Before watching "Detachment", many people said that they were depressed, but I didn't think so. Personal feelings, do not represent other people, this is my constant state, see this film, as if in the mirror, accustomed to it, for the lines in it deeply resonate, may be others feel depressed, because never found the essence of the world of the sudden feeling, or in fact has long been deeply involved in the turbine but do not want to recognize it!
The whole school is very dark, from the students to the teachers are not normal, there are their own difficulties, everyone is not easy. It's hard to see that the teachers are still very conscientious. The male actor is very good, but personally I think he has depression and the like. Because the shadow of the mother's suicide in childhood led to a depressed personality. Because there is no other suffering in his life except to take care of his incapacitated grandfather in the nursing home (it may be his father), he is already very happy compared to the person who is really in the dark.
However, because of his strong empathy ability, kindness adds the suffering of others to his own feelings. These include troubled adolescent students and bad parents, school teachers with difficult scriptures, and even underage prostitutes who are violent on buses. It was so kind to take her home, even the next day she brought the business back to his house... He didn't drive her away either, and finally he was a good person.
Most of the time, society lacks "emotional education", which is something that schools, teachers, and parents have never taught us. Everyone grows up with a different emotional language, and perhaps we should spend more time understanding the differences with others, which is a language that is completely different from ourselves.
In short, breaking free from difficulties and boundless suffering is the eternal theme that runs through life! Since the body is always floating in the sea of suffering, the soul cannot be liberated, and the protagonist's self-salvation is not complete, so the spiritual reshaping can be liberated in reality.
The only thing we can do is lament the badness of life. Henry's childhood memories are always interspersed in the film, the face of his mother, the young him. In fact, he had been running away until the girl's death. Everyone is running away from some of the facts. It seems that through this, I was able to spy on some of the emotions that had been placed in the corners by me, us, and us.
Struggle, indifference, ruthlessness, even you can't save yourself, how to save others. Suddenly thinking of the record of the palace pavilion last year's carnival night, can we find the real self?
What can we do to get us a breath in this endless suffering, whether to become more numb or more awake. I don't know if I would one day be numb and become a walking corpse, but if I were to be sober again, I would not be able to bear the pain of being human and eventually suffocate. So I sometimes numbly cajoled myself, and sometimes soberly burst into tears.
The hug at the end of Henry and Erica is the only consolation under the repression of the dark clouds, but unfortunately he can't be with her forever, so is this what detachement means? Staying detached and giving love, even though it may be more painful to be stripped away after they have received it, like a suicide melith.
The meaning of education is difficult to achieve in the collapsed group, and whether the film also calls on us to pay attention to the small number of groups under the clouds, the various mutilated children who cannot grow up healthily brought by unqualified parents, and the shaping power of education.
Maybe we are born to defeat people, but what we need to do is to draw strength from the outside, rather than hollowing ourselves out inward, and closing our emotions will not solve the problem. Thoughts are very chaotic, mood is very chaotic, this time is very chaotic, and I also look forward to a beam of light that can become the salvation of my life, but I can't become passive in waiting, and I must also learn to take the initiative to save myself.
In fact, I have always been more resistant to watching this type of film, so I chose a relatively stable state to watch, when I saw the moment of the sad face cake, I even expected the plot that would happen later and burst into tears. It's not as simple as sadness, it's a strong sense of repression and complex substitution, and I always believe that people are born lonely. And can not accept the theory of salvation between people, anyway, in the end to leave, what is the difference?
"You always look so sad" but try to warm people in pain, sometimes can't change anything. To redeem everyone without any prejudice, everything will be fine, will everything be fine? I understand very well the feeling that the flame of hope burns to the extreme but suddenly goes out, and may prefer that hope never be lit.
When I turn myself into a blank, I have no feelings to hurt you anymore, I am just a poor insecure, afraid to experience all the enthusiasm in life, please do not redeem me, let me become my own island, separated from the soul, only to travel to and from the world with an empty shell.
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