In his book, Craigback mentions: Is it healthy to judge your interactions with your parents?
There's one easiest way to do this: Suppose you want to live with your parents for 30 days.
If you feel awkward, uncomfortable, anxious, angry. That shows that the parent-child relationship between you is problematic.
On the contrary, if it is happy and happy, then it means that the original family is very happy.
The family of origin is something that everyone cannot choose.
Miriam Yang said that when choosing a partner, we must look at the way each other and her family get along.
If you say that the original family is happy, Song Yanfei is absolutely enviable.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" > Miriam Yang has a close relationship with her in-laws</h1>
Yang Qianwei's in-laws appeared on camera, they were Ding Zigao's cousin Ding Zijun, cousin Luo Gan and his wife.
The people of Yang Qian's mother-in-law's family are very well-rounded and blessed, and they look very positive and sunny. Especially Ding Zijun, I didn't expect that he was actually a director in the second generation of the rich. Ding Zijun is also an actor, handsome in appearance, resembling Zhang Zhilin.
Ding Zijun's wife is auspicious as the bespectacled nurse in "The Curse of angels". Ding Zijun's two sons are very low-key, and they rarely participate in the program together.
Ding Zijun is a very naughty and simple big boy, and he will also let his cousin Ding Zigao record a video and send it to his wife Jixiang.
The relationship between Yang Qianwei and her cousin and daughter-in-law is also very good, and the two people work with tacit understanding.
Miriam Yang specially prepared a surprise for her husband Ding Zigao, which is the embodiment of the sense of ceremony. Since marrying Ding Zigao, she has become a woman with a sense of ceremony.
She will use her mobile phone to record this precious memory, afraid that she will not be able to remember it when she is old. Therefore, Miriam Yang likes to use images to record her current life.
Ding Zigao saw his wife's careful arrangement, and he gave Yang Qianwei a deep kiss. Turns out men also like surprises and romance.
Ding Zigao and Yang Qianwei are affectionate and affectionate, and they will also feed each other when cooking.
Three big men made a table in the kitchen, there were torn chicken, eggplant and pork chops, etc., the family members were very warm and harmonious, and there was no embarrassment or courtesy.
Miriam Yang is very envious of the people of the in-laws family who get along harmoniously, harmoniously and happily. She is more envious of Ding Zigao's mode of getting along with her parents.
A good birth family affects three generations. The relationship between Ding Zigao and his son is very equal, and when he reaches his alma mater in high school, he will write down his feelings and send them to his son, and communicate with his son in letters that every father can do.
Yang Qianwei's original family is not very harmonious, and she often regrets that she did not have time to spend with her parents when she was young, and even sent the worst temper to her parents.
Everyone is the same, everyone is accustomed to leaving the good temper to outsiders, and the worst temper to the people closest to them.
Miriam Yang is like this.
Since she married Ding Zigao, all this has changed. She began to improve her relationship with her parents a lot. A good marriage relationship is that partners influence each other, but also a mirror.
Yang Qianwei also called on young girls to look at the way their partners and parents get along before getting married. Because his mode of getting along with his parents is the daily life you will get along with in the future.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > Song Yanfei grew up living with her grandmother and grandmother</h1>
Song Yanfei's family is very happy, although Song's mother is still a full-time housewife, she is not very likely to cook.
Yang Di came to their house as a guest, and Song Yanfei and her mother actually entertained Yang Di with fast rice.
Compared with the intentions of Fei Qiming, it is obvious that the Song Yanfei family seems to have little respect for Yang Di, and even unfamiliar with it.
Laughter and laughter, this is the norm in Song Yanfei's family. A little thing can make them laugh, which is also the secret of family harmony.
Song Yanfei's mother is very open-minded, gentle and intellectual. She can also dance in front of the camera and is very confident and generous.
Song Yanfei's family is also a big family. I always thought that Song Yanfei's mother was a person with two sons and a daughter.
I didn't expect that you Song Yanfei grew up living with your grandmother and grandmother. Song Yanfei's mother revealed that she has been a big family since she was a child, and her mother-in-law and her own mother live together.
Under the same roof as her mother-in-law and mother-in-law, Mother Song has a secret, she tries not to let her heart be too tired.
She is very transparent, such as when the twin sons and daughter Song Yanfei quarreled when they were young, she basically did not intervene. In Song Yanfei's impression, the whole family is laughing and laughing, even if there are small things that are unhappy, they are laughed through.
Happy birth families are indeed the same.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="42" > good native family nourishes a lifetime</h1>
It is said that unhappy people will spend their lives to heal their childhood.
More unfortunate people also take the childhood of their own children to heal their own childhood. And, most unfortunately, this is the beginning of the cycle of misfortune.
However, a good family of origin nourishes a lifetime.
Let's take a look at Lu Kelan first. Lu Kelan grew up in a single-parent family from an early age, and was dependent on his mother, who later remarried.
Unexpectedly, when Lu Keran first debuted, his mother suddenly passed away.
The mother walked very suddenly, and there was no time to explain anything. The death of his mother also made Lu Kelan's sense of security disappear. Her mother was the most dependent person in the world, and at that moment she felt abandoned by the world.
This has also become a knot in Lu Kelan's heart. Since then, she likes to be alone and is no longer willing to communicate with friends.
She was alone and silently bearing great sorrow.
This was the harm left by the original family to Lu Kelan.
On the other hand, after Yang Qianwei married Ding Zigao, she made herself a better self, and through Ding Zigao's relationship with her parents, she reflected on her attitude towards her parents.
Song Yanfei belongs to the happy girl who uses childhood to nourish her life. A girl who grew up in a good family of origin, she is confident, secure, sunny, positive and full of love.
Song Yanfei was ridiculed for looking like a man and her face looked like a donkey. Ordinary people are very angry, but Song Yanfei is not angry, but thinks that the donkey is very cute.
Song Yanfei believes that to be an artist is to have a strong heart, and the biggest confidence given to her is a happy original family.
Song Yanfei has wanted to be a star since she was a child, and her parents are very supportive of her daughter's choice. They don't miss every performance of their daughter and silently watch her behind her back.
You are unique, go your way, be yourself. No matter how you do or how you perform, you are my dear baby and I still love you. This is the biggest support that Song Yanfei's parents give to their daughters.
Not all parental love is selfless, and not everyone can have a happy original family like Song Yanfei.
However, you can try to face yourself, try to heal and change step by step.
Learn to love yourself and let go of what you can't get.
The heart has sunshine, and everything is sunny.