster, what are you doing?" Money do you earn? From graduation to now, you have been lying at home all day, and your limbs are about to degenerate! I go out to cup people during the day, go out to pedal three wheels at night, thinking that I can save some energy by changing motorcycles, you can pour well, you followed the parts of my engine with me. When we got married, there was no ceremony, and on the day of the wedding, you ate a sheep scorpion with me, and what are you wearing here now! ”
Although it is a comedy, These few words of Ma Dongmei, any wife listening to it, feels like a heartfelt marriage tragedy!
What kind of man did Ma Dongmei marry?
Don't work, don't make money, think about the first love goddess all day long, hear that the first love goddess is married, do not care about the hardships of the wife, and be generous with the part. When I married her, the whole process was almost chaotic, sloppy, and full of reluctance!
From getting married to living after marriage, Charlotte did not take on any family responsibilities, did not see any traces of happiness, and chose Ma Dongmei, more like a helpless choice of a life loser, rather than active admiration and pity.
Where did he ever love Ma Dongmei?
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Immediately after, this useless man, who lost all his face at the wedding of the first love goddess, luckily traveled back to the high school era, and in his dream he wanted to fulfill all the unfulfilled true wishes in Di Si's heart:
Beat the teacher out of anger, chase the goddess success, become talented, achieve fame, let the excellent student Yuan Hua, who has always been jealous, go to the sea to fork fish!
This is the real desire in Charlotte's heart, and the person he really loves has never been Ma Dongmei, but the goddess Qiuya!
When Ma Dongmei imitated Qiu Ya's outfit, Charlotte also described Ma Dongmei to "Qiu Ya": "Dong Mei is annoying, you see her voice, talking is like a cannon, it is far from you, you talk like a lark." Especially she walks, like riding a pig? ”
From beginning to end, Qiu Ya is the lark in the sky, and Ma Dongmei is the dog tail grass on the ground, in Charlotte's eyes, in her heart, it is a dislike for Ma Dongmei as the opposite sex, where is the shadow of his love?
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Of course, according to the needs of the plot, the goddess Qiuya must be blackened: only value money and do not care about Charlotte herself, cheating on her former male god Yuan Hua. This made Charlotte suddenly wake up: the original prosperity was over, and the person who was the best for him was Still Ma Dongmei.
However, if Qiu Ya is also really in love with Charlotte, feels sorry for Charlotte, and lives with Charlotte wholeheartedly, is there nothing wrong with Ma Dongmei?
From beginning to end, all I saw was Ma Dongmei as a spare tire who liked Charlotte, protecting Charlotte in various ways, and Charlotte was all kinds of dislikes, and finally they didn't know how to get married inexplicably!
The most infuriating thing is that when Charlotte suddenly woke up and returned to the hut they once had, she remembered Ma Dongmei's various kindnesses to him, but there was never a shadow of his dedication to this relationship!
The feelings between them have never been reciprocal, only Ma Dongmei's unilateral appreciation and admiration for Charlotte. Charlotte, on the other hand, was the goddess who couldn't reach it, and made up the days; when she reached the goddess but was split, she remembered Ma Dongmei's kindness to his dead heart!
Qiu Ya is the climax of Charlotte's love; Ma Dongmei can only be regarded as a safe reliance similar to his mother to him. He had passionately loved and appreciated the beauty and beauty of Qiu Ya, but in the end he still hoped to return to a warm harbor and return to a woman who loved her unconditionally.
He loves Qiu Ya and loves himself, but he has never loved Ma Dongmei!
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In the first half of the film, Ma Dongmei successfully shows us the miserable life of a woman who marries a man who does not love herself.
It is useless to try to move, there are his dreams in his heart, there are his feelings, you are the one who retreats to the second place, not painful, impatient, useless.
He will eventually think of your goodness, only after he has met his head in the emotional world; when he is accustomed to eating the taste of mountains and treasures and seafood and longing for plain truth. This long-lost miss, some women can get, some can never reach, more likely to be far behind.
Later in the plot, Ma Dongmei marries Dachun, the man who foolishly and has always admired and loved Ma Dongmei, and must have lived a better and more down-to-earth life than with Charlotte.
In such a life, there is a husband who truly loves and cherishes his wife, not a man like Charlotte, who has a white moonlight in his heart and is surrounded by difficulties.
In this world, emotions are more of the half-heartedness of smart people, and less of them are the single-mindedness of fools. This single-mindedness is the most beautiful and intelligent in a woman's heart.
In the vast sea of people and the twists and turns of emotions, the stories of Charlotte and Ma Dongmei are also staged in the life stories of many people:
Ma Dongmei once loved Charlotte passionately, but after years and months, she was finally hurt and disappointed;
Charlotte once enthusiastically longed for Qiu Ya, but got it, and it was just a dream of mirror flowers and water moons;
Charlotte wants to love Ma Dongmei again, but with the maturity of Ma Dongmei, all this cannot go back;
Before there is no Autumn Ya, after no horse Dongmei, Charlotte's life, after all, is to come and go in a hurry, empty-handed...
These sad stories also show the men and women in the red dust: dreaming, you can look up at the starry sky; but as a person, you must be down-to-earth!